Alphonsus Gabrial Coccagna

Alphonsus Gabrial Coccagna, affectionately known by many as Butch, Al, and most beloved as Pop Pop, passed away peacefully in his home in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina on the evening of May 5, 2025, surrounded by his loving family. He was 84.
Known as Butch to childhood friends and Al to his plumbing buddies, it was Pop Pop that he wore as a badge of honor-a name filled with the joy, pride, and unconditional love he poured into his role as a grandfather.
Born with a heart for service and a spirit of generosity, Butch dedicated his life to his family, his community, and those in need. A devoted husband, father, grandfather, and friend, his impact was deeply felt in every community he touched-from Maryland to South Carolina.
He was the son of Alessandro and Mary (Agro) Coccagna, and was born in Little Italy, Maryland. He had his first job at just 11 years old at Alessi and Sons on Harford Road in Baltimore, Maryland-an early testament to his work ethic and sense of responsibility.
He grew up in a strong Italian family and later married Diane, who shared the same rich Italian heritage. Together, they embraced and carried on the deep-rooted traditions of their culture, instilling a deep pride in their Italian identity and a profound gratitude for being American.
Butch raised his beloved family in Fallston, Maryland, where he spent over four decades as a proud and skilled Plumber and Steamfitter. He worked for 40 years at J.G. Martin, where he was known for his deep expertise, reliability, and unwavering commitment. A proud and loyal member of Local 486 for more than 60 years, he earned the admiration and respect of everyone who had the privilege of working with him.
To all who met him, he was known as Mr. Fix It. There wasn't a problem he couldn't solve-whether mