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Samantha Silverman Obituary

Samantha Silverman
May 21, 1990 - January 24, 2015
Tucson, Arizona
Samantha Allyn Silverman, 24, born May 21st, 1990, passed away on January 24th in Scottsdale, Arizona. Samantha was a passenger in a tragic car accident that claimed her life. She was born in Chicago, Illinois to Alan Talbert Silverman and Joanna Geldner Silverman. She is survived by her parents, her older brother Michael Edwin Silverman, and many other relatives and friends who loved her so very much. She was a beautiful person that lived to help other people and was a source of joy, and laughter, and love to all who knew her. Everyone who knew her misses her deeply and her brother (the author) wishes she was by his side to help him through this time – she was always the compassionate one that knew what to do in times of family hardship.
Samantha lived in Tucson, Arizona but was visiting the Scottsdale area to help a friend bury his father. In a cruel twist of fate that is beyond this author's comprehension, this trip turned tragic. In Tucson, Samantha was a pillar of the community. After graduating from the University of Arizona with a Bachelors of Science Degree in Psychology, Samantha bought and proceeded to run a CrossFit and weightlifting gym called CrossFit Works. Samantha believed strongly in the power of fitness to better people's lives and was an avid CrossFit competitor and USAW weightlifting competitor. Countless people have witnessed her competitive drive first hand, as well as the kind and patient way she coached her athletes. She once wrote in a thesis that it was not the most athletic clients that gave her the most joy to coach, but those who were most in need of exercise and the ameliorative effects it has in one's life. Her most recent competitions were the OC Throwdown CrossFit competition earlier in January, and the USAW American Open. She battled valiantly in both, but was never satisfied with herself, always striving to do better. She always requited herself with honor in the way she battled in and outside of the gym, and she made her family so proud in all that she did.
From an early age, Samantha fought a learning disability that made it difficult for her to progress at the same rate as other students. She never let this hurdle get her down though; Samantha was always dedicated to succeeding in spite of any road blocks in front of her. She started school in Palm Springs, California at the Palm Valley School. When she was ten years old, her family moved to Carmel, California where she attended the Stevenson School for lower school, middle school and her first two years of high school. For her last two years of high school she attended the Landmark School in Salem, Massachusetts. All along the way she touched the lives of teachers, fellow students, and everyone else she came into contact with. Her family always marveled at her ability to make friends quickly and keep them for life. Throughout her childhood, she was a passionate horseback rider, field hockey player, violist, and photographer.
After her first two years of college, her brother introduced her to the sport of CrossFit. Once she got a taste of it, she never looked back. CrossFit, Olympic weightlifting, and helping others became her all-consuming passions. Charitable fundraisers at her gym became a norm and she grew into a talented business owner and coach. She overcame many obstacles, and was in the process of overcoming even more when the accident occurred.
Samantha hoped to one day make the Olympics in the sport of weightlifting and attend the CrossFit Games as a competitor. She was making great progress and on the path to both goals. It is with the most profound sadness and grief that her loved ones now face the reality of those goals being cut short. However, her commitment to excellence and helping others will be carried on by all who knew her. Her spirit will live on in all who loved her. The amount of love that people had for Samantha can only be rivaled by the grief and pain felt in losing her. Her absence is a giant hole in the hearts and souls of her family and friends.
This is the obituary of a beautiful little sister, a daughter, a niece, a cousin, a friend, a roommate, a coach, an athlete, a lover, a fighter, a poet, and a truly great, warm, and loving person. No amount of words can sufficiently give a summation to her life, but this is a grieving brother's best try.
There will be a nonreligious Celebration of Life at the Erdman Chapel at Stevenson School (the "Church in the Forest) in Pebble Beach, California this Saturday, January 31st at 1pm. A memorial workout for all her fitness friends will be held 7:30 Saturday morning at CrossFit Monterey.

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Published by Monterey Herald Obits on Jan. 30, 2015.

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Emily M

February 23, 2015

Hey Silverman family,

Your daughter taught me to not be afraid of box jumps. Took her Crossfit class. She's such a fighter and a beautiful person.

Peace be with her and your family.

