SHAWN RISE CRABTREE SEPT 22 1964 - ARPIL 8, 2005
Shawn left us far too early in terms of years, but forever has enriched our lives with amazing memories. She was vivacious, intelligent, witty, and above all she was loving. Shawn was the type of person that would walk into a room and light it up. Sure she would sneak in and sit at a table in the corner, but her presence was never ignored. She was many people's best friend, including her husband, parents and children.
Shawn had fulfilled many dreams by the time of her passing. She had two children fairly early in her life, which put her education on hold, but not for long. She tried many careers throughout her life, but kept coming back to the family legacy of nursing. Both her father and mother shared the same career as Shawn; they were nurses too. Going to school wasn't easy considering that she was a single parent, but she managed to tackle that battle just like any other. She finally became a registered nurse after much support from her husband, parents, children, family and friends.
She loved being a nurse, and watching her care for her patients you could see she was good at her job. People say it takes a special type of person to be a nurse, and Shawn was just that, she was special. As much as she loved her work, she loved her vacations.
Vacationing was her most favored hobby, and she would bring any and all who were willing to share her travels with her. She also loved her scrap booking and you could tell by the suitcase of materials she would tote around in her car. She loved to make her memories special by putting her pictures into scrapbooks and writing her thoughts and memories next to the pictures. These memories and quotes of hers will forever be cherished. She enjoyed many hobbies and activities in her life, because she had to always stay active. She loved reading, gardening, golfing, expanding her education, and above all she loved spending time with her family and friends.
She was an amazing wife, mother, daughter and truly amazing friend to all that knew her well. She is survived by her adoring husband Joe Crabtree, son Gregory Metcalf, and daughter Ashleigh Hall. She is the cherished daughter of Paul and Catherine Brown. She has left behind her step daughter Bryanna Crabtree, her brother Jerry Gibson, as well as many other aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, a very special great nephew baby Brandon, and many friends. She was preceded in death by her younger sister Kelli Brown, and her brother Ken Jones.
A celebration of life will be held in her honor.
In lieu of flowers or gifts, please send donations to an account set up in her name. The account is at Valley First Credit Union, 1419 J Street, Modesto, Ca 95354. Pleas make checks payable to: FBO Shawn Crabtree. Portions of the donation will go toward a Nursing Scholarship at Modesto Junior College, to honor her importance of education.
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Lannette Bettanini
April 7, 2023
I often think of you, your smile, your giggle, and your light!
Kim
April 8, 2022
Still miss and think of you often.
April 7, 2009
Dearest Shawn,
Your passing was more than I could bear. It has taken me four years to come to grips with loosing you and Kelli. You too were my oldest and dearest friends. You could always make me laugh, and you taught me how to laugh at life. Caring for Gregory (ReeRee) was one of my greatest pleasures. To say I miss you wuld not express my true feelings. I look to the day when we meet again in heaven and can laugh at all the stuff we did as kids. I will never forget, Love Elizabeth (Betsy) Watson-Calasopa
HAPPY ST. PATRICK'S DAY!
LISA BAILEY-KIMZEY RN
March 11, 2008
Hey there woman! I have been thinking about you a lot lately. My son Andrew is leaving for the NAVY in July( 6ft 2 , 20 YRS OLD-CAN U BELIVEVE IT?) so I am finally gonna be able to put the music on loud and run all over the house naked!(remember how we used to laugh about that when the kids were little?) I heard that your daughter is doing great- you would be proud! And I am sure your son is terrific as always. I worked in Mnateca the other night with DR. OLLADA and I just want you to know that you touched so many peoples lives. The saying is true- Only the good die young. Miss u lot's, Think about ya all the time especially when I find a bargain!Until we "talk" again-I am glad this guest book is here.
