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Trevor was born June 10, 1979 in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, the son of John Douglas and Pamela Evans Butler. His paternal grandparents, Myrtle and Bruce Butler; and his maternal grandmother, Freda Marie Evans, predeceased him.
He graduated from Socastee High School in 1997.
He was a talented musician and played with two musical groups, ''Coyote'' and ''Bottom of the Hudson'' in Philadelphia and New York. He enjoyed touring with his bands and entertaining people.
Trevor was a loving son, brother and friend.
Survivors include his parents, John and Pam, his sister, Celeste E. Butler, and his maternal grandfather, Charles Evans, all of Myrtle Beach.
A Celebration of his life will be held 11 a.m. Thursday, August 2, 2007, at McMillan-Small Funeral Home, with Dr. Kirk Lawton Jr. officiating.
The family will receive friends following the service at the funeral home.
Condolences may be sent to the family at www.msfh.net and at MyrtleBeachOnline.com.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Bellamy Law Firm Trust Account, P.O. Box 357, Myrtle Beach, SC 29587, for the Jon Trevor Butler Memorial Fund.
McMillan-Small Funeral Home, (843) 449-3396, is serving the family.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jon Butler
Thomas
February 9, 2017
Miss those 1st days IN SC with you and my best days of my life which was in those shared with you...I wish I could be 6 again riding your mongoose with mags( jumping hills and riding)Cant take those memories....Life doesn't get easier...Thanks Trevor
sherrie todd
September 9, 2007
Dear Pam, Johnny, and Celeste I did not know of your loss until recently and I just wanted you to know that I as well as my entire family grieve with you. We will never understand God's plan while we are still on this earth and it is so hard for us not to question Him.Know you will continue to be in our daily prayers and thoughts always as we continue to live in His Amazing Grace! Ting, Sherrie and Christian Todd
Leann Greto
August 23, 2007
Pam, Jon and Celeste,
There is not one hour in the day that goes by that I don't think of Trevor and how much I love him, as well as all of you. Trevor means so much to me and has been such an amazing part of my life since the day i met him. I had never met someone so loving, caring and best of all funny. I am so appreciative that you have all become part of my life for the past 5 years. I cherish my relationship with your family more then anything and I promise to be here for you always. I love you all very very very much!
LOVE
Becky Sorensen (Stoorza)
August 17, 2007
To the Butler Family,
I am so sorry to hear that Trevor is gone. He has had such an influence on so many lives, and his magnetic presence will carry on. I know Trevor's strength and ease will help guide you through this. Again, I am so deeply sorry for your tremendous loss.
pete ackerman
August 13, 2007
Celeste: I can not begin to even explain how sorry i am for your loss. I think i only met your brother once, but you talked about him so much it was like i actually knew him! He had to be a great guy with a sis like you! Oh girl, stay strong!
Tom and Joanne Langfitt
August 12, 2007
Dear Pam and Johnny, We didn't know Trevor, but knowing the two of you we're certain that he had a wonderful upbringing and a great time while he was here. It sounds as if he was very, very talented, and we know he was very, very loved by your family. Please call if we can do anything.
Estrue Simon
August 6, 2007
Pam, Johnny, Celeste & Junior,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. I know how proud you was of Trevor. You and your family our in our hearts, and when you feel like talking, give me a call. We love you. Estrue and Jonas
Stacey (Vaughn) Brosky
August 6, 2007
My heart aches for your family, for the pain and grief you feel, for the sudden rift in the fabric of your life. Words at this point fail to ease so I know there is nothing anyone can say. I am learning though, through my own loss, that time does indeed dull the pain. My prayers, my thoughts go to Celeste and her Mom and Dad. I pray that you find peace with this tragedy, that one day you'll be welcomed by Trevor. May God be with you.
Karon (Bowers) Jones
August 5, 2007
Johnny, Pam and Celeste, I am so sorry that your hearts have to be so heavy at this time. May you find strength from those around you and comfort knowing you are not alone. My prayers are with all of you.
August 4, 2007
Celeste, Pam & Johnny:
We want you to know that we are thinking of all of you at this difficult time. We truly do understand, and hate that you have to go through this! I haven't seen Trevor since he was just a little guy, but I always thought he was the cutest little boy. Please call me when you feel you need to talk. The Sedlack family
John Barnes
August 4, 2007
Johnny and Pam,I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I am also glad that I was able to talk to you both shortly after getting word from the Beach. I just wanted to say again how sorry Margie and I are for your loss.You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We will be in Myrtle Sept. 12 for a week. I will give you a call. John Barnes
Jason Hearn
August 4, 2007
I can only tell you how sorry i am for your loss. Words are hard to come by but our hearts ache with sadness. Trevor was a good kid.
