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Jeff as a baby
BEVERLY RAMOS
May 23, 2008
HI SON, TODAY IT HAS BEEN TWO MONTHS SINCE YOU LEFT US TO JOIN OUR LORD. I WISH I HAD TOLD YOU MORE THE LAST DAY WE TALKED ON GOOD FRIDAY! I KNOW YOU KNEW HOW MUCH I LOVED YOU BUT I WISH I HAD TOLD YOU MORE LIKE I USE TO WHEN YOU WERE A CHILD AND YOUNG ADULT. I MISS ALL THE TALKS WE USE TO HAVE MANY YEARS AGO, WHEN YOU ALWAYS ASKED FOR MY ADVICE ABOUT SO MANY DIFFERENT THINGS ABOUT YOUR LIFE. I KEEP HOPING IN TIME IT WILL GET EASIER BUT I HAVE TALKED TO MANY FRIENDS THAT HAVE LOST THEIR CHILDREN AND THEY SAY IT DOESN'T REALLY EVER GO AWAY! I GUESS THAT MEANS THAT I REALLY LOVE YOU VERY MUCH, SON. MY FONDEST MEMORY IN LIFE IS THE DAY YOU WERE BORN!!!!!! LOVE YOU YOUR BIRTH MOM BEV XOXOXOXOXOXO
MY UNCLE
Nicholas Ramos
May 23, 2008
Uncle,
Tonight grandma(your mom),Grandpa(your dad), and I each wrote letters on a ballon and let it go to heaven in hope that you would get it and read it.the pain is starting to seep in. Im sad that im never going to see you for a long time. I have a lot of fond memories of you coming over to our old house and telling me to finish the sentence. You'd say,"The cow says______?" I'd say"Moo!" Then you'd say,"The dog says______?" I'd say,"Bark!" Then finally say,"SON OF A____?"I'd say"Biscuit!" I just wanted to tell you how much i miss you.
P.S. We love you
GEORGE RAMOS
May 22, 2008
SON, ITS BEEN 2 MONTHS SINCE YOU WENT TO BE WITH OUR LORD. I THINK OF YOU EVERY DAY AND PRAY TO THE LORD EVERY NIGHT KNOWING I'M TALKING TO YOU AS WELL. IT'S TRUE THE ONES THAT OUR LEFT BEHIND HURT THE MOST. I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY THE LORD PICKED YOU, HE COULD HAVE TAKEN ME AND LET YOU HAVE A FULLER LIFE, BUT WE ALL KNOW NOT TO QUESTION THE LORD. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU EVERY DAY, UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN SON. I LOVE YOU SON. DAD
Beverly Ramos
April 24, 2008
To our son Jeff, Every night when we go to bed when we pray we think of you as we do each morning! We miss you so knowing we won't see you here on earth but again some day when we join you and Jesus. Son, rest in peace with our lord!!! We love you so much Jeff. Love your mom and dad and family.P.S. Your dad says we did'nt know how hollow our lives would feel with you gone. Also your sister wants you to know she is getting married and doing well. Mom
Mrs. Jeffrey Todd Ramos
April 24, 2008
My Loving Husband:
I miss you terribly, this does not seem real! I have met with our Pastor numerous times and have a Christian Grief Counselor and she is wonderful. I know beyond a doubt that you are with our Heavenly Father, I also know that your happy and that your long missed Grandparents met you at the gates. I will forever long to be with you and when that day comes all glory will be given to GOD! I will continue to instill our shared values and wants for all of our children. We have all made a promise to honor your memory in everyday that GOD allows us to live, we will continue to make the Ramos name, a name of honor and character just as you were. I have inclused a scipture that was one you looked to for comfort regarding your Grandparents. Until we meet again my one and only love, your honored wife!
1 Thessalonians verse 13-18
13Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, or to grieve like the rest of men, who have no hope. 14We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. 15According to the Lord's own word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left till the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. 16For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. 17After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. 18Therefore encourage each other with these words.
