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Alfonso Procaccini Obituary

Alfonso Procaccini

Florence, MA - Alfonso Procaccini, beloved professor and scholar of Italian literature, whose erudition and insights inspired and charmed generations of students, friends, and family, passed away peacefully in his home on Friday, December 16, 2022, in the loving care of his wife, Ariane Vuono. A gifted thinker and renowned raconteur, his intellect and wit were matched only by his unbridled generosity and infectious warmth.

Born in the hilltop hamlet of Pettoranello del Molise, Italy, on January 1, 1945, Alfonso immigrated to the United States at the age of 10 aboard the U.S.S. Constitution. The family, parents Angelo and Ermelina and brother Italo, settled in Kingston, NJ, where Alfonso's love of learning and bonds to the Italian community took firm root. He earned his doctorate in Italian literature in 1975 at Johns Hopkins University and taught at Yale University, before joining the Italian Department of Smith College where he served as a pillar of the campus community for 37 years. Alfonso taught courses on many subjects ranging from Dante's Divina Commedia, Bocaccio, and Machiavelli until he retired in 2018. He raised his three children in the language and traditions of their Italian heritage and introduced countless students to the joys of that culture.

Alfonso was a latter-day Renaissance man. Delighting in pursuits both physical and intellectual, he enjoyed gardening, cooking, painting landscapes and still lifes, translating Dante, listening to music, and going for a passeggiata. He read widely and cultivated the fine art of conversation. A host without equal, he regularly entertained friends and colleagues with tasty regional Italian dishes, stories of his adventures, and the occasional accordion concert. Of all these interests, nothing made him happier than spending time with his family; he was devoted to his parents, wife, and children, who were his best friends, and he adored his grandchildren, who were his pride and joy. As a lionized patriarch of gentle, self-mocking mirth, he could offer the sagest of advice in the form of a fable or a homely folktale. His words will long resonate within us.

He is survived by his wife of 37 years, Ariane, his children Piero, Pia (and husband Stan), and Francesca (and husband Marc), his grandchildren Eliza, Brayden, and Aria, his brother Italo, cousins Robert (and wife Laura) and Mariella, sisters and brothers-in-law, and nieces and nephews, all of whom he loved.

A wake will be held at Mather Hodge Funeral Home, 40 Vandeventer Avenue, Princeton, NJ, on Wednesday, December 28 from 6 to 8 p.m., and services will be held at St. Paul's Church, 216 Nassau Street, Princeton, NJ, on Thursday, December 29 at 10 a.m. The mass will be available via live stream at stpaulsofprinceton.org. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made to the Professor Alfonso Procaccini Fund, which was established in honor of Alfonso to support students studying in the Florence Junior Year Abroad program of Smith College at Smith College Gift Accounting, 76 Elm Street, Northampton, MA 01063.

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Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Dec. 23, 2022.

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Valerie Brodowski Bojarski

February 16, 2025

Although it´s been three years since , I have just now read of Alfonso´s death in the Notre Dame High School in Memoriam. Alfonso and I were such good friends from the time we met in class at St. Paul´s School, all through high school and after. In senior year at Notre Dame, he was crowned king of the prom.
He was one of the kindest, most compassionate, and intelligent friends, loved by everyone who met him.
He will be sorely missed by all those whose path he crossed.
I extend my deepest condolences to his parents, Italian, his wife, children, grandchildren and all who were blessed to know him.
Valerie Brodowski Bojarski

Rick Goeke

December 17, 2023

Thinking of you Cino. Your wonderful laugh, your intense sports playing and all.
Rick Goeke
Kingston Neighbor

Marguerite Billie O'Donnell

December 29, 2022

To the entire Procaccini Family - I am heartbroken to learn today of Sino's passing. Sino and Italo were our neighbors and friends in Kingston for many years as our yard at 22 Laurel Avenue backed up to their house/yard on Union Street. They arrived in Kingston from Italy when Sino was 10 years old. My siblings (Dolly, Sissy and Mickey) have so many fond memories of growing up with both Sino and Italo. All of the kids in Kingston loved the Procaccini brothers and, of course, all the girls had crushes on them! We played together (girls and boys) at the playground - baseball, basketball and football in addition to riding our bikes. It was a simple childhood where our models were everyone's hard-working struggling parents. Sino and Italo had the nicest parents in the world - humble and simple - always wanting the best for their sons. We loved smelling the aroma of Mrs. Procaccini's cooking while playing in our backyard. I remember being invited over to sample some of her homemade sauce and meatballs. The taste to this day remains etched in my palate. As a town, we followed Sino and Italo's success. The passing of Sino is a true loss to all of us who knew him when he was a boy/teenager and who were lucky enough to see him when he came home from college to visit his parents. Sino, you will be forever missed and your legacy will live on in your children as your parent's legacy lived on in you. We are better for having known you, Italo and your parents - gifts to our entire town of Kingston! Thank you. May you rest in peace with your parents.