Samantha with mommy 1996

Marta Tornquist

February 10, 2015

1996 Samantha & Marta

Marta Tornquist

February 10, 2015

Samantha 1996 - always so strong!

Marta Tornquist

February 10, 2015

Samantha 1996

Marta Tornquist

February 10, 2015

Silverman family 1996

Marta Tornquist

February 10, 2015

Samantha with grandma, mom and brother 2001

Marta Tornquist

February 10, 2015

February 9, 2015

Dearest Silverman Family, I do not know you nor did I know your daughter, your sister. I want to say that the obituary was beautifully written, for a beautiful young lady. It is a difficult task to write a memorial in spite of grief. Please know that through your difficult days and hours and weeks and years, the words touched all who read them without even knowing her or you. Peace,Donna Muri

Rajiv and Mini Rangrass

February 9, 2015

Dear Silverman family, I read your wonderful tribute to Samantha and brought back the Feb 6 WSJ from work so my wife and I could read it together. We join your family in mourning the loss of such a beautiful person. Our prayers and hugs are with all of you. Hari Om.

Barry Goldblatt

February 9, 2015

Alan,
What a way to contact an old friend. Obviously, the WSJ story caught my eye and I'm very sorry for you and your family. From all the comments from friends, Samantha was clearly loved and admired. I wish you strength at this time and please know that my thoughts are with you.
Barry Goldblatt

February 8, 2015

Dearest Silverman family. I do not know your family but read Samantha's tribute in the WSJ today. What a wonderful girl you raised! I am so sorry for your loss of such a shining light in you life. But, her wonderful brother was able to share his loss so elonquently. it touched me and I trust your girl is safe and smiling. As always.

February 7, 2015

Dear Silverman family, please accept my deepest condolences and prayers for you all. I do not know any of you either, but I was moved by the very thoughtful obituary in today's WSJ.

Peace be with you all.
K. Burns
NYC

Journal Reader

February 7, 2015

Dear Brother Silverman:
I'm sorry for your loss.

Peace.

February 7, 2015

So incredibly sorry for your devastating loss!!

Cindy R

February 6, 2015

Silverman Family,
You do not know me, I rarely read the entire WSJ, but today for some reason I took the time to read and was very saddened and touched by the memory of your daughter in the obituary. I can't stop thinking about your tragic loss of a beautiful daughter, sister, friend and incredible inspiration to many people, They are no appropriate words to comfort you and your family, I just wanted you to know how touched I was reading about this incredible young lady taken tragically from this world too soon. If she were my daughter I would have been so proud of her. I am so sorry for your loss, what an inspiration to us all.

Theodore Gebhard

February 6, 2015

Dear Mr. Silverman -- I do not know you or your family, but I happened to read your moving tribute to your sister in today's WSJ (Feb. 6). Truly your sister was a special person, and it is tragic that her life was cut so short. The grief that you and your family feel is evident from your tribute, and I offer my condolences.

February 6, 2015

Michael and Samantha's family - I never had the pleasure of knowing Samantha but am touched by her obituary in the WSJ this morning. Her life is an inspiration to us all.
Very sorry for your loss,
Rex Hodges,
Oklahoma

Barbara T

February 6, 2015

Dearest Silverman Family,
As I was reading the WSJ this AM, my eyes caught the name and picture of your beautiful daughter and her name. I knew in a second she was your daughter Alan without even reading the notice. What wonderful loving children you and your wife raised and the world takes notice. Your profound loss and grief is more than one can bear. My arms and heart are wrapping all of you in love.

Know that you all are always remembered.

With deepest sympathy,
Barbara

Cricket

February 6, 2015

My love to you all! I am so very sorry!

d'Aulan Gentry

February 4, 2015

We are so sorry to hear of your devastating loss. If Jay and I can do anything to help, please just let us know.

February 4, 2015

So sorry for the loss of such a beautiful soul. I didn't know her, but she inspired me just by knowing of her. May the Lord give grace to her family and friends, and may her memory live on in the hearts of many forever. Monica Terrill, Dallas, Texas

V.C.

February 4, 2015

May the God of all comfort strengthen the entire family during this time of sorrow. Those who die God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. (Psalms 116:15) My sincerest sympathy.