Gregory Metcalf
October 31, 2007
Mom,
So I am here in my new home that I wish you could see. I was unpacking that antique china that nana made me bring to Los Angeles, although I had no room. Ha! Remember when we were packing it up and Turnbull dropped that one tea cup and it broke, well I am still lugging that broken tea cup around too. I guess I am hoping Turnbull will oneday glue it back together. So, i was putting these dishes away in my new home and I thought I would put on some Matchbox 20 on, that way I could have you and Nana with me while I settle in. It worked because I am overflowing with emotion. I miss you soooooo much, and i can't say in words how lonely it is without you. Love you mom.
Gregory Metcalf
October 31, 2007
Mom,
So I am here in my new home that I wish you could see. I was unpacking that antique china that nana made me bring to Los Angeles, although I had no room. Ha! Remember when we were packing it up and Turnbull dropped that one tea cup and it broke, well I am still lugging that broken tea cup around too. I guess I am hoping Turnbull will oneday glue it back together. So, i was putting these dishes away in my new home and I thought I would put on some Matchbox 20 on, that way I could have you and Nana with me while I settle in. It worked because I am overflowing with emotion. I miss you soooooo much, and i can't say in words how lonely it is without you. Love you mom.
BRIAN & LISA KIMZEY
January 5, 2006
HEY THERE SHAWN-WE MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN HEAVEN WITH YOUR MOM NOW WATCHING OVER ALL OF US. WE WENT TO THE "AFTER CHRISTMAS" SALES @ TARGET (FOR ALL OF THE CLEARANCE CRAP)AND I THOUGHT ABOUT YOU THE WHOLE TIME, MISS YA.
Lannette Street
January 2, 2006
Shawncey...
I was walking into work saturday, and I was thinking about Autumn's bus trip to Reno in March...I was thinking to myself, "I need to call and remind Reg and Shawn"...then it struck me...again...Love You, Miss You
Regina New-Goiburn
October 24, 2005
I can't believe how much I miss my nuttiest friend. Not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts. I am still very mad at you for leaving me. We had a great thing going. Now I feel empty and lost. I could never even imagine what your family must feel. I hope that you and Wilma Karels are having fun together! I'll try to keep an eye on your family. It is tough, though. reg
Eden M.
September 22, 2005
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ShawnC!!!
I miss you!!!
Havin Fun in Yosemite
Patty
September 8, 2005
I drove home from work this am with my cell in my hand and wished more than anything I could just call to say hi and hear your voice. I miss you more than I ever thought possible and these past five months just have not felt real. We used to turn up this song and laugh about the secret woo woo and now the words hold more meaning... "every little thing I do you're on my mind.. you're on my mind..."
Love ya,
me
Lisa Kimzey RN
August 5, 2005
Shawn I miss ya so much and think about you a lot. We went to the fair this week and I thought about the time all of us single girls went-what fun! I know you're up there watching over all of us-we are very lucky for that. Ashleigh and Gregory if you ever need anything feel free to email me,anytime.
Mommy and Re at the "Holiday Party"
Gregory Metcalf
July 29, 2005
I wanted to add a couple of my favorite pictures too.
Gregory Metcalf
July 29, 2005
I never would have guessed that my mom would have passed away at such a young age. I think about all the things she did in her short time and realize that she was phenomenal. With every breath I take and choice I make I realize that I would never be where I am, if it wasn't for this amazing woman. Almost every song I hear or thing I do I think about you mom, and miss you so much. Like you said when I moved to LA, and to quote your favorite band, "If the bright lights don't receive you turn yourself around and come back home." I just wish this was possible in your case, but I have comfort knowing that the bright lights received you with open arms. I miss you every second of every day. Your re re misses you.
Carol Crabtree
July 6, 2005
Well its been several Months and I still Miss and think about you every day . Angela and I were shopping in the Mall the other day and we ran across a beaautiful Lamp of a Elephant and guess what ? We thought of you . it seems like yesterday we were hearing your laughter and we Misss it so much as we miss you . you were such a Bright part of our lives
Co Worker
June 15, 2005
You are truely missed! I hope you are above watching over Joe.
