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Harold Lavern Conkey

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Harold Lavern Conkey obituary, 1924-2025, Modesto, CA

BORN

1924

DIED

2025

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Eaton Family Funeral & Cremation Service

513 12th St

Modesto, California

UPCOMING SERVICE

Memorial Service

Sep. 6, 2025

2:00 p.m.

Trinity Presbyterian Church

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Harold Conkey Obituary

Harold Lavern Conkey

January 19, 1924 - August 1, 2025

Modesto, California - Harold Lavern Conkey was born January 19,1924 in Oelwein, Iowa. He passed away peacefully on August 1, 2025 at Cohen Hospice House,.

Hal served honorably in the U.S. Air Force from 1949-1953 and was discharged as a staff sergeant.

In 1956 Hal married Bonnie Burgher and they had two children, Cathy and Craig. The family moved to Modesto to start a dental lab business with partner Virgil Gallo , Galcon Laboratory. Hal was a certified dental technician for forty-six and a half years.

Bonnie died in 1964. Hal met Lucy, a widow with one daughter, and they were married in 1966.

Hal joined the Modesto Kiwanis in 1964 and was an active member for fifty years. He also served on the Moband board for 23 years.

In retirement Hal and Lucy traveled to many countries, including Switzerland, Italy, Ireland and Scotland. Also during retirement Hal was a member of Korean War Veteran Assoc., SIR 144/.

Hal had a passion for airplanes, and owned a small four place Cessna for several years. He was an avid history buff, documented the history of the U.S. presidents which he enjoyed sharing with everyone he met. He also researched his family roots that originated in Scotland and Ireland.

His life was a testimony of curiosity, resilience, and community service.

Hal is survived by his loving wife of 59 years, His daughter Cathy (Hal) Porter. son Craig (Tammie) Conkey, stepdaughter Annette (Michael) Pereira and four grandchildren.

A memorial will be held September 6th, at 2 p.m. at Trinity Presbyterian Church.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Moband, Modesto Symphony Youth Orchestra, and Modesto Kiwanis Scholarship Fund.

Hal was laid to rest at San Joaquin National Cemetery.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Modesto Bee from Aug. 13 to Aug. 24, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Harold Conkey

Sep

6

Memorial service

2:00 p.m.

Trinity Presbyterian Church

CA

Funeral services provided by:

Eaton Family Funeral & Cremation Service

513 12th St, Modesto, CA 95354

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Michael Walters

August 16, 2025

Cathy and Craig my condolences to you and your father's family. In all my crossed paths with your dad I found him an intelligent and always a true gentleman. After we had taken a flight together our visits always became personable and reason to stop and yak some. May you and your families find peace with his passing...100 hundred years was a life well lived. Always very proud of his children. May he rest in peace... respectfully Michael Walters

Al & Vera Girolami

August 16, 2025

Lucy, Craig and family . Hal was one of the best neighbors we ever had. He had a wonderful long life and will be missed. May he Rest in Peace.

Jeanne seeley

August 15, 2025

I worked "around" Conkey for many years in his lab on College Ave. He was always willing to do any adjustments needed quickly for our office. I ran into him from time to time and he always remembered me. Nice man

Dick Hagerty

August 14, 2025

Hal was a great friend since we first met at Kiwanis in 1967
Always upbeat with a cheerful greeting and smile
We met often after church at Trinity and discussed ways to make Modesto a better place
Many great memories of a special guy

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