Hook & Terri Dempsey
August 4, 2007
Johnny & Pam, We are so very sorry to hear of your loss of Trevor. We are sure that even at 28 years old he was still your baby boy. We pray that you will find comfort in many memories of wonderful times spent together.
Angela Kroll
August 3, 2007
Butler Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
angela h
August 3, 2007
to the Butler family,
i am very sorry for your loss. Trevor was an extraordinary person and will forever be missed until we grace his presence at the gates of heaven .. he was an awesome and loving person and we will always remember him .. my thoughts and prayers go out to you
Nonna & Garry Lidkie
August 3, 2007
Dear Pam, Johnny and Celeste. We want you to now that your long time friends from Canada are grieving with you in your tragic loss of your beloved son & brother Trevor. We are sorry that we are unable to be with you at this time of need, and there are no words that we can convey that will lessen the heatbreak you are all feeling. We have fondest memories of Trevor as a toddler, child and a fine young man over the many years that we visited with you. God must have a special plan for Trevor to take him from you so early in his life. If only we knew what the plan was, it wouldn't be so hard to let him go. Pam, you carried him inside of you for 9 months, and now you can keep his memory inside you forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Take comfort in one another and do not be silent. Speak of Trevor each and every day, because you know he is listening. Say wonderful things and put a smile on his face. We love you all and God Bless.
Jim & Terry Perito
August 3, 2007
Pam & Johnny,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
The Perito Family
Jamie DeFelice
August 3, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Jennifer Parker
August 2, 2007
Pam,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I love you and pray that God will whisper sweet peace to you all.
Carrie (Cummins) Chappell
August 2, 2007
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
...................................
Dear Butler family,
I was so sorry to hear of yur loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies. I knew Trevor throughout school growing up. Words cannot describe how Trevor's sweet friendship graced my life. Even through the distance of maturity, Trevor remained in my thoughts and prayers. As I am somber in my fond remembrances of Trevor, may your memories bring you comfort as your hearts are filled with wonder of the joyful times together, while you celebrate a life well lived. My heart goes out to you at this time. Since our school days, I've become a mother to three precious children, and I know that no bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Though it seems it's no consolation, take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Let the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. My condolences are with you as you grieve, and you are in my thoughts as I pray for God to bless you in this time of sorrow.
Sincerely,
Nancy Burnside
August 2, 2007
Uncle Junior, Pam and family,
Our hearts are sadden to hear of the loss of your beloved son. I know how much you loved him and was so proud of him. Pam, these are precious memories that no one can take from you. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers daily. If there is anything that we can do, please do not ever hesitate to let us know. I love you and enjoyed your visit with us so much. May God surround you with his strength, love and peace.
Traci Dorman (Larson)
August 2, 2007
Celeste and family,
I am very sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Please know that you are in my prayers.
Wendy Mease Setzer
August 2, 2007
Johnny and Family,
I am so sorry about Trevor. I know how proud of him you all were. Words can not express my sympathy.
With love,
Wendy and Family
Stephanie Cagle
August 2, 2007
Pam, My dearest friend:
Mere words that I may have will certainly not heal the pain you are feeling right now. But know that God is closest to those with broken hearts and He can take the pain away. May your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead. I know that you have many wonderful memories of Trevor. There was always a sparkle in your eyes when you spoke of him. No mother could have been more proud of her son. Just know that Trevor touched many lives and his legacy lives on through his music. Keep your faith in God. "Faith makes things possible, not easy." I love you!
Evelyn Eskins
August 2, 2007
Dear Pam, Junior, Chuck and family. I am so sad to hear about Trevor. You are in my thoughts and my prayers. May God bless you and give you peace at this sad time. Aunt Evelyn (Junior, your oldest sister Evelyn....I love you and miss you.)
Jennifer Beane
August 2, 2007
Mrs. Butler and family,
I sorry to hear about Trevor. My thoughts are with you.
Brittney Scibona
August 2, 2007
Dear Family,
My deepest thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Jenny Suggs (Batten)
August 2, 2007
Dear Pam and Johnny,
I am so sorry to hear about Trevor. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I certainly understand your pain because I just lost my 16 year old cousin in a car accident on July 26, 2007. Just remember God will help you get through this time, He IS in control and one day we will be in the same place with our love ones!
Rada Slater
August 2, 2007
Dear Uncle Junior, Pam and family, our family is so sorry for the death of Trevor. Our prayers are with you at this sad time. May your faith in God help you through this. Love from Rada, and our family.