Lee McMahon

February 4, 2015

Prayers to the Silverman family. Such a terrible loss. There are never the right words but take comfort in knowing how much Samantha was loved and how she touched so many.
Lee McMahon former Stevenson Staff Member

pamela wouk

February 4, 2015

RIP Beautiful Sami Angel...u will not be forgottenxxxx

Steve and Kim McIntyre

February 3, 2015

Dear Alan, Joanna and Michael,

Wow, what a shock to hear of Samantha's passing! We are so sorry for your loss and the pain and sadness that this tragedy has caused! We can only pray that the memories of her life will someday soften the pain and her spirt will continue to find ways to touch each of you as time goes on.. What a moving and profound tribute to your sister Michael, well done. Please know that you all will be in our prayers!

The McIntyre Family

Gina Ishmael

February 3, 2015

Alan and Joanna we are so saddened by your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will always remember the times we shared with you guys and my parents with all the kids in Palm Springs.
Love,
Mike, Gina, April, Justin, Brandon, Kylee & Ciera Ishmael from Palm Springs California

Allison Hardy

February 3, 2015

While I didn't know Sam personally, I judged her and watched her compete in the Colorado Open and was immediately inspired by her competitive spirit and intensity all while having fun. Her energy was contagious and I instantly became a fan. My heart goes out to her family and friends during this most difficult of times.

February 3, 2015

Wow Michael!! What a wonderful way to remember Samantha! She had an amazing brother in you. You did an outstanding job putting this all together. Samantha would have felt so honored. May God's grace and love comfort you at this time of such tremendous grief. I am so sorry for your loss of a beautiful sister. I am praying for you and your precious family. Della Elzie, Margi Wiest's sister, Albany, GA

February 2, 2015

Dear Joanna and Alan,
We are so sorry for your loss. Unfathomable. I recently saw Sammie in Tucson by accident. We started talking about Carmel and then Stevenson. When I told her I was Ben Holber's mom, she hugged me and made me feel so welcome. She was a ball of energy. The service was beautiful.

Ida and Stephen Holber

Lynn Iwamoto

February 2, 2015

Well written. Your sister would be proud of you and love you for your kind words. I can only offer sympathy to you, your parents, family, friends, and others she touched. I cannot imagine your pain. Take care of yourself and others as she would have done. Samantha carries on in memories and her influence on people.

February 2, 2015

Dear Alan and Joanna: We are so sorry for your loss. We will remember Samantha in our prayers.

Wes and Peggy Small

Jose Ortiz

February 2, 2015

My friend died, someone I came to know, a girl who had every right as I to bear her soul. I don't know why she left, but she packed her bones and breath, leaving behind memories painted with a friend who won't forget. I lost my friend you guys, someone close to me died, you think you hold a grudge for those you love? Get in line. Another soul for Christ, He picks the perfect ones, I know we didn't talk much in the end but I wanted to say, with love, that a spirit like yours helped me through each and every day. This girl I once knew, and smoked with and laughed with, and talked about the past with, and discussed the many lashes, that life gives so freely, I wish she could see me, for I have lost a friend, but I'll meet her when I'm dreaming, I won't let my friends go so easy. No, I won't give them to death, I'll trap them here beneath my chest. For the pounce of the panther, a woman I won't forget, oh beautiful Samantha, your name is surely blessed. Amen

Jamie Flynt

February 1, 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss. The CF community lost a great ambassador in Sammy. I will lift heavy tomorrow with a heavy heart in her honor.

Jamie-Alabama

February 1, 2015

Words can't express how sorry we are hearing of the loss of Sammy. We met Sammy the summer of our son Spencer's junior year at UofA. The four of them would become roommates and best of all...good friends. Sammy was an incredible person and was taken away way too young. Sending positive thoughts and prayers to the Silverman family at this difficult time.
The Reed Family
Al,Julie,Spencer & Alex

Ron Miller

February 1, 2015

I did not know Samantha personally but I am best friends of the McAlpin family from Brea, California. Thadd McAlpin is the son of Brad McAlpin who was a very dear friend of Samantha. I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to Thadd McAlpin and the entire Silverman family. Before this tragic accident I heard so many great things about Samantha from Thadd that I felt I already knew her. Once I read the beautiful obituary written by her brother Michael Silverman and saw the photo gallery I now see what a wonderful person Samantha was. Words can not express how sorry I am to her family and all of her friends.