Kim Smith
May 24, 2005
I have so many wonderful memories with Shawn. As a child playing in the tree house and what we thought was sneaking out the skylight, and as a teenager crusing McHenry on the scooters(in mini skirts). I will really miss her. She has been there for everything, including maid-of honor in my wedding and the delivery of my second child. Shawn was very special and I will cherish her memory forever. Love always!
Pahtee
May 20, 2005
I can't believe over a month has passed since you ventured on. I still instinctually grab the phone on my way to work and on the way home to check in and sometimes just when something comes up that I would normally share. I continue to play your daily quiz on Netflix, just as before, and still want to convince you that Austin Powers really was actually funny! Sometimes it feels like you are still so close by. I miss the twinkle in your eye and the quirky comments that you would come up with that would lighten any situation and the infectious giggle that would follow. You have always been the first person that I turned to in good times and the not so great ones. You are my parenting mentor, you taught me that it is possible to be a single mom at a young age, reach for the stars and have fun along the way. I remember one of the last emails that you sent stated something to the effect of living life to the fullest and sliding into the pearly gates saying "oh what a ride!" You took us all on one incredible journey through life... you are missed beyond words... I hope you enjoyed your ride my dear friend, save me a seat for the next adventure!
Lots of love, until then...
JERRY GIBSON
May 15, 2005
GOING TO MISS YOU ALOT WITH LOVE YOUR BIG BROTHER JERRY
Angela Madriz
May 13, 2005
Shawn, you were such a loving,giving and happy person,never thinking of yourself and the best sister-in-law anyone could ever ask for. You were like a gem. Very rare to find and beautiful, Something people are always trying to find. You gave our family and your friends lots of memories and smiles before you passed and accomplished so much. I'm so glad that my brother had met you, you made him so happy. We all miss and love you.
We all love you Joe, Bry, Ashleigh and Greg.
Joe Crabtree
May 11, 2005
It's been about a month and I still dont understand why you left. I know I miss you more with each day that passes. You taught me so much about living life with someone you are truly in love with. When we met I knew I found someone I could spend the rest of my life with, because you were just as sarcastic as I was, and I loved that about you. You gave me memories that can never be forgotten. I miss everything about you and I love you more than words alone can express. love, me
Linda DeForest
April 25, 2005
Shawn, I will miss you so much, not only were you a client but I also considered you my friend, it's not often I can say that, we had so many good times arranging all those vacations! you always thought the more the merrier! you always had everyone else's wishes before your's! So many times I felt like I was with you all! especially Regina's honeymoon! You leave behind many wonderful memories for your family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with Joe and the kids. Much love, Linda and Doug DeForest
Sherry Garfinkel
April 24, 2005
Shawn, Eventhough I only knew you for a short time, Iam going to miss your laughter and how you made working at night more enjoyable. Whenever I came to work and saw you, I knew that we were going to have a good shift. I wish that we had met sooner so that I would have known you for a longer time.
CRISSY DIZON
April 21, 2005
DEAR SHAWN,
IT IS SO UNREAL TO THINK THAT YOU ARE GONE FOR GOOD .I STILL SEE AND PICTURE YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE THE INTEREST WE HAVE IN COMMON RE "FENG SHUI" etc.iI WILL ALWAYS CHERRISH THE MEMORY WE SHARED TOGETHER AT WORK . I SURELY WILL MISSED YOU. ME AND MY FAMILY WISHES TO EXTEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO ALL YOUR LOVE ONES ALWAYS CRISSY D.
JEFF ROBINSON
April 20, 2005
Im gonna miss you shawn,I dont have many people that I can call my friend,but you are one of them.so untill we meet again,goodbye for now.MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOUR FAMILY
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Wesley Grubbs
April 19, 2005
My condolences to the family. I miss you very much Shawn. I will miss the walks around the hospital. The dounut holes that we would sneak and eat before we got back to the ER. I will also miss the pot stirring that you and I have done at work. The talks we had. We have had a lot of laughs. Thank you for the memories and the fun times we had together.