Tom Binkley
August 2, 2007
John & Pam
Thoughts and Prayers are with you today.
Bryan Binkley
August 2, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Bridget Binkley-Ensor
August 2, 2007
Dear Johnny,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today. My deepest sympathy.
Tom & Carol Binkley
August 2, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Angi Young
August 2, 2007
Celeste,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much you loved him and I wanted you to know that I am thinking about you and your family during this hard time.
Love,
Angi Young
Gin Amodio
August 2, 2007
Pam and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jason Soukup
August 2, 2007
Celeste,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Trevor but I know how much you adored and loved him. I can't imagine what you're going through. I think the world of you and I want you to know I'm thinking of you.
Wanda Graham Shoemaker
August 1, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. There are times I have tried to understand why and no answer comes. In reflecting I recall that God makes no mistakes. Let your self mourn your loss and when the burden is to heavy, remember to let God carry you. Wrap your arms around your memories and hold them true. Your family chain is broken and life on earth has forever changed, but let your heart rejoice knowing that your family chain will be linked again in heaven in Gods chosen time.
Rainelle Weaber
August 1, 2007
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Lisa Cox
August 1, 2007
To the family of Trevor Buler,
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my father in a horriable accident back in 04'. I know the heartache you have. I went to school with Trevor and he was a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Holly Sneeden
August 1, 2007
To the family of Jon T. Butler. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Charlotte Davis
August 1, 2007
Celeste and family,
Our prayers are with you all. You quickly have become a part of our family and we love you. We will be here to help in any way we can. Love, Charlotte and the family at Center Stage Fabrics
Michael & Andrea Del Gardo
August 1, 2007
Dear John, Pamela and Celeste, we are very sorry to hear of the loss of your son and brother, Jon. Your loss is deep, and it is sad to hear of someone so young being taken away from his family. Our sympathy is with you. Your neighbors, Michael, Andrea & Gianna, at 21 Shawnee Trail.
Susan Frampton
August 1, 2007
Pam, I am so sorry to hear of your lose. In times like these we can only lean on the Lord for our strength. Love, Your Cousin Susan Evans Frampton
Marjorie Simon
August 1, 2007
To the Butler Family,
Words are inadequate to express our deep sorrow for your devastating loss. Trevor meant so much to Eli, we feel his loss although we didn't really know him. I know Eli feels close to you too. Please accept our sincere condolences. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers for now and always.
Respectfully,
Marjorie and Kevan Simon
(Eli's parents)
Laura Abernathy
August 1, 2007
Dear Pam and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
sheila troutman
August 1, 2007
dear celeste, i am so very sorry to hear about trevor. i loved him so much as i had the pleasure of watching him grow up. my prayers are with you , trevor brought much love and joy to our family
sheila troutman
August 1, 2007
dear pam and johnny, my heart is broken i loved trevor as one of my own.i keep thinking of all the joy he and nathan shared growing up. it was a pleasure to have known him. my prayers are with you.
Terrie Moore
August 1, 2007
Johnny and Family,
I express my deepest sympathy for you and yours. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Terrie Moore (old B&C Lady)
Jessica "JustJess" LeMin
August 1, 2007
Celeste and family,
I am so sorry for your loss and I can't imagine what you are all feeling right now. I knew Trevor through out high school, but we didn't really become friends until after Celeste and I had become friends. I was always impressed by his caring nature and the love that your family shared for one another. Trevor is such an amazing person, and will be very greatly missed!! Celeste, if there is anything I can do for you or your family please let me know. Feel free to contact me when you feel up to it. Much Love, Jess
Kimberly Weed
August 1, 2007
Pam~
I'm praying for you and your family everyday! Please always know that you can call regardless of the time!
Mary Ann Jordan
August 1, 2007
Dear Johnny,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you and your family.
Suzie Holmes
August 1, 2007
Dearest Celeste, Pam and Johnny,
There are no words to make this any easier. One cannot imagine the grief you must be experiencing. The loss of Trevor has left us all with a void in our lives.
May you somehow find comfort in knowing he's in a better place.... performing for the angels around him.
With all our love,
Suzie, Herman, Hunter and Kelly.
Gretchen Holzberger
August 1, 2007
Dear Celeste and family,
I was so sorry to hear about Trevor. Please know that I am thinking of you all and that you are in my prayers. Gretchen
Mona McCoy
August 1, 2007
Pam,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. When we reconnected after decades apart, it was so clear how much you enjoyed and loved your children. They will always know that. Call anytime you need to talk.