B. Olivia Jones

February 1, 2015

Remembering Samantha will be easy. She was my client and friend! She was always so excited after she saw her results and made me feel so appreciated! Kind and loving! For myself and everyone at Gadabout our deepest condolence to the family and friends of Samantha! Her beautiful smile will live in my memory always! Love Olivia ??

Terri F

February 1, 2015

I did not know Samantha but my husband and I were there that night on the other side of the road. Our hearts broke when we heard that your loved one had passed. I have been so saddened by this event. Our deepest condolences.

. Galvez family

February 1, 2015

Dear Sam words can't explain how much we miss you! You inspired us in so many ways. Thank you for always encouraging my sisters and I, when things felt impossible. Not only did you encourage us but you pushed us far beyond our limited and guided us with your philosophy. Thank you for being our friend, our mentor and for making us feel like a crossfit family; but most of all thank you for being you!!!! We love you Sam !!! R.I.P beautiful angel.... To Samantha family, Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. Praying for you guys at this time

Galvez Girls

February 1, 2015

Sam, words can't explain how much we miss you! You inspired us in so many ways. Thank you for always encouraging my sisters and I, when things felt impossible. Not only did you encourage us but you pushed us far beyond our limited and guided us with your philosophy. Thank you for being our friend, our mentor and for making us feel like a crossfit family; but most of all thank you for being you!!!! ...We love you Sam !!! Rest in peace ?? love from the Galvez girls

January 31, 2015

The Sam we met at our first NCL meeting, was the caring, thoughtful Sam that touched so many lives I learned today at her service, and a remarkable Sam she was... May your beautiful daughter, sister's loving memory help bring peace to your hearts. Our deepest condolences Joanna, Alan and Michael.
-Judy Tollner and Petersen Attwell

Saul & Susan Jimenez

January 31, 2015

We are so very sorry for your loss.

January 31, 2015

So sorry to hear of her passing. What a bright light she was to others. Her inspiration will live on in others on their fitness journey. Prayers and thoughts being sent your way.

Nicole

January 31, 2015

Sending love and prayers to your family as I am part of the crossfit community, this obituary brought tears to my eyes, thank you for sharing-Nicole

January 31, 2015

We met Sam this past summer when she came to MA to surprise Jenna for her Birthday. We instantly fell in love with Sam...she was such a beautiful, kind, funny and amazing young woman. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to all her friends and family who are grieving the loss of such a vibrant soul. Sincerely, The Driscoll Family, Dan, Katie, Michael and Shane.

Deitrich Benjamin

January 31, 2015

Our thoughts are with you and your family in this time of loss, knowing Samantha's spirit will live on.Tucson Arizona

Kaylee Gibson

January 31, 2015

Dear Samantha, I send you my deepest love and admiration. I send you peace. You were an inspiration to us all. Your strength, enthusiasm, large heart, and courage to persevere have all made us stronger and filled our hearts with your presence.
Dear Silverman Family, Your daughter was a true gem. I send you all peace and strength in this time, and the same courage to persevere that Sami taught us all. I send you love from the bottom of my heart.
My deepest condolences,

Darryle Pollack

January 31, 2015

Dear Joanna, Alan and Michael,
I am heartsick. I remember first meeting Sami as a tiny little girl at Glazes before you moved to Carmel; even back then, she was small but mighty.
During this darkest of times, I wish I had words that could bring any comfort on the unfathomable loss of your beautiful shining star. I hope the love and light Samantha radiated will always continue to lift the hearts of all those she touched.

Vanessa Small

January 31, 2015

Rip Angel

Vanessa Small

January 31, 2015

My prayers go out to Samantha's friends and family . I pray for peace and love in your life's through this hard time . Sam was one of my really good friends at landmark . She was truly amazing ! God bless you all

Kelly Quinnan

January 31, 2015

Samantha,

I remember when we used to ride the Stevenson bus together in the early mornings. You would sit close to me and we would listen to music together on my laptop and talk about girlie things. You looked up to me like an older sister. I will never forget your lively spirit and sweet smile. My heart breaks for your family. Please send strength from heaven for your mom, dad, and brother. Watch over them as a beautiful angel in heaven. Rest in Peace.