Brooke Igarta
April 18, 2005
Shawn was and will always be an inspiration to me. She showed me and everyone who she came into contact with that she chose to live life to the fullest every single day. I am so thankful that God brought her into my life to show me the kind of mother that I want to be. I can only hope and pray that someday I can raise my children with the same love that Shawn did. Thank you Shawn...we will miss you everyday.
FERNANDA SOMMERVILLE
April 18, 2005
I DID NOT KNOW SHAWN. THAT WELL BUT JUST KNOWING HER AS A GOOD CUSTUMER SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL IN AND OUT.SHE WAS FRIENDLY AND LOVING TO TALK TO . GOING TO MISS SEEING HER AT SAVEMART GOD BLESS YOU.
Lisa Bejarano-Feldt
April 18, 2005
Shawn,
Though it had been some years since we had seen each other. I remember the fun times we had when we were teenagers ditching school to party at the lake. Those memories will always be in my heart. You will surely be missed by all that knew you.
My deepest sympathy for Joe, Gregory, Ashleigh, and your parents. May "God" give them the peace in their time of grief.
Kay Lee
April 18, 2005
I miss you so much Shawn, I can't stop crying whenever I go to work, I still hear your cheerful voice when I walking into ED every night.
I can't believe you not there to correct my Konglish,
I miss your laugh, your kindness and your joke.
I still have your last funny story in my e-mail that made me laugh.
Shawn, I miss you. I wish you are here with me tonight.
AMY BOYLAN-MENDES
April 17, 2005
I didn't know Shawn very well, but the time I did cross her path was always with smiles, laughter and positive. I will always remember the last time we worked together...as I turned to walk out of the ER she was crossing through the hall, her beautiful hair bouncing behind her, a smile on her face and moving with determination to get to the next step in taking care of her patients. I will miss her more then I think I even realize at this time....God Bless You Shawn...we all know you are smiling down on all of us. amy
MAGGIE AZEVEDO-BARKER
April 17, 2005
It is still so hard to believe sucha a beautiful person inside and out to be gone. I still can't forget her giggle and her beautiful smile. I met Shawn when I started working at Emanuel Medical Center in 1997. She was always so bubbly and so positive. Shawn and I had just talked the day before she passed and she was asking me about my wedding plans and how excited she was to be invited, to come and spend my special day with me and all our Er friends. It brings tears to my eyes when I think of her not being there on May 7th. A prayer will sure be said for her on that day and everday. I will miss you Shawn.
Diane Brown RN
April 17, 2005
I only knew Shawn for a short time, but I will be forever grateful to her for making me feel welcome and being supportive. She was a delight to be around and her smile could light up the room. I feel fortunate to have worked with her. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.
Kathy Butler
April 17, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.
Kathy Butler R.N.
Doctors Medical Center
Edith Nunez
April 17, 2005
My prayers are with all her family, she is in a very special place now.
Edith Nunez MT/UC
Doctors Medical Center
Anita Nation (Bond)
April 16, 2005
I have known Shawn for many years being next door neighbors my mother used to babysit her and Kelli. As we grew up we became very close friends and had made many memories that I will cherish forever. My heart goes out to her family.At The celebration of life today it was nice seeing how many people she has touched in her life.
LISA BAILEY-KIMZEY RN
April 16, 2005
Shawn I miss u already crazy girl! I am still waiting for the 7 dinners you owe me for staying married for 7 years-we'll celebrate together in Heaven someday. I will miss seeing your smiling face in the E.R. We have a lot in common, we both were young single moms and worked our way through LVN & FINALLY RN SCHOOL!!!!!! I will never forget the time you took(3 hours!) to do my hair for my wedding in 1998, it meant so much for me to be beautiful that day and I am so glad you were the one to help me ! You are resting now, stress free in GOD'S hands-please continue to smile upon all of us who will be missing you-until we meet again,
Your Friend Always,
Lisa Marie Bailey-Kimzey RN
Joyce Metcalf-Shaw
April 15, 2005
My heart is heavy with saddness, for the loss and grief Shawn's parents children and husband are going through.