Sincerely,
Billie O'Donnell

Tony Fiumenero

December 29, 2022

Great memories of growing up playing basketball and football with Cino and Italo. I remember Cino dad walking up to the school field calling the boys for dinner, an hour later we are still playing. Cino lived 3 houses away from me. Many days going by seeing him at up stairs window studying. Those memories I will always cherish , great times.

Richard Goeke

December 29, 2022

I have many many great memories growing up with the Procaccini brothers, Ceno and Itlo (spelling) in Kingston, playing countless football and basketball games in the local park across from their home. Ceno was a mentor to me and very respected. I often mowed their mothers lawn ending in a nice glass of wine from their mother.

Rick Goeke

Jeanette Fiumenero

December 29, 2022

I am married to Anthony Fiumenero (Tony), who grew up in the same neighborhood as Alfonso (Tony refers to Alfonso as "Cino"). Tony often mentions the Procaccini brothers, with fondness. They were a large part of his memories growing up in a small community. I lost my extraordinary father this year. I have found our digital frame photos of my father and deceased mother VERY helpful in dealing with their loss; I "see" them every day. Perhaps this may also help the Procaccini family deal with the loss of the awesome Alfonso. May God embrace you in his arms during this difficult time.

RICHARD C NICOLI

December 28, 2022

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.We enjoyed the happy times with you both
at Vila Cantarella.
Rich and Geri Nicoli

Bill Cooley

December 24, 2022

Dear Ariane and family: we met in his classes at Smith and later in Italy and for coffee and such. He was someone I thought of often. He made me a better person. A great loss....hugs Bill Cooley

David Katz

December 23, 2022

Ariane, I am so sorry for your loss. I was privileged to know Alfonso , as a true gentleman, and tough basketball player. My sympathy goes out to you and your family.

Carlo Ferravante

December 23, 2022

Ciao Alfonso, grande e caro amico, e arrivederci.

Carlo e Maria Letizia

Barbara Spinelli

December 23, 2022

Dear Ariane,

I worked at Smith College at the Department of Italian for several years.
Alfonso was for all of us not only our Chair but a friend and one of the most generous, kind, and welcoming people I have ever had the good fortune to meet in my life.
I remember fondly the outings, dinners, and field trips he organized for us with his usual enthusiasm.

I will always keep these memories alive in my heart.

Barbara Spinelli

Silvana Nini

December 22, 2022

My deepest sincerest sympathies to all the family - so so sad to hear of his passing - I remember him dearly as a youth visiting Princeton - always had that remarkable smile - may he RIP & watch over all of you from above
I shall cherish the painting he made of Petoranello that I inherited from my parents - God bless him

Brennan Procaccini

December 22, 2022

Alfonso spoke Italian the Best I´ve ever heard. It was his Profession and a big part of his legacy. Of course his Beautiful Family is the most important part of his Legacy.
We love him so much. I am so grateful for the time we spent together. Rest in our hearts and be in our thoughts.

Brennan Procaccini

Jim Pissot

December 22, 2022

Buon tempi nell'Italia and beyond. We will always remember Alfonso and all his smiles.

Kate Thaisz

December 22, 2022

Pia, I am so sorry about Babbo. I remember fondly my visit to your family home in Florence and being treated to wonderful food and conversation with Babbo and Nonna. Thinking of you, my dear friend and sending you all my love. May his memory be a blessing.

Patricia Mooers

December 22, 2022

What an amazing life your father lived! You were all so fortunate to have him in your life. I now understand where you got so many of your talents, Pia. Hold tight to all the lessons and love he gave you and he will always remain with you. I´m so very sorry for your loss.

Jane & Stan Froncki

December 21, 2022

May he RIP Jane & Stan Froncki

Ariane

December 21, 2022

Ariane
I knew him only briefly,but he was unforgettable and I experienced him through you which was very real and a privilege. I´m so sad with you.
David Mills

Sandra Lynch

December 21, 2022

Ariane,
We send our condolences to you and your family on the of this extraordinary man and the richness of the life you shared with him. Sandra Lynch

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