Tiffany Alanoori

January 31, 2015

You have been an inspiration to me sam, you are so such a strong beautiful soul RIP

January 31, 2015

We are so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers through this most difficult time. Rich and Wendy Speciale - The Santa Lucia Preserve

Stephanie Collinsworth

January 31, 2015

Even though I didn't meet her I have met a part of her through Stephanie. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Anita Jones

January 31, 2015

I was so saddened to hear the news of Samantha's passing. The last time I saw her was at Crossfit Monterey. She looked so happy, so healthy, so strong and so beautiful. My thoughts are with you all at this inconceivably difficult time, and I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Marta & Anders Tornquist

January 30, 2015

Joanna, Alan and Michael - there are no words to express the sadness in our hearts. Our deepest condolences ! Please know that we are thinking of you and praying for you in this most difficult time of your life. We love you very much.

Samantha - RIP beautiful angel!

Erin Lamb ( Lambo)

January 30, 2015

I looked forward to every trip she made to Colorado. It was awesome to see her light up a room with her smile and energy. I am truly sad for your loss.

Adriana Granat

January 30, 2015

Dear Joanna, Alan and Michael,
Our hearts are breaking for you! Samantha was a beautiful young lady in and out! Her magnetic smile and an incredibly positive energy will never be forgotten! She was one special human being.
We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers everyday.
Words can't express our sorrow.
Michael.... What you wrote about your sister put more tears in my eyes.... What a tragic loss...
Adriana, Artur, Nicole & Joshua
Granat

January 30, 2015

Reading all the posts, comments, messages on facebook, hearing all the stories from so many people, its quick to see just how many people loved sam and were better people because of her. She inspried so many people to be great, and she will always be remembered for that.

Shawn Bellon

January 30, 2015

Sam was always in the gym training when I was there. She was intense and inspiring to watch grow as an athlete. My thoughts go out to her family. Truly the world is a darker place.

Whitehead Family

January 30, 2015

We feel deep gratitude for having known Sammi through her Stevenson years with her quick wit and ready smile. May her star shine on each of you to comfort you in your sorrow.

Marcia Bowhay

January 30, 2015

Dear Joanna and Alan
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We have such great memories of Sammi and Brooke doing Walt's plays. Brooke was the one that called me and told me of the accident. I can't even imagine what you are going through. Please know that the Bowhay family are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Marcia

Zea Navazio

January 30, 2015

Sam was one of the very first friends that I made at the University of Arizona in the fall of 2013. We were in the same Psychology class, and she was the first friendly face that stood out to me in a class of 500+ students. I sat down next to Sam, we struck up a conversation and the rest was history. Sam and I became fast friends. Sam and I used to attend weekly spinning classes at the UofA recreation center. Sam was one of those people that just made you smile. She had such a bright energy that would light up any room. If you were having a bad day, she was always the first person to greet you with a warm hug and knew just what to say to make you laugh. Sam shared with me some of her struggles with classes and with education but she was such a positive person. She found a way to put a positive spin even on her own hardships. Throughout college, Sam and I lost touch on a day to day basis but we remained friends on social media. When I heard this devastating new I was absolutely crushed. The world has truly lost an incredible human being that brought so much light, love and compassion to those around her. I wish that I could talk to her one more time and tell her how much our short friendship meant to me and to let her know how highly I thought of her. Sam, I am praying for you and your family right now. I want you to know that you are loved and you will not be forgotten.

Susan Bush

January 30, 2015

Alan and Joanna, I am so very sorry for what you are going through. I wish you peace as you celebrate and reflect on Sam's life. My heart goes out to you.

Michael, your beautiful words are very moving. Thank you for sharing your deep love and admiration of your sister with us all.