My deepest Sympathy
(grannie) Joyce Metcalf-Shaw
Kayetta Muscutt
April 15, 2005
My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone.
Kelly Farris
April 15, 2005
I did not know Shawn, but I do know a very dear friend of hers.So although I never met her, I have heard so many wonderful things about her for the past decade, that I feel as if I knew her.My heart and thoughts go out to her family and friends.I am sorry that I missed the chance to meet such a truly wonderful woman.
Susan J Bonno-Buckner
April 15, 2005
Unfortunately I have never had the pleasure of meeting with Shawn.
But I have met her son Greg while working together and can see what a lovely person she was from the wonderful child she brought into this world.
May time heal your pain.
Nicola Peterson
April 15, 2005
Shawn, what fun we used to have from working at the Cooper Company to helping me plan my wedding and beyond. We worked on many of life's problems together. We shared the struggles of juggling work and school and how to take control of your life and shape it how you see fit. You succeeded in raising two beautiful kids and finally found happiness in Joe. I know they will all miss you dearly, as I will. Even though we ended up miles and sometimes countries apart, we got together when we could and talked about all the fun we used to have. We love you and we pray that your family continues your legacy of being able to achieve whatever you set your mind and heart to. Our sincere condolences go to those you leave behind. You leave a void that can never be filled.
Carol Crabtree
April 14, 2005
Shawn will be deeply missed . She came into my Life when she met Joe , there Marriage was a dream come true . Long awaited by Joe . Her Wonderful Husband . Shawn was a beautiful , Happy Bride and Joe was flowing with Happiness . I especially will Miss Shawns Bright smile and her warm heart . Shawn Loved everyone that was in her life , I never heard her say a bad word about anyone . This is a Great Loss to our extended Families and her many friends . We Love you Joe , Bryanna , Greg and Ashleigh our thoughts and Prayers are with you . we are happythat you are part of our Family.
baby brandon ward
April 14, 2005
i am writting this to say that i am a very loved child by my tia shawn, we had great times together riding in her bmw was so much fun. i always had happy times when staying with her and uncle joe. tia i love you and everyone knows you love me from me the baby
alesha ward
April 14, 2005
my tia was a very special person to me and all that new her. she was a one of a kind . i know that there is no one id rather be like than her she accomplished so much in here short time here. though she wasnt here long she had impacted so many peoples lives. such a great aunt and good friend. tia i love you and will always take your ambition and drive and run with it and only hope to be as wounderful as you. i love you family , now the sisters will watch over each other as i will watch over you. ash,greg we have the best guardian angels ever who better than are moms. they got the job done here now the can watch all the time. thank you everyone for all the support you have given my family.
John Ridley
April 14, 2005
My deepest sympathies to the family. You are in my prayers.
Brian Millard
April 14, 2005
My deepest sympathy goes out to Shawn's family. She touched many lives and will be missed by all who knew her. Each one of us will always have a piece of her in our memories and in our hearts.
Judy Black
April 14, 2005
My deepest sympathies to Shawn's family.She was a great student and I have many fond memories of her as a student in the LVN program.
Sincerely,
Judy Black
Emanuel Turlock VN Program
Director Retired
Lawrence Baptista
April 14, 2005
Although my encounters with Shawn were brief, she had such a great energy about her. She was always so involved with her children and she loved them so much. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Eden Marquises
April 13, 2005
My deepest condolences to all of Shawn's family.Shawn was indeed a shining, bright star to all that she came in contact with. I am forever grateful that I had shared many precious moments with her.She was always ready to lend her ears to listen to my woes, her shoulders for me to cry on, her heart for love and comfort and her wisdom for ideas and suggestions... never condescending, never negative. She always had a smile no matter how challenging our nights in ER were.
