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Shirley Wade Obituary
Oct. 8, 1933 - April 22, 2025
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our loving mom, grandmother, great-grandmother, best friend and second mom to many of our friends. Shirley was predeceased by her husband, Everett "Putt" Wade, and her parents, Esther Eliason Hamilton DeGraff and Samuel Raughley Hamilton; brothers: Hammy, Raughley, Ernie and Eddie. She is survived by her daughters, Kathy Wade (Allan); Barbara Wade Johnson; Cindy Wade Wolfram (David); Ginny Wade-Fralick (Rob). Grandchildren, Kortney, Tavis, Liam, Ava and Chloe, and great-grandchildren, Lee and Kolbie.
Shirley was born and raised in Portland, CT. A skilled seamstress, she loved creating and designing wedding gowns while working alongside her daughters. She enjoyed traveling and vacationing with her family; making Christmas pierogies; baking for family gatherings and always keeping everyone happy. She was quick with a joke and loved to tease.
The family would like to thank the wonderful staff at Waters Edge Care and Rehabilitation for the care, kindness and support they provided to our mom during her last years.
Calling hours will be at Trinity Church, 345 Main St., Portland, on May 1st at 9:30 a.m., followed by a service at 11 a.m. Burial will be in the Swedish Cemetery, Portland. In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution to the American Diabetes Association. The Portland Memorial Funeral Home, 231 Main St., Portland is in charge of arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
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Lynn Rossi
May 3, 2025
I am not sure which location my condolences were sent. I will be following up with a card. My deepest sympathies! I hope you receive all of the message. The information for the service, I did not see soon enough to attend. Regrets, Lynn
Lynn (Merk) Rossi
May 3, 2025
My deepest condolences to all of you, Kathy, Barabara, Cindy and Ginnie, for your mom. Many decades ago, your mom was the 4-H leader where I learned how to sew and cook. Our first cooking project was "Apple Nobby Cake." What I didn't eat of the raw batter went in the oven to take home! Sewing I remember was a challenge! Those zippers and bottom holes, frustrating without the help of your mom, an apron, then an A-line shift dress to be modeled at a fashion show in Middletown.
Your grandmother lived next door at the time and we also did ceramic projects. I remember making three beautiful angels for my mother, Beverly Merk, for Christmas one year. Your mother painted the eyes...and another time I remember having a contest of some kind: I do not remember specifically. We may have been hunting for Easter eggs filled with candy and chocolates. It was near Easter. The prize was this beautifully painted bigger than life-size ceramic bunny! Kathy won the Easter bunny. Your mom was always so much fun. I spent many visits at your home when I was in grade school, (Central and then Gildersleeve Schools) and have many warm memories of all of you, except Ginnie? I think I was in high school or college by the time Ginnie was born. My thoughts are with you. I regret having missed your celebration and services for your Mom. Will be sending a donation to American Diabetes Association. Love and hugs to every one of you! Lynn
Maura Dillon
April 28, 2025
I have very fond memories of Mrs. Wade - she made my beautiful wedding dress! May she rest in peace.
Maura Bransfield Dillon
Karen and Joe Labbadia
April 26, 2025
To all of Shirley´s girls Joe and I send our deepest sympathy on your Mom´s passing. I have fond memories of family picnic and gatherings years back. She always greeted me with that beautiful smile whenever I ran into her around town, and always asking about family.
May your many wonderful memories bring you peace.
Beverly Towns
April 26, 2025
To Shirleys
She was my neighbor at Luther Ridge and as a former resident from Portland we had much in common.
She was very kind to me
May God be with you at this time of grieving and always
We miss her at Luther Ridge as one of our BINGO players
Beverly Towns.
Rose Kivlin
April 25, 2025
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Sharon Godwin Purzycki
April 25, 2025
My heart goes out to all of you on the loss of your Mom. I have many memories from long ago at your home when we were kids. She will always be with you in your heart. Sending prayers and comfort.
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