Joseph and Denise Fiorentino

January 30, 2015

Michael,
Beautiful words for your sister Sam.
Alan, Joanna & Michael,
We feel fortunate to have met Sam through her friendship with our niece, Jenna, from their years together at Landmark. When the two were with each other it was only fun, laughter and friendship; a very special twosome. We are sorry for this unimaginable sadness of yours. Sam was a wonderful girl, a beautiful girl.

So sorry,
Joe & Denise

January 30, 2015

My thoughts are with Sam's family! I wish you all peace in this trying time. She was an amazing person that I had the opportunity to know.

Larry & Sandy Delrose

January 30, 2015

Alan, Joanna and Michael…we are saying prayers for Samantha and you.
We keep your Christmas card with your family photo on our kitchen table as sort of our vigil in honor of Samantha. Every time we look at the photo we think of all the good times we had together in Palm Springs when the kids were young. We can visualize Samantha, Michael and Laura playing and laughing. We love you.

Lucy Tim and Kevin Slate

January 30, 2015

Your light will always shine bright in our hearts beautiful angel.
Love.

Anne Schafer

January 30, 2015

Alan, Joanna, and Michael... we will hold you up in prayer as you navigate through this difficult time. We will come to Monterey soon and look forward to spending some time with you. We love you.

Amanda Palmer

January 30, 2015

May she rest in peace and may her spirit always serve as an inspiration to her friends and family. Sending my deepest prayers to all that were touched by her great life.

Joseph and Denise Fiorentino

January 30, 2015

Michael, you have written such beautiful words for your sister Sam.
Alan, Joanna and Michael,
We feel fortunate to have met Sam through our neice's friendship with her at Landmark. They had a very special connection; lots of happiness when they were together. We are so very sorry for what you are going through with this unimaginable loss. She was a wonderful and beautiful young woman.

Our heartfelt condolences,
Joe and Denise

John Hart and Carol Prins

January 30, 2015

Joanna, Alan and Family,
Carol and I are totally shocked upon hearing this tragic news. Our deepest sympathy and love go out to you at this time. We will be in touch.
John and Carol

Dianne and Kevin Caprio

January 30, 2015

Joanna, Alan and Michael,
Wishing you peace to bring comfort and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.
With deepest sympathy,
The Caprio Family

January 30, 2015

Dear Silverman family, When I heard about Sammie, I was devastated. She was a true fighter - always making a huge effort to succeed under immense pressure. She was always upbeat, enthusiastic, and just one very sweet young woman. My deepest condolences to you all especially to Mike who was a wonderful older brother. At Stevenson, our hearts just broke.
Nancy Allison - Stevenson faculty

Bri Sachar

January 30, 2015

Sweet Samantha. I remember the first day we met so vividly. We were accidentally wearing the same outfit to the first day of rush at University of Arizona and instantly became great friends. Such a sweet and bubbly girl, your light has always shined bright from within you and I miss you very much. You were always so beautiful, inside and out, with such motivation and inspiration. You talked me through times of need and made me laugh when I needed a smile on my face. You are an angel now up above, please watch over your family and friends. Its amazing to see how much love is constantly pouring in, and how many peoples lives you touched and affected, without you even knowing. I send love and prayers to your family in this extremely hard time, and sending love to you as well, to your spirit that I know is still with us. Love you sweet Sami girl, rest in paradise ?

Sandra and Alan Silvestri

January 30, 2015

The brightest star on every stage. The loss incalculable. Our deepest condolences. The Silvestri Family

Debbie Tills

January 29, 2015

A profound blessing to have Samantha in your lives and that will never dim... We are so very sorry for your loss...The Tills' Family

Julie Pitts Talbert

January 29, 2015

My heart goes out to the Silverman family. Joanna, may the love and light you always shine form within you carry you through this difficult time.

