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Richard Fulham Obituary
AGE: 80 • Toms River
Richard Francis Fulham, 80, of Toms River, NJ, died on September 17, 2012, after a lifetime of service. Born on April 25, 1932, in New Brunswick, NJ, he resided in South River, NJ, and Toms River, NJ, for most of his life.
Rich served in the Army from 1950-1953 as a sergeant with the 3rd Infantry Division. He fought in the Korean War from 1950-51, earning a Bronze Star and New Jersey Distinguished Service Medal.
After serving his country in the Army, he returned to his hometown of South River, NJ, to serve his community - volunteering as a member of the South River Fire Department and Rescue Squad. After working for a short time at DuPont, he became a South River Police Officer, rising through the ranks and retiring in 1988 as Captain.
Never one to sit still, Rich "unretired" in 1989 and began a second career working as an Agent for the Ocean County Prosecutor's Office in Toms River, where he moved in 1990. He served four County Prosecutors as a member of the Traffic Bureau, the Fatal Accident Unit and the Community Relations office. Rich also served as a Security Officer for the 1996 Olympics in Atlanta, Georgia. He was awarded the Silver Star for Bravery from the American Police Hall of Fame. He was a former member of the American Legion, VFW and State PBA.
Predeceased by his parents, Patrick and Mary Fulham; and a brother, Patrick, Rich is survived by his loving wife of 27 years, Cynthia Polgar Doll Fulham; two sisters, Marion Rebeck (Bob) and Joan Zuczek; four daughters, Susan Crater (Billy), Bonnie Fulham (Mariann), Kathleen Agheli (Modjy) and Diane Blaszka (Rob); and two stepsons, William Doll (Dorisann) and Kevin Doll (Coretta). He was the beloved grandfather of nine: Richard Fulham; Gavin and Brandon Blaszka; Chase Agheli; Katie Crater; William, Joshua and Marley Doll; and Chandler Jackson. He was the cherished uncle of Patricia Bendorf (Craig), Sharon Witkowski (James), Beth Ann Zuczek Coffman (Glenn), and a warmly loved and respected friend and family member to many.
Richard will be well remembered for his desire to serve and help his fellow man, as well as his kind heart.
A private ceremony was held for family through Carmona-Bolen Home for Funerals in Toms River. Donations or volunteer services in Rich's memory are encouraged to the organization of your choice.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Richard Fulham
Diane (Me)
September 18, 2023
I love and miss you Bub. I spent last evening going through some boxes of your stuff with both boys, reading from sweet and inspiring letters you wrote us, news articles about your successes, and showing them pics from all our happy times. They need to know the strong and sweet blood they carry. xoxo Lady Di
October 4, 2012
Dad,
I am sending you our love. We are all being as strong as can be. You raised us all to be strong and to go on no matter what, so we will do just that. We love you so much.
Susie Movie Star and all of your loved ones xxxooo
October 4, 2012
Daddy,
We all miss you so much but we know you are looking down on us. Give all of our loved ones in heaven a big hug from all of us down here.We love you, goodnight dearest Dad.
Susie
Kathy Fulham
October 2, 2012
Dad: Missing you so much but we all know you are at peace. Your 4 girls are making you proud by carrying on with your wishes, being respectful, kind and caring as your were in life. You were such an example of a good parent,friend and what to be in life to all. Love you Dad. Kathleen Mary
September 30, 2012
Goodnight Dad, I will make sure to give Katie D a hug from Poppy D when I tuck her in tonight. I love you and miss you so much but I know you had to go.Love, Susie Movie Star and Billy and Katie D.
Diane
September 30, 2012
Oh Dad, I miss you so much. I pray that you are flying high and not rolling your eyes at us too much down here. We LOVE and MISS YOU every minute of every day.
John & Carolyn Lambert
September 27, 2012
The name Rich certainly fitted your Dad. Rich in love for his beautiful daughters and family. Rich in pride for his grandchildren & their accomplishments. Rich in friendship to all his dear friends. Rich in faithful, dedicated service to his community. May your Dad rest in peace. Though those left behind mourn his passing, they rejoice in knowing that he is free from his earthly pain and rejoicing in the presence of his Savior. Much love always.
Stuart Martinsen
September 26, 2012
We have added Rich to our PANJ website Memorial Page on our website..he will always be our friend-http://panj.org/memoriam_friends.html
Please be well...
Faye Prince
September 26, 2012
Kathy, I am so sorry to hear of the death of your father. May he rest in peace and love of God always.
Amy Muirhead
September 25, 2012
I will never forget how kind you were to my daughter. She was a little girl when she first met you, but you always treated her with respect. And you had the greatest smile! See you on the flip side..
