Alan Vannington Duncan

Alan Vannington Duncan obituary, North Canton, CT

Alan Vannington Duncan

Alan Duncan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Sep. 29 to Oct. 1, 2023.
Alan Vannington Duncan died on September 28, 2023.

The second child of Doris and John Duncan, his family called him Butch. He was brother to Jack Duncan. He was the beloved husband of Anne Valentine Duncan, devoted father to Abigail Vannington Duncan and Jessica Stuart Duncan, and loving grandfather to Sarah Grace Valentine Esposito and Jameson Romer Esposito. He also leaves his best friend, David Haight.

He was interested in sharing what he had learned with others and did so warmly.

He served in the Peace Corps after college. He and Anne moved to Canton in 1972 where they raised their daughters and numerous dogs. He enjoyed a career teaching young children and eventually he worked with children and their parents to deal with troublesome times. Alan participated in areas which drew his interest and commitment, particularly the Canton Dog Park and the North Canton Fire Department, where he shared a pair of black dress shoes with Jimmy Carpenter, worn at parades. He believed in the mission of the Canton Land Trust. He enjoyed woodworking which was self taught. It took him seven years to build a catboat and when finally launched, it floated well. He was not so interested in sailing, it was the puzzle of building the Denman B., his boat, that fascinated him.

Alan enjoyed both tennis and golf. The New York Giants was always his team.

He was a sweet, gentle man who was friendly and welcoming with people and animals. He had excellent manners and he was a generous host. He will be missed every day.

Please, in memory of Alan, be present with your friends and generous to your community.

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March 14, 2025

Jim & Kathy Carpenter posted to the memorial.

March 14, 2025

John Duncan posted to the memorial.

January 1, 2024

Remo and Maria posted to the memorial.

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Jim & Kathy Carpenter

March 14, 2025

We will hoist one in Dunc´s honor! We miss you!

John Duncan

March 14, 2025

Time has passed, but I still think of my brother Alan often. I miss him. I pray that he is resting in peace.

Brother Jack

Remo and Maria

January 1, 2024

Just today we know of dear Alan.
Believe us, we are sincerely sorry and we'll remember forever his smile and right way.
Embrace for his wife Anne by Remo and Maria from Italy.

Old Friend

December 31, 2023

An exemplary husband and father of his daughters.
I will always remember you, Good Boy.

Jim Carpenter

October 2, 2023

Alan a dear friend, neighbor and shipmate who one could always count on if you had a need. He had a great sense of humor and was quick to laugh even at himself!

Dawn Harris

October 1, 2023

My deepest condolences to Anne, his daughters and all the family. As the neighbor around the corner, I always enjoyed his greetings and appreciated his welcoming me to the neighborhood. A truly nice man.

Dawn Harris

Jeffrey & Wendy Rosenberg

October 1, 2023

The Canton community and the Duncan family have lost an extraordinary person. We will remember Alan with fondness, admiration and respect. His contributions to everything he got involved in were always critical to its success.
We send our best thoughts and wishes to Anne and the entire family.

Mike and Norma Ignatowicz

October 1, 2023

Alan always had a deep love and respect for Canton...and the people in it. We always looked forward to seeing him around town and at Canton Land Trust events. We are all better off for his efforts in town. Our thoughts are with Anne and all of the Duncan family.

John M Duncan

September 30, 2023

He was my brother, and we lived on Engle Street, New Jersey. Together with the other kids on Engle Street, we had a great childhood. Sledding down the hill behind our house, across the lawn, down the front hill and across the street where we built an ice track and down the hill in our neighbor´s driveway! We played stickball in the street, and kick the can as well. We walked or rode our bikes to Elementary school, about a mile away. Alan was the sports star in the family, with always a position on a Little League team. (I was always on the "farm" team.)

Alan was an educator as a career, and I believe he made a difference to all the kids he taught.

We always had a great time when we vacationed on Webb Lake in Weld, Maine. Our family vacation was always special, and the friends Alan met were always special to him.

I am always special to him, and I will miss him so very much. His last years were so sad, yet I will always think the best of him!

Brother Jack

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Richard Bowen

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Christine Becker

September 30, 2023

So sorry to hear of this loss. We met Alan on several occasions many years ago and always enjoyed his company. Sending much love to all the family. Christine and Robert Becker.

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Dee Duffy

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Chris Coulter

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Brenda

September 29, 2023

I am sorry to hear the loss of a wonderful person, though I never got to meet him , I know his daughter Jess and his wife. I want them to know I am here for you during this difficult time. May you find light during these struggles.
Love Brenda

Jameson Esposito

September 29, 2023

I always loved spending time with Grandpa Alan. He will be missed and may he rest in peace.

Neal Esposito sr

September 29, 2023

My memories of Alan are of family and good times. He was a good man. May he rest in peace

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The Kramer Family

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Cindy Sila

September 29, 2023

My condolences to your family.

Marjorie Clarke

September 29, 2023

We have been missing Alan as his illness gradually took him from us. He was a man of exceptional kindness and generosity with a most hearty and mischievous laugh that could change in an instant to intense concern and caring at the smallest mention of something troubling. A lovely man. A lovely friend.

Neal Esposito

September 29, 2023

Love this man very much. Always will remember spending the holidays in his home and watching him slowly fall asleep in his chair as the evening progressed. What a kind soul and the best father in-law ever.

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March 14, 2025

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