BEVERLY RAMOS
April 22, 2008
TO MY FIRST SON JEFF, MY HEART BREAKS WHEN I REALIZE MY FIRST BORN IS NO LONGER HERE ON THIS EARTH, I CAN'T DESCRIBE THE PAIN IN MY HEART. I KNOW YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE BUT I GUESS I AM SELFISH AS I DIDN.T SPEND AS MUCH TIME AS I WANTED WITH YOU, THE FIRST 32 YEARS OF YOUR LIFE WE WERE SO CLOSE I HAVE ALWAYS MISSED THE LONG TALKS WE USE TO HAVE JUST ABOUT ANYTHING THAT WE WANTED TO DISCUSS. I WILL ALWAYS MISS YOUR SMILE AND LAUGH. I AM SO SORRY WE DRIFTED APART! I LOVE YOU SON AND AM TRYING TO MAKE SINCE OF THIS WE USE TO BE SO CLOSE WHEN YOU WERE YOUNGER. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH FOREVER UNTIL I'M WITH YOU AGAIN SON. I LOVE YOU YOUR'E MOM.
Dylan Ramos
April 22, 2008
Just a boy walking with my head down with no real joy until
You came around……
You seemed larger than life to a small boy who wanted so much
For you to be the force and his light……
Sometimes it’s not easy being a dad in this life with all the bills,
Kids, Boscoe and a wife……
I know when you yell & get mad you are really teaching me
How to grow up to be a good man…..
I know that when I grow up you will see what a good man of
Character that you taught me to be……
I love you dad with all of my heart and I know beyond doubt
We will never be apart….
I’m making you a promise that I’m never going to break –
My respect, my love and my loyalty – no one will ever shake!
Thank you for choosing me as your son! I love you dad!
Dylan Ramos
2005
Dylan and Ashley
Dylan Ramos
April 22, 2008
Just a boy walking with my head down with no real joy until
You came around……
You seemed larger than life to a small boy who wanted so much
For you to be the force and his light……
Sometimes it’s not easy being a dad in this life with all the bills,
Kids, Boscoe and a wife……
I know when you yell & get mad you are really teaching me
How to grow up to be a good man…..
I know that when I grow up you will see what a good man of
Character that you taught me to be……
I love you dad with all of my heart and I know beyond doubt
We will never be apart….
I’m making you a promise that I’m never going to break –
My respect, my love and my loyalty – no one will ever shake!
Thank you for choosing me as your son! I love you dad!
Dylan Ramos
2005
Jeff & Greg Memorial Day 1970
April 22, 2008
Rest in peace PaPa! I love you!
April 22, 2008
1970 Jeff & Greg Memorial Day w/ Grandma & Grandpa Schippers
April 22, 2008
Happy Jeff
April 22, 2008
Dylan and Ashley
April 22, 2008
Jeff, Boscoe, and Ashley
Laurie Ramos
April 22, 2008
To Bev, George, Gregg & Michelle:
Thank you so very much for alloowing me to share my life with your son and brother. He was by far the most beautiful man I have ever met inside and out.
I am proud to call him my husband and my children's father. We all share a common bond. We loved the same man. To my husband, 30 days to the day and it still feels like a nightmare. I miss you and love you so much. When I close my eyes you are still there with your smile and tenderness. There are no good-bye's, I'll see you in heaven babe!
Laurie
Dad and Jeff at the lake
April 22, 2008
Greg & Jeff poundin beers @ Lake Hogan
April 22, 2008
Dad & Jeff being together
April 22, 2008
Jeff & Greg at the lake havin fun.
Greg Ramos
April 22, 2008
The Ramos Brothers & Dad
One of the great times in life we had together.
Love and miss you.
Jeff, Michelle & Greg 1971 brothers & sister
Greg & Michelle Ramos
April 22, 2008
Jeff,
Brothers & sister are forever.
Brothers & sister share a special bond,
Like our blood,
The love of a brother & sister is Thicker than water.
Friends will come & go,
And relationships will drift apart,
But brothers and sister we are forever.
The sun will rise in the east ,
And set in the west,
We will still be brothers and sister.
The seasons will change,
Spring,summer,winter & fall,
And we will still be brothers & sister.
What God has ordained,
No man can change.
Brothers & sister Forever.
We will love and cherish you,our big brother Jeff for the rest of our years in life. Untill we meet again in paradise, your little brother and sister Greg and Michelle.