-Julie Pitts Talbert, former Stevenson staff member

Kandis and Tom Malefyt

January 29, 2015

Dear Samantha,
What our family most remembers is your sparkle. From your elementary school years on, you could take the stage and hold an audience and just shine. You were a dynamo and delightful. Your sparkle will live on in the hearts of everyone who knew you and your family. Thank you for being here.
Love from the Malefyts

January 29, 2015

Our hearts go out to you at this most difficult of all times. Julie remembers Sam in her freshman group at Stevenson as bubbly and vivacious; always ready to participate in her bright and cheerful way. We are all feeling the pain of your terrible loss. Prayers and condolences don't seem enough, but we hope they ease the pain a little. Thinking of you, Kim, Irv, Julie, and Derek Hartford

January 28, 2015

I met Samantha at the gym for the first time, and I remember being instantly captivated by her spirit, passion, and strength. Every time I saw her, she carried herself in the most beautiful way and with so much confidence that never went unnoticed. It truly breaks my heart to know that a great person was taken so young. She touched so many lives in many different ways and has tons that loved and cared for her. I did not know Samantha well, but the impression that she left on me will last forever, and I have always remembered her for her confidence and strength. She is truly an inspiration to so many. My prayers are with all of your family and friends.

Chelsea Wilkinson

January 28, 2015

To the family and friends of this beautiful girl, I was her old roommate at landmark and she helped me through one of the most difficult and isolating times of my life, she will always have a place in my heart. I am truly devasted and in no words can explain how hard this must be for anyone who has had the privilege to know her. I am honored to have been a small part in her life and in loving memory, will always be grateful for the happiness she has given me. My thoughts are with the family. Words cannot describe the pain we take in losing her but also the joy she has brought to many in her lifetime. i will be celebrating your life md your accomplishments Sami, I love you.

Courtney Pierce

January 28, 2015

I was Samantha's houseparent in Williston at Landmark her first few years there and my husband Derek taught her in the Prep program her Senior year. I will remember her beautiful smile, kindness, perseverance, and love for life. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. ~ Courtney & Derek Pierce

Michael Helfrich

January 28, 2015

Alan, Joanna, and Michael: Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. This is a terrible loss. Samantha was a most impressive person and soul. We are at a total loss for words at this tragedy. God bless... Mike, Sarabeth, Scott, Allie Helfrich.

Courtney Pierce

January 28, 2015

I was Samantha's houseparent for a few years while she was at Landmark School and my husband taught her in the Prep program her senior year. What a beautiful young woman she was; full of passion, kindness, perseverance and a smile that lit up the room - it is heartbreaking. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Peace, Courtney Pierce

Nancy Telluride

January 28, 2015

Alan, Joanna and Michael. You and your extended family are in our thoughts and prayers. This just isn't right. Your beautiful daughter touched so many lives with her genuine kindness and thoughtful ways. The tears won't stop. So sorry for your loss

January 28, 2015

Sending my heartfelt condolences to Sam's family and friends

Mary Foxworthy

January 28, 2015

Dear sweet Samantha, the memories of you and the days of your youth, can only bring a smile to my face, often a chuckle, and now tears to my eyes. The time that you spent as a wonderful, kind and inspirational friend to Rachel, has left a mark on her soul that will endure a lifetime. You were always a treasure to our family. A gift that was given, unwrapped and enjoyed time and time again! When I think of fierce, determined, positive and strong, I see your face. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Dear Allen and Joanna, I know that your hearts are broken. Please remember that your love for each other brought a wonderful being into this world. Samantha was so fortunate to have the two of you to love her, guide her, Inspire her and challenge her to live such a rich life. I wish for you the inner strength to take life a day at a time so that you may continue life's journey in peace.
Dear Michael, your wonderful sister had an equally wonderful brother to look up to, and she did! Take time for yourself to reflect and enjoy the great memories that you and Samantha created together.
Much love to all of you.

January 28, 2015

Just heartbroken and can't even imagine how you are feeling. But know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Asking that God will give you strength, peace, and comfort during this time. God bless. Darla Barsoian-past Stevenson School employee.

jules cpgan

January 28, 2015

Our hearts are broken along with yours. She was a bright light in all of our lives.
The Cogan Family

January 28, 2015

A beautiful young lady with a smile and personality that lit up all of Tucson. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family. With our deepest sympathy The Cannino family

January 27, 2015

I got the message from my daughter 10 minutes ago and can barely type through the tears. There are no words that can comfort you. God is supposed to have a plan for us all but how can this possibly be what He intended? Please know that our most fervent prayers are with you all now and and in the weeks and months to come. I will have a Mass said at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel this week. - Ed and Gail Quinnan

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