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Gary Engelhardt Obituary

Gary Lee Engelhardt
August 31,1953 - March 27,2019
Gary Engelhardt (Cal) passed away unexpectedly March 27, 2019. He was born in Augsburg, Germany on August 31, 1953 to Marguerite and Charles Engelhardt. He was the fourth of six children. As a child Gary found a strong love of sports, baseball being his favorite. Although he was a shy child, he had a great sense of humor and was a bit of a daredevil.
He attended Modesto High School then began working in construction. He became the designated handyman whom everyone called to help with repairs.
He worked for multiple housing developments including Florsheim Homes. Over the last few years he worked for NPSG Global as a Project Manager where he was given the opportunity to live all over the US- including New York, Las Vegas, and Orlando.
As a young man Gary spent some time living in Tahoe, then Alaska where he mined for gold. At 16 he met Patti Eidschun, they later married in 1990, and began a family soon after.
Gary loved cheering on the North Carolina Tar Heels, San Francisco Giants, and Dale Earnhardt Sr. and Jr. His favorite singer was Elvin Bishop and loved watching Lonesome Dove, The Andy Griffith Show, or any old western movie. He developed a passion for drawing and loved to share that with his children. He was a man of Wranglers and cowboy boots with a quick wit and big heart.
Gary is survived by his three children Cheyenne Engelhardt, Dylan Engelhardt, Kody Engelhardt; grandchildren, Hunter and Kelsey Howard; Patti Engelhardt; siblings, Bill (Susan) Engelhardt, Robin (Connie) Engelhardt, Eve Edwards, Sue Ann (Kenny) Wilhite, and Richard (Mardie) Engelhardt; and many nieces and nephews. A private family celebration of life will be held at a later date.
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Published by Modesto Bee on Apr. 9, 2019.

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John Warburton

April 3, 2023

My Condolences To Patti & Family,Bill,Susan,Robin Connie,Eve Sue & Kenny. Gary To Me Was One Of The Greatest Friend Anyone Could Ever Have. We Had Great Time Seeing Who Was The Best Wide Receiver On The Football Field. He Was One Hell Of A Competitor, I Loved His Smile , Even If Didn't See All The Time He Would Go Out Of His Way To Come Over & Say Hi ! & Shake Your Hand Or Give You A Hug , I Always Looked Forward To See Him,When Ever We Rounded Everyone Up To Play Baseball or Football.I Loved Him As A Brother & A Forever Friend. BROTHER I WILL DEEPLY MISS YOU , BUT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART AND MEMORIES, GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER. LOVE JW & FAMILY, I HOPE WE WILL MEET AGAIN IN HEAVEN JW

John Warburton

January 30, 2021

Gary ,Was One of The Greatest Athletes l Had The Pleasure to Play With , What A Great Competitor He Was , l Will Always Have You In My Heart & Memories, God Bless You and Your FAMILY . You Will Be Truly Missed ,Love You BROTHER

Dayle Crook

April 3, 2020

Though it's been a year since you passed Gary, you are still in our hearts. We will never forget you.

Joanne Flinders

April 15, 2019

My condolences to the Engelhardt family. I new Gary in high school and was always very fond of him. He was so sweet. It saddens me to know that he is gone so soon. Rest in peace Gary.

Dayle Crook

April 12, 2019

Gary I met you when I was eighteen and you always kidded me about Greg Allman. I regret not reconnecting with you over the years. My prayers for your family Eve, Sue, Kenny,Richard, Mardie,Patti, your children and most of all your precious grandchildren. May Jesus lay his loving hand on you and may God bless the Engelhardt family.

Jacqueline Kilgore/Wristen

April 9, 2019

Richard ( Dickie) I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Gary. I know you have our Lords ear and shoulders but that does not make things easy,,, so lean on Family, Friends and also the loving arms of our Lord. You and the Family will be in my Prayers and in my Heart...Jaci

Don Hayes

April 9, 2019

So many fun childhood memories of Gary. We had a blast. My condolences to the Englehardt Family. I'm sorry for your loss.

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