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Katherine Voelker Memoriam

KATHERINE MARIE VOELKER MAR 2, 1983 ~ APR 22, 2009 I can not believe it has been a year since you were killed. It wassuch a horrible tragedy that I seem to relive too often. I miss you more and more as each day passes. We talk about you everyday to Patcience and Zaiden to make sure that they will never forget all that you had done for them and how much you loved them. We miss you Kat and I know you are watching over us, I just wish you were still here with us, some day we will see you again, till then I will pray and keep your memories alive! Zaiden and Patcience say they miss you and love you! Love you always sister! Love Jen, Mom, Dad, kids ....well the WHOLE family www.modbee.com/obituaries

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Published by Modesto Bee on Apr. 22, 2010.

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Shari Ulrich

May 19, 2011

Remembering Kat.

Joanne Stevens

January 4, 2011

Dear family; You dont know me but I was an aquaintence of Kats and I attended her funeral. I didnt know her very well but in the time I did spend with her, I could see that she was a great person and a wonderful mother. When I heard what happend, I was so deeply disterbed. I'm so sorry for your loss. It really is a loss to the entire world because I know Katherine was going to do great things with the new life she was creating. Its almost been 2years since this tragedy, and I still think about her everyday. I hope that it gives you some comfort to know that Katherine is not forgotten. She was the sweetest person who's smile could light up the room. She is truely missed.

Mom

May 9, 2010

5/9/2010 my strength comes from god my love from within Katherine will forever be in my heart. Today is mothers day god bless and care for my dear sweet Katherine.Today two beautiful healthy loved children look above to wish my angel happy mothers day.

Joanna Rose-Murray

May 3, 2010

Dear Family of Katherine Marie Voelker, Please accept my condolences on the April 22, 2009 tragic death of your beloved Katherine. I relate to your grief as I am a bereaved parent, having suddenly lost my daughter, Melinda Rose Silva, @ age 28, on 1/6/05.
In addition to expressing my condolences to you, I write to those of you living in the greater Modesto area, to let you know that I and several other area bereaved parents formed last Spring the Modesto/Riverbank Area Chapter of The Compassionate Friends, a non-profit, non-sectarian, self-help grief support group for parents, grandparents & adult siblings (18 & over) who have experienced the death of a child of any age due to any cause at any time. We have 2nd Thursday of the month evening meetings (which include special resources for the bereaved) and special events where we can share about and/or be supported in our deep grief journeys.
If you would like more information or "just to talk" (perhaps about the specialness of Katherine), you're invited and encouraged to contact me, Joanna Rose-Murray, @ 209-484-8276, [email protected], www.tcfmodesto-riverbankarea.org.
My prayers and healing thoughts are with you during this very difficult time of your deep grief journey.
May you experience some blessings along the way, Joanna

Sally Rhodes

April 22, 2010

One of my best memories of Kat is when I visited you in Cali and how comfortable and welcome she made me feel. She was little then but she had a big heart.
I know she's looking down on you and cheering you on.

Nikki Dally

April 22, 2010

Sending you love and comfort to get through the pain today.

Shari Dally-Ulrich

April 22, 2010

Dear Elena, After a full year I still don't have words to tell you how sorry I am for the loss of your daughter. I remember meeting Kat once, she was just a little tiny girl. You were away for the day, but I got to meet and visit with her and Jenny. She had a very sweet spirit and was a precious little girl. God bless you.

April 22, 2010

I miss the young lady who liked to bake cookies and work puzzles with me. bill & judy walters

Jenny Sahines

April 22, 2010

I love you sisssy,its so hard to hold it together on this day, I wish i could just erase it from my calendar completely! I miss your face! The kids say they love you! i know you can hear me!

April 21 2009 my beautiful angel

Elena Stoddard

April 22, 2010

I hear words of wisdom, I hear them say you are in a better place , in my heart of hearts I know you have no pain , this eases my grief just for a while. my soul connects with yours but I am so selfish I want you here to hug you and plan things to do together to play together just one more time . Katherine marie you are always with me . my love is constant.
LOVE MOM

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