Barbara Elaine Nelson

1945 - 2022

Barbara Elaine Nelson
March 8, 1945 - April 15, 2022
Modesto, California - Barbara Elaine Nelson (Reid) of Modesto, California, passed away suddenly and peacefully with all of her family by her side at Memorial Medical Center on April 15, 2022.
Barbara was born on March 8, 1945, to Walter and Jeanette Reid in Modesto, California. She was the second born child of the family; preceded in birth by her brother, Ken Reid of Modesto.
Barbara was an honored queen of the International Order of Job's Daughters, and a past member of the Senior Phi Gamma Charity Club. She graduated from Downey High School and attended Modesto Junior College before she wed her high school sweetheart, James Thomas Watson of Modesto.
Barbara and James had three children together; Melinda Michelle Trevino (Watson), Cynthia Colette Watson (who passed shortly after she was born), and James Thomas Watson Jr. of Turlock. In addition to being a devoted mother, Barbara was a Principal's Secretary for Modesto City Schools for 26 years through retirement. Barbara was adored by many friends, co-workers, and students within the district.
In 1982, Barbara married Larry Nelson of Modesto and moved out to Larry's family homestead in the country. Country life created new hobbies for Barbara; she became an avid gardener, home renovator, and entertainer extraordinaire. A full house, no matter the occasion, brought her so much joy. She was the greatest host; never allowing an empty plate or glass, and always serving a great dining experience. Larry passed away in 2006 and Barbara continued to live at the lovely ranch for the remainder of her life.
In retirement, Barbara really enjoyed her volunteer work with Community Hospice of Modesto and spending time with her children and grandchildren. She hardly ever missed a game, or a wrestling match, and she was always the best cheerleader. Barbara also enjoyed time spent with her friend, Joe Avelar, and her grief recovery support group. They would travel, attend events, and entertain one another at any given opportunity. In 2008, Barbara received all of her Catholic sacraments at Our Lady of the Assumption Catholic Church, and Joe was her sponsor.
In life, Barbara was the most compassionate and selfless person. She had the ability to carry on a conversation with just about anyone and always saw the best in everyone she met. Barbara was smart, eloquent, business savvy, kind, patient, and so much more. She will be greatly missed by many.
Barbara was preceded in death by her parents, Walter and Jeanette Reid; her daughter, Cynthia Colette Watson; her grandson, Adrian Trevino; and her in-laws.
Barbara is survived by her daughter, Melinda Trevino (Roy); son, James Watson (Angela); five grandchildren, Anthony Belerique, Allie Lahman (Jeramy), Benjamin Watson, Elijah Watson, Elisabeth Watson; one great grandchild, Dominik Trevino; brother, Ken Reid (Gayle); niece, Corrie Fuhr (Steve); nephew, Ron Reid (Amy); many friends and her dearest friend, Joe Avelar.
In honor of Barbara, a Rosary and Mass will be held at Our Lady of the Assumption Catholic Church, 2602 S Walnut Rd, Turlock, CA 95380, on Friday, April 29, 2022, at 9:30 am followed by a reception. All family and friends are welcome. For those who cannot attend in person, here is a livestream link of the service: www.YouTube.com/lusomedia
In lieu of flowers, Barbara's family welcomes donations to Community Hospice as an expression of sympathy.