LAurie Ramos
April 21, 2008
My Dearest Jeff, I am finding that the days that are passing are getting alot harder, I am not as strong as you kept teelling me I was. I think of your parents everyday and have called them as well. We are all hurting without you. I know that you are at peace and your eyes are as filled with joy to see the face of God as they were when we married. I will Live my life alone with you in my soul however, I will live my life to make you proud. You know that was always important to me, that you were proud of me and all of the kids. I'm not sleeping to well but I do have your favorite tank top forever under my pillow. I pull it out and it has your scent which was beter than any fufu water you ever wore!!! haha! You are greatly missed by all and I will love and miss you forever, I'm so proud that we kept our vows, and had the kind of love that most people never experience. You are and always will be the most beautiful man I have EVER seen AND THE best husband, father and son, and brother any of us could ask for. I love you soooo very much and I miss you like crazy! Forever your wife!
Laurie
george ramos
April 21, 2008
Jeff, This will be the last letter I write in your guest book. Your mom and I made a special place in your memory for us to go talk to you even though we know you are with the lord, it still gives us somewhere to go talk with you, we placed it close to the waterfall you moved for us. It's real quiet and serene and we can talk to you there anytime day or night! Yesterday the family were going through photos of your brother and sister and you all through the years. We all have such good memories of you growing up. We had a lot of good times as well as not so good times just like other families. We posted a photo of our family on Christmas day 1976 we accidently thought it was 1977 but later discovered it was earlier. Also the day your girls were born was very special time. Going to Lake Tahoe in May of 1996 for your wedding to Laurie. We took you to the lobster buffet and we couldn't believe how many you could eat. We were proud to stand up for you and Laurie. Well son I figure you are looking down on all of us wanting to let us know that you are at peace and happy with our lord and savior. I know that you know we all love and miss you so much. Until we are together again son. All our love your dad and mom. xoxoxo P.S say hi to all our other loved ones.
to our dearest son and brother we love you forever dad mom greg michelle 12/77
April 20, 2008
George Ramos
April 18, 2008
Son, Since you have went to be with LORD, people have come foreward to let your mother and myself know what kind of son we raised You were always there to help us or your grandparent. It came as no surprise that you were kind to peopleyou just met and became famely with. We would come home after a day of shopping and if you were not doing something else we came home to a clean house and a hot meal because you loved to cook." thats onething I think you got from me or your grandmother. Your love for others was great you left behind a brother and sister and their famlies not to foreget your two beautiful daughters who miss you with all their hearts, plus not to talk about you two wonderfull sons you help raise. One thing lets not forget is your mother-in-law you where her son from the getgo doing anything even cooking a dinner for her just anything to make things easy for her. This is why you are missed by all son your mother and dad will miss you and are very proud of you God bless rest in pease we miss you and are very proud of you God bless . LOVE MOM & DAD
My awesome Husband and I in Mexico
Laurie Ramos
April 15, 2008
Baby, today has been really rough, I am back at work full time only because I know thats what you would want. I was remembering the night before you passed. We were dancing in the kitchen because it was the weekend, then we hit the couch and cuddled while watching dateline. You told me you loved me and I told you I loved you more you responded with, "you have no idea how much I love you." That will remain with me forever! Dylan is trying really hard to focus, his anger comes one minute, tears the next. I remember how we were so looking forward to having "Papa's princess" on Saturday night, she sure misses you, that little girl loves her papa so much. Donovyn is taking it hard too. I'm trying to be strong for everyone however, you are my bestfriend and I have no one to talk to anymore. I remember the Saturday before you passed we spent the whole day in the yard, watching movies and then attending church where you recommited your life to God. The pride on my face was obvious to everyone, you were always making me proud. When we got home that night we held eachother and cried, you said you were going to be a better husband and father, I got upset with you and told you, what are you talking about? You ARE the best husband, father and friend any wife could ask for. You laughed and called me a dork! No one could match our passion. Loving, caring , sharing and doing everything together was the way it always was. We were the ying and yang! God I miss you! The way you looked at me with those beautiful eyes, the way you held me, the way you called me on your cell every single day for 14 years. The way you smelled and the way you made me melt every time you'd kiss me. You are my one true love, my soul mate, my passion and my pride and joy. I know God is thrilled to have a man of such character with him and I know you are so happy to see your grandparents again with Trey right by your side. I love you baby, I long for you and I still can't beleive your gone. Rest well baby, tell my daddy hi and I know that we will be together again in heaven. Forever The happiest day of my life was the day we married. We kept our vows and will continue to do so. I love you baby and I mis you beyond words!
Your totally devoted wife!