Now I have to find me a partner in checking those hunkies that come into our ER. I miss you ShawnC!!!
Jacob and Joey Olvera
April 13, 2005
Our boys are saddened by your loss as are we so wanted to let you know they are thinking of you as well.
Let children walk with Nature,
let them see the beautiful blendings and communions of death and life,
their joyous inseparable unity,
as taught in woods and meadows, plains and mountains and streams of our blessed star,
and they will learn that death is stingless indeed,
and as beautiful as life.
Author: John Muir
Margaret and Joe Olvera
April 13, 2005
All of Joe's life he had looked for that perfect love and to make a family with her. He found that in Shawn. She was what he had been searching for and when found they were like the final two pieces of a lifelong puzzle. Our hearts ache for your loss and want you all to know we are here and available for you at anytime, day or night,we are but a phone call away.
'What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal.'
Author: Albert Pike
Shawn was a very giving woman and the results of her kind acts and spirit will be with you always.
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. We hope you find strength and support in the love we feel for you.
Tracy Metcalf
April 13, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with everyone.
Tracy Metcalf
April 13, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with everyone...
Wendy Morton
April 13, 2005
My thoughts & prayers go out to the family & friends of Shawn. I had the opportunity to meet Shawn in Nursing school. We often met to study for exams & to prepare for our hospital rounds. She was always pleasant to be around.
RENEE & DON WATSON
April 13, 2005
Our modest dearest sympathy to Shawn's family and especially for my daughter's dearest friend, Greg. You are in our thoughts and prayers. From Jenny's family.
Ann Tosti
April 13, 2005
I considered Shawn my soul sister. I enjoyed her energy, intelligence and most of all her courage. She was always so afraid and did it anyway. I watched her with such admiration. She accomplished so much, she never stopped reaching and enjoying her life, family and friends.
I always thought we would have time to grow old together. I will miss her so much.
My heart goes out to Gregory, Ashley and her parents for this great loss.
Ann Tosti
Charlotte Wiley
April 13, 2005
To the Family of Shawn Rise Crabtee,
We all are so very sorry for your great loss. We all send our sympathy and love.
Jack and Charlotte Wiley and Family
Jacob Hodgson
April 13, 2005
Thank you Shawn for being there for me and putting me in my place when I needed to be. I will always remember all the fun times we had and I will miss you.
Jessica Hodgson
April 13, 2005
Shawn was my mothers best friend and like a second mother to me. I will miss her and all her advice that seemed some how different coming from her. I love you Shawn and thanks for always being there when I needed to talk.
Cyndi Court
April 13, 2005
I will truly miss my best friend. She always mad me laugh either through an email, a phone call, or in person. We shared a lot of great memories together. Shawn you were never judgemental and I will never forget you or all the fun we have had over the years together. Thank you for being my best friend and a second mom to my children Jessica and Jacob. I love you.
Your friend forever,
A Shawn and Aidan moment... March 26, 05
Patty Barbour-Keene
April 13, 2005
I am one who considered Shawn to be my best friend. We spent the last 14 years sharing many laughs, dreams, frustrations, and tears. The laughter is what I will remember most... she could find humour in the most agonizing of times. I am grateful to have shared as much of our lives as we did. Shawn will always be more to me than my friend, she is a cherished and very much loved sister.
Nancy (Harding) Tosta
April 13, 2005
Shawn was one of my oldest and dearest childhood friends. my life has an empty hole where shawn and Kelli were. every childhood memory I have includes Shawn and Kelli. Shawn was our leader,inspiration and confidant. she lead Kelli and I on many adventures. thanks for the fantastic memories. I will always have a great love and respect for Shawn.
ROCIO LOPEZ
April 13, 2005
MY DEEPLY CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY OF SHAWN,WHO LEFT US SO SOON,REST IN PEACE NICE LADIE...
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