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Roger Derrer Obituary
He was the son of the late Lee Wallace and Gloria McIntyre Derrer.
A gregarious and generous soul, he was many wonderful things to many people.
Survivors include his son, Ian; daughter, Marit; sister, Carolyn Sue Laughran; and long-time companion, Patricia Hendrix.
A memorial service will be held at 3 p.m. on Friday, Mar. 31, 2006 at McMillan-Small Funeral Home in Myrtle Beach, followed by a celebration of his life at Ron Jon's restaurant at 5 p.m.
Condolences may be sent to the family at www.msfh.net or at MyrtleBeachOnline.com.
Contributions can be made to the First Presbyterian Church of Myrtle Beach Concert Series, PO Box 1306, Myrtle Beach, SC 29578.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Roger Derrer
Joyce Fowler
April 1, 2020
What a delightful man Roger was! He took me to a performance of La Boheme
and a behind the scenes tour at the Met. We had dinner at a glorious Cuban restaurant with some of his friends/ cast members . We did business together and always found much to share.An unforgettable soul!
Beverly Hall
May 7, 2006
To my Evil Twin,
Thoughts of you and Roger are forever imbedded in my mind,our first friends on the beach. Roger's warmth, smile and wonderful voice will be missed
Your always in my thoughts.
Much Love, Beverly
Bobbe Maynes
April 11, 2006
Although none of you will know me, I was a buddy of Roger's for all of our childhood days -- right through high school. His mom and my mom played bridge together and Roger and I were in musicals, plays, took dancing together and just plain hung out together. Although we have completely lost touch over the many years since college, I was shocked to hear of his death and send my love and prayers to his sister Sue and the rest of his family. It is difficult to imagine that he is gone, and since my husband and I travel every year to Hilton Head (leaving this Friday), I wish I had realized Roger was so close. He was my first introduction to "the south" and now I will always think of him as we wend our way into the "low country." Bobbe Rhodes Maynes, Shelburne, VT
Christina Runyon
April 6, 2006
I'm ashamed to say that I never got to know Roger as well as I would have liked, however, in the six months or so since we first met, he'd shown more kidness, generosity and friendship towards me than many people I've known my whole life. I feel blessed to have known him at all. My prayers go out to Roger's family and friends. God bless you.
Jimmy, Robin & Braxton Powers
April 4, 2006
We feel fortunate to have become a friend of Roger's during his time in Raleigh. He will be deeply missed by many. Our prayers and thoughts go out to his family and Pat.
Carol Ford
April 3, 2006
Ian and Marit:
How sorry we were to hear about Roger. We often speak of him when talk begins on theater. He was so much fun and we missed him when he moved away. Please know that our prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
God bless you both.
Ted and Linda Welsh
March 31, 2006
Dear Pat and Family, Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow. Roger was one of the first people that we met when coming to the beach as snow birds. We continued to be friends over the years and greatly appreciate Roger and Pat's friendship. Love Linda and Ted
Betty Bee
March 31, 2006
Sue, Ian and Marit:
So sorry to hear of Roger's death. I was a good friend of your mother and father, grandmother and grandfather, neighbors for many years.
Matt and Nancy Gustafson
March 30, 2006
Ian and Marit,
How sad we were to learn of Roger's death. May time's passing somehow help to ease your sorrow and loss, and may the memories left behind bring comfort for tomorrow. The Gustafson Family
Robert/Brenda Myrick
March 30, 2006
Roger most certainly touched alot of peoples hearts in the short time we were fortunate to have known him.He will be greatly missed.The angels must have needed his beautiful voice to sing their praises of joy. Our heart go out to his family and especially his closest friend Pat Hendrix.
Jill Miles-Wolford
March 30, 2006
Even though I didn't know Roger personally, I met and spoke to him at Ron Jon's through my daughter, Jami who was a Server there for quite some time. Every time I went into Ron Jon's when Roger was there he always said 'hello', nice to see you, how's that beautiful grandbaby of yours doing? He was a most pleasant gentleman with a smile that lit up the bar he was standing at. Not to mention the delicious delicacies we all sampled at Ron Jon's at one time or another. I know he will be sorely missed by many people. I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet him. My sincerest sympathy to Pat & Roger's family. Memories and pictures will help get everyone through this most difficult time. God Speed...
David Moody
March 30, 2006
Roger and Pat had become my friends within the past year and I must say, he will be missed. We shared lots in common... interest in music, theatre, puns and bad jokes and just plain fun. His demeanor was always pleasant.
My sincerest heartfelt feelings go out to Pat, Roger's children,his sister and to all his many friends.
Mike Morgan
March 30, 2006
On several occassions 8 guys would descend on Myrtle beach for our annual golf pilgrimmage (one of the 8 was Pat Hendrix's son Brody). Each time we were treated to the greatest feast of our lives...prepared by Roger! He took southern hospitality and cuisine into uncharted territory. Between the meal and the after dinner drinks at RJ's, the ride back to Atlanta was consumed with talk of Roger and Pat...not golf! You will be missed...by many!
Marzette Visser
March 30, 2006
Our deepest condolences to Roger's circle of family and friends. He was a postitive breath of fresh air.
Vickie Strickland.
Eleanore Barlow
March 30, 2006
Those of us who knew and worked with Roger appreciated his sense of humor. He was always helpful and congenial to his friends and co-workers. Roger will be missed by all that knew him.
AL GRICE
March 30, 2006
Roger was a good friend and will be deeply missed. We will miss seeing him at Coastal Cars.
tammy Braithwaite
March 30, 2006
Roger will be missed very much. Every wednesday he always put a smile on my face know matter what kind of mood I was in. Roger always made everyone smile. May God bless you all in this time of sorrow.
Kroger Pharmacy
March 30, 2006
Deepest Sympathy is extended to the Family of Roger Derrer from the staff of Kroger Pharmacy, Galleria Shopping Center, Myrtle Beach. It was our honor to be of service to Roger for many years.
Anita, Jack, and Bob
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