Stacy Clevidence
April 15, 2008
Son, another sunday went by and there was no you and Dylan, I looked forward to your visits every Sunday, I really miss you as the whole family does, loved how you and Dylan hassled over who Coco loved best, loved how you called me your mom, never have I heard you use my name. The wonderful birthday dinner you made for me I will never forget. I love and miss you son. Mom
Camryn George
April 15, 2008
Papa,
Daddy and mommy told me that you went to heaven. I cried and cried, I want my papa back. I told Nana that I want to see you walk out of the big truck and run to me and nana. I want you to come home so you can paint my fingers and toes, Nana said she would do it but I told nana that only papa can paint my toes. I love it when we made cookies and you would eat them before Nana put them in the oven. Bath time was fun cause you would put too many bubbles in and I wouldn't be able to find Dora. Then after bath you would let me jump on the bed and sing Jesus Loves me. Then you would put powder on me so I would smell like a princess. I loved to go onh bike rides wtih me you and nana in my new bike taxi you bought me. I hope that Jesus knows that I am your princess and I miss you so much. Nana gave me some pictures of me and you and of the three of us, you use to say it was the King, Queen, and the most beautiful Princess in the world. You would sing to me and read me stories everynight. You would hold me until I went to sleep. I likes your tatoos, and I loved your belly kissses. I loved spending everyweekend with you and Nana. Me and Nana even got you to run through the sprinkler with us, that was funny papa. You always made me laugh. I still cry when I know that you are in heaven cause I want my papa home. Nana is really sad papa. When she would be sad you would kiss her and pick her up to make her smile.......I will kiss her now but I'm to little to pick her up but I will tell uncle Dylan or uncle Corey to do that. I saw Dylan cry too papa, everyone was crying. We love you but I love you bestest. You will always be my papa and I will always be Papa's Princess. I miss you Papa and I love you!
Camcam (camryn)
April 14, 2008
To George and Bev: Our deepest sympathy on your loss. Kaaren,
Bob and Michael
Papa and his princess
April 14, 2008
Beverly Ramos
April 14, 2008
Son,this is to let you know how much I am missing you and just how much I have always loved you. The first time I saw you was in the delivery room on Sunday, February 23,1964 at 8:04 a.m. they laid you on my stomach and I could see how beautiful you were, I was only 18 but so ready to be your mommy,you were always a big boy 9lbs.8oz. and over 22in. long. As a toddler you were my shadow always with me as your dad worked long hours. We used to play hours together. Then as you grew I have many fond memories of you calling me as you were always running out of gas,your first heartbreak, helping me deliver our cats kittens. Then later on when you became a dad, I was so proud of all your accomplishments. Talking on the phone with you when ever you needed to talk, I will always treasure every moment we spent together and will be forever sorry for the ones we missed. Those last times we spend together will be forever in my heart. I will forever miss your beautiful eyes,your dimple in your chin and your smile! All my love forever until we meet again, I Love You Jeff, Love Mom
George Ramos
April 14, 2008
Jeff every day I say a prayer knowing that I`m talking to the lord and knowing that you are hearing it. Son your mother and I are missing you, we both feel like we have a hole in heart , we miss you and thank you for everything you did for us the last time we were together. Thank you for being our son and friend.Love your dad. Until we are altogether with you and our lord.This is not a goodbye but will be seeing you again.
GEORGE RAMOS
April 8, 2008
This does not seem right a father sending his first born son off to be with the lord before himself and if I could trade places I would.Its the sons place to send his parents to the lord. Its time I stop being selfish and be glad at least you are with our lord and savior. I have many happy memories that you have given your mom and I. You gave us many years of happiness growing up always trying to please us and always doing for others. You gave us two beautiful grand daughters and two handsome grandsons. I am the richest man alive the lord gave me one beautiful wife,two sons and one daughter and a total of nine grand children. Life is just to short one minute we were laughing and talking and the next you were gone. Just lately we were getting close again with you stopping by alot just to say hi and that you loved and missed your mom and I, I will always treasure those 6 weeks we spent talking and remenising together and thanks again for all your help around our house. I hope you know how much your mom and I loved and respected you as a man. We will always be sorry for the time we missed with you.Son until we meet again I know you'll find me when its my turn.I love you son your dad.
Peni Hogwood
April 7, 2008
Laurie:
I wrote you a note as soon as I heard but it never appeared. I am trying again. For the short time we worked together it was so very clear how much you loved your husband Jeff. I can't imagine your pain and loss. I think of you all the time and I hope that your faith will ease the days ahead of you. My deepest sympathy to you and your children.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Take care and God bless you all.
