Alberta Frances Erdman

Alberta Frances Erdman

Alberta Erdman Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Abbey Cremation Service - Rocky Hill on Dec. 16, 2025.
Alberta Frances (Messenger) Erdman 80, of Middletown, CT passed away Saturday, December 13, 2025. She was born June 13, 1945 the daughter of the late Francis & Anna Messenger of Rocky Hill, CT. She is survived by her husband Frederick Erdman, sons David Erdman & wife Patty (Bevins), Michael Erdman & wife Teri (Bowe), daughter Patricia (Erdman) & husband Shane McEntee. Also 12 grandchildren, 3 great grandchildren and her cousins. She was predeceased by her brother Alfred Messenger, sisters Anna Lussen & Peggy Weller and grandson Josiah Erdman. Private services will be held at a later date.

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