Kayatta Scott
August 1, 2007
Johnny, Pam, Sis...My heart dropped for you. I am sorry to hear of the news about Trevor. Comfort one another in this time of sorrow.
Samantha Templeton
August 1, 2007
So sorry for your loss. I knew Trevor in Philadelphia and found him one of the sweetest souls I have ever met. He will be sorely missed...
John Marlowe
August 1, 2007
Johnny, Pam, and Celeste;
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Wayne & Lori Rogers
August 1, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Debbie Praete
August 1, 2007
Pam & family,
My heart is breaking for you. I cannot imagine what you must be going through. I will never forget the day, when you took me by the arm, dragged me in the library, and said, "look my son Trevor is on the internet", and there was this gorgeous picture of Trevor, and you were beaming with love and pride for your boy! I will always remember that day, what an awesome sight to see a Momma so proud of her son! I know he knew how much he was loved by all of you, just know he is in a better world now, and will always be looking out for all of you. If you need anything, just ask. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. God Bless.
Julie Sluss
August 1, 2007
Johnny and Family:
At a time like this words are never enough but please know you are in my heart and on my mind. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Holly (Floyd) Thorpe
August 1, 2007
Dear Pam and Celeste,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have so many great memories of Trevor and your family from high school. I'll always hold the years I spent hanging out with Nathan and Trevor in Cimmeron close to my heart. He was always a mama's boy and loved his family dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
LEE RUSS
August 1, 2007
JOHNNY & PAM, MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES OVER THE LOSS OF TREVOR. MAY GOD BE ESPECIALLY CLOSE TO YOU DURING THE DAYS AHEAD. "DEATH IS A HEARTACE NOONE CAN HEAL
lOVE IS A MEMORY NOONE CAN STEAL".
MY PRAYERS ARE W/YOU ALL.
Michelle Thompson
August 1, 2007
Pam,
You are in my thought and prayers.
Nicole and Jason Doudican-Jones
August 1, 2007
Dear Celeste and family,
We were terribly saddened to hear of this tragedy. Trevor is such a dear friend to our family. We will always remember him for his easy going ways and sense of humor. Please take comfort in knowing that we are thinking of you all. We love you very much.
Karen Hall
August 1, 2007
Pam,
I was so sorry to hear about Trevor. I never got to meet him, but always knew what a great son he was by listening to you talk about him with such pride and love when I worked with you in the library at SES.
Love ya girl,
Karen Hall
Alecia Reese-Reyes
August 1, 2007
Celeste, Johnny & Pam-
Words cannot express the pain and heartache you are feeling right now. Please know there are many thoughts and prayers being said for you. Thank you for always making me welcome and please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Linda Poplin
August 1, 2007
Johnny,Pam & Celeste,
We are thinking of you at this most
difficult time in your lives. Words
can not express. Our prayers are
may God comfort your broken hearts in some way and sustain you in the
days ahead.
Love & Prayers,
D.C.,Linda & Shannon
Johnny Webster
August 1, 2007
Please accept my sincere condolences
Laura Woods
August 1, 2007
Pam and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you during this difficult time...
Lenny Green
August 1, 2007
Dear Johnny, Pam, and Celeste, my deepest sympathy for everyone.
Debra L McDowell
August 1, 2007
Dear Pam,
I know there are no words that can ease your pain at this time. Just know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. We have shared so many conversations about our sons,both of them living far away from us, and I know how precious he is and always will be to you. I hope that the love and all of those happy memories that you have of him will see you through this sad time. May God bless each one of you.
Love, Debby McDowell
Bonnie Cox Register
August 1, 2007
Johnny,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May the peace of the Lord always be with all of you.
Love,
Cia Mann
August 1, 2007
Celeste and family-
I am so saddened by your loss. I was not close to Trevor but I liked him very much. He was always kind to me and will be missed by so many people. Celeste, you are in my thoughts and prayers. BIG HUG TO U!!
Ana Lanzara
July 31, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Carol Bernier
July 31, 2007
Dear Pam,Johnny,Celeste and family- I was so sorry to hear about Trevor.Our thoughts and prays are with you all at this time and the days ahead.May the memories of Trevor bring comfort to you and keep them close to your hearts.Love and hugs, Carol,Billy,Ashton, and Dylan
Lori Hale
July 31, 2007
Celeste,
I am so sorry for your loss.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.Please give my condolences to the rest of your family and be sure to let me know if there is anything for you.
Rachel, Michael Molly, & Sara Rogers
July 31, 2007
Johnny, Pam, Celeste, and Family,
Words cannot express how sorry we are to hear of your loss. I know Trevor will be missed but he lives on in your hearts and his music.
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