Alex & Lisa Haggis
September 25, 2012
Farewell to our dear, long-time friend, Richard Fulham. It's hard to believe that you're gone. Until we meet again ...Godspeed Rich.
Bonnie
September 25, 2012
Love ya Dad. Will see you again down the road. You were the best dad in the world.
Pup
Darlene (Angersbach) Mauro
September 25, 2012
As a kid growing up on Frandsen Avenue I always felt a little safer knowing Mr. Fulham lived up the street. As an adult, I have always felt a little safer because of the lessons from that same man. The Frandsen Avenue Angels have a new member. I imagine my dad saw him and said, "Richie, Welcome to the club, it's good to see you!"
Mike Agheli
September 24, 2012
Rich: Thank you for always treating me like a son. You were encouraging, caring and supportive. You were always warm and kind to everyone. You valued your family and your love for all was evident. I will miss our talks and having our cognac and cigars together. Rest in peace Rich. Love, Modjy - The Bridge Builder
September 24, 2012
Dear Fulham Family,
Rich was a patient/friend of mine for many, many years! He was so kind! We talked often about the PBA and when he was on the force. When I met my husband, who also worked down town and was in the PBA,he made sure to be at my wedding even though it was during a hurricane.I will miss you Rich. Rest in peace my friend. My heart goes out to you Cynthia, just know he touched so many lives and he brought a smile to every one of them.
Daryl Clark, Toms River
Stuart Martinsen
September 24, 2012
To Rich's family,
I am very saddened to hear of Rich's passing.What a great guy... I knew him from Ocean County and also from the TR Fitness where he used to swim alot. He helped me agreat deal and was a very modest person. He loved life and his family and wife. I will miss him very much...
Fran Kosa
September 24, 2012
With that gentle smile and a warm hello, Rich always greeted me and treated me with such kindness. To his much-beloved family, I offer my prayers and sincere sympathy.
Addie Rose
September 24, 2012
Oh rich you were so amazing. When you walked into Ocean County Printing you use to light up everyone's eyes. You were the perfect gentlemen & always treated me with the up most respect as if I were one of your family members. You were an amazing person so RIP my true friend you will be missed by a lot of people but I know I will miss you FOREVER!!! Xoxo
Susan Crater
September 23, 2012
Dad,
Billy, your Katie D, and I were so blessed to have spent your last day here on Earth with you. You remained loving, compassionate, and kind even though you were tired and in pain. Little did I know that we were holding hands for the last time. Jesus blessed us by being together that day and letting you rise to him peacefully that night. Your kind heart went to sleep and then to heaven peacefully. I know your Mother greated you there and you are safe in your new home above. Rest My Dear Dad with the love of God around you.
Love, Susie Movie Star
Susan Crater
September 23, 2012
The warm glow of this candle reminds me of the warmth I was blessed to receive from you Dad for 56 years. I am sending a warm embrace to Heaven for you. Love, your first born
Susan Crater
September 23, 2012
Dad,
I know your heart and soul will go on as you would always tell me this. Billy, your precious Katie D, and I can feel your spirit around us. A wonderful soul such as yours can never truly die. I love you so much. Your Susie Movie Star
Chase Agheli
September 23, 2012
Pop you were always happy and had a great sense of humor. You were always so kind and caring.I will always love you!
September 23, 2012
Kathleen Fulham
September 23, 2012
"Or you can do what he'd want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.” Dad we will do this. The kindness and love you gave to everyone was such a gift to all and will be carried in their hearts forever. Dad you always loved us unconditionally and had our backs. I am so proud to be your daughter. Love your Kathleen Mary
John Mount
September 23, 2012
Rich was a true gentleman and friend. God bless. You will always be remembered.
Shirley Jacobsen
September 23, 2012
Rich was a wonderful, kind-hearted man... he loved his family and always looked to do the right things for everyone. He will be truly missed and never forgotten by many.
Noreen Braman
September 22, 2012
I light this candle in Richard Fulham's honor, knowing he was a shining light to his daughter, and my dear friend Diane, as well as all who knew and loved him.
80th birthday party in April 2012
Diane Fulham Blaszka
September 22, 2012
Dad, You left us with so many pearls of wisdom. "You are who you walk with," Everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time," "Forgive and forget," "Never say or do anything wrong to make a friend, or do keep one," "Honesty is courage," and, finally, "A father holds his daughters' hands for a short time, but their hearts forever." How very, very, very true dad. You will forever live in our hearts and souls. I love and thank you for all you did and all you were Bub. Diane
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