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Thomas Middleton Obituary

Lt Colonel (Ret) Thomas Clinton Middleton
May 20, 1940-March 17, 2018
North Myrtle Beach
Lt Colonel Thomas Clinton Middleton Jr.,77, of North Myrtle Beach, SC passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on 03/17/2018. Born on May 20, 1940, in Hartsville, SC he was the son of the late Thomas Clinton Middleton and Jessie Perry Middleton. In addition to his parents, Tom is preceded in death by his son Robert Middleton, daughters Julie Middleton, Sherrie Middleton, and his brother Robin Earl Middleton. Survivors include his wife Delores Garcia Middleton, sister Gail Middleton Leaird, son Thomas Clinton Middleton III, two grandchildren, Jarrett Middleton Dancha, Reece Middleton and nephews Robin Meade Middleton and Bo Vaden. Mr. Middleton proudly served his country in the U.S. Army Military Intelligence Branch. He graduated from Presbyterian College with a bachelor's degree. He earned his master's degree in criminal justice from the University of Baltimore and was selected to attend the FBI national academy. He retired from the Army as a lieutenant colonel in 1984. He started his second career in real estate in Ft Meade, MD. In 1991, he was recalled to active duty and served in the U.S. Army Escort Detachment at Ft. Meade. He was involved in the Green Beret incident which is written about in the book "A Murder in Wartime" by Jeff Stein. After being released from active duty Tom moved to Myrtle Beach where he renewed his real estate career with Grand Strand Realty. Tom was known for his Wednesday night Happy Hours which he and his wife hosted up and down the Grand Strand for 23 years. They have had hundreds of people attend the parties and several couples who met at the parties would later get married.Tom was a member of the Myrtle Beach Republican Club, Vietnam Veterans Club, Optimist Club, VFW, American Legion, MOAA, FBI Academy Association, Tea Party, CCARealtors, and Vice President of the Ski and Outing Club.Tom loved to play golf, the beach, beach music, shagging and meeting new people. Tom never met a stranger.
A celebration of life will be held at: Whiskey Beach Bar & Grill Gallaria Shopping Center 9668 Kings Highway 2-5PM
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to DAV P.O. Box 30637 Myrtle Beach S.C. 29588 or The Grand Strand Miracle League PO Box 7503 Myrtle Beach, SC 28572 which was a big passion of Toms.

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Published by The Sun News from Mar. 25 to Apr. 1, 2018.

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Madelyn Minehart

April 26, 2018

Dear Dee, we were so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. He was one of the best, as are you. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy. Ken and Madelyn

Kathy Harrington Middleton McCloud

March 29, 2018

Heaven has gained a beautiful soul. Bless you for your courage, love of life, and service to our country.

Angela Seddinger

March 27, 2018

So sorry for your loss.

Wayne Williams - USMC

March 27, 2018

Thanks for your service Soldier !!!
Wayne Williams
United States Marine Corps

Dennis Connolly

March 26, 2018

Although i only got to see Tom a few times a year i quickly realized what a great guy he was. Always glad to see me and welcome me to his parties. I will truly miss his smiling face everytime i come back to the Beach. I salite you sir!

Kelly Dixon

March 24, 2018

Praying for you Dee and all of Tom's family. I know he will be dearly missed, but never forgotten. I am so sorry for your loss.

Bob Hawkins

March 24, 2018

Tom was a Veteran hero and community leader who will be truly missed by all who knew and loved him. Our thoughts and prayers are with Dee and their entire family.

Faye Terry

March 24, 2018

So sorry to hear this. God bless his family

rita belanger

March 24, 2018

HONORED to have had the joy of meeting you and dee. will be missed but never forgotten. may you rest in peace my friend

Dora B Exploring

March 24, 2018

You were able to make me smile and laugh no matter what challenges the week tossed my way! You cleared a path to friendships, stewardship and a feeling of belonging when I was the new kid on the block. Somewhere it is always Happy Hour!
Dora B Exploring

Ginny Whipple

March 24, 2018

My life has been enriched by my friendship with Tom first and then Dee when he found his love. Tom was definitely a candle in the window of most of our souls. Deepest condolences...

Deborah Hartleroad

March 24, 2018

Thinking of you during this difficult time Prayers

Gerri McDaniel

March 24, 2018

We love and will miss your smiling face but heaven has received a true angel!

Camille Noonan

March 24, 2018

Dee & family: My heartfelt sympathy to you all-he was a wonderful guy!!

Ellen Walker

March 24, 2018

Rest In Peace my friend, you are loved!

March 22, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. May the promise in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 comfort your family.

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