Alice Hays Obituary
Alice Joan Topy-Hays, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, went to be with our Lord on Wednesday, October 8, 2025 in Pinetop, Arizona. She was born June 4th, 1940 in Columbus, Ohio.
Preceded in death by her parents Harold M. Topy and Ann Rosen-Topy and sister Rochelle Topy. She married Philip M. Hays (deceased) on May 25, 1959. She is lovingly remembered by her brother Stanley Topy, children Jeffery (Debbie), Jonathan (Sharon), Joy Lynn Scott (Garry), Joel (Teresa), Kathy Dewey and Deborah Halla Campbell. Her 19 grandchildren and 47 great-grandchildren.
Alice lived a life defined by compassion, resilience, and unwavering generosity. She was a nurturing soul who cared for many children beyond her own, embracing each with the same warmth and devotion. In times of hardship, Alice gave selflessly, often placing the needs of others before her own.
Her strength was quiet but fierce, and her love knew no bounds.
She raised four children through challenging times and extended her heart and home to many more, never distinguishing between her own and those she welcomed-each child was hers in spirit and care.
Alice departed this life as she lived it: on her own terms, with grace and dignity. A
Her legacy continues through her cherished grandchildren, who span continents and carry her love in their hearts.
Alice's memory will forever inspire those who knew her. She was an angel among us, and now she watches over us as a guiding light from above.
Go on wings, dear Alice, in peace to your heavenly home.
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