Greg Ramos
April 4, 2008
My days are filled with cherished memories of our childhood. You were a beautiful baby winning many trophy's, ribbons and contests mom had entered you into, people just couldn't keep their eyes off of you,your beautiful eyes and smile won their hearts. When you,michelle and myself would sit in the back seat excited to be on our way to Grandma & Grandpa Ramos's house. I remember how proud you were to wear your cub scout uniform and how proud I was to see my big brother in it.Your blue tux you wore to eighth grade graduation, I gave you such a hard time about, I wish I had a picture of that now. Your high school days at Downey & Davis, when everyone else was freezing and bundled up in winter coats, you'd be standing there in just a white T-shirt, jeans and Colorados.I remember your 1st heartbreak from your 1st girlfriend when you were just a teenager.Your 69 Lemans,76 Jeep 4x4 pickup,56 Chevy,82 powder blue olds sedan,white 49 Chevy-pick up,Your 1st apartment on West Rumble Rd.,I remember how hard working you were even as a teen, Arlenes Restaurant,Wendys,Garcia's Mexican Restaurant,Cask & Cleaver Steak house(prep cook).When mom & dad took you,Michelle and me to McHenry Drive-In where we'd all fall asleep in the back seat of the "72 Lincoln before the 2nd movie even started.Your first dates,your 1st marriage, the births of your daughters,your 2nd marriage and the adoption of your boys. I'm sorry we weren't as close as men as we were as brothers growing up together in the same bedroom.I'm sorry for all the times I embarrased you as a young boy.You are my big brother and I took for granted that you'd always be there.Words cannot describe the loss and heartache I'm feeling now and will for the rest of my years in life without you living yours.I will hunt,fish,work and watch our children grow for the both of us, missing you not being there.
I Will Love You for all the years of the rest of my life,
Your younger brother Greg.
Gary & Maureen McCann (RHS)
April 2, 2008
Laurie, I just heard the news. We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
LAURIE Ramos
March 31, 2008
It's been a week now and I've brought you home. I fell you everywhere I go. The boys and I will have to make many changes as there is no life insurance anywhere.......you taught us to be strong and to stick together no matter what.....I have your picture next to the bed and I kiss it everynight and say I love you, just as I did eerynight when we lay to sleep! I love you so much Jeff, the pain of missing you is so wrenching, your memory keeps me alive! I love you babY
Laur
Greg & Genni Ramos
March 28, 2008
Laurie, just wanted you to know your family is thinking of you this morning and sending our luv,hugs & kisses.Corey,Heather,Dylan & Ashley, Uncle Greg and family luv you.
Tina Whitten-Hinton
March 27, 2008
Oh my gosh........Gurl! I just heard the sad news today. You are so in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept the love and support from our Lord, your family and friends in the days ahead. I know the love you have for Jeff, it was apparent when you spoke of him in conversation. Jeff is now your "special" guardian angel.
Someday..........
Nancy Findarle
March 26, 2008
Laurie,
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. I pray that you will feel our Lords loving arms around you to comfort you. My the peace that only God can give fill you and give you strength in the days ahead. I love you!! Nancy Findarle
Rosie and Mary Silva
March 26, 2008
Dearest Laurie and Dylan, Our hearts are with you during this time of sorrow. The both of you and the rest of your family are in our prayers. Take care and know that we grieve with you.
Cardozo Cafeteria Staff
March 26, 2008
Laurie, Our hearts go out to you and your family at this time and in the days ahead. Please know that we love you and you are in our hearts and prayers.
LAURIE Ramos
March 26, 2008
I miss you sooooo much!!! I love you!
Rosa,Mike, and Boys Solorio
March 26, 2008
To The Ramos Family,
Our deepest condolence goes out to you. May the Lord guide you and may He send you comfort. We will keep you in our prayers.
Laurie Ramos
March 26, 2008
Hello Baby! I feel you all around me, your eyes, your smile, your laugh. My life will never be the same again, my heart is half gone and my soul is with you. You were the kindess, most gentle man I have ever met, your spirit will live on inside all of our kids. The nights are horrible, and I miss my kiss on the forehead every morning before you left for work. I know that Jesus has embraced you and that give me great peace. Rest in peace my love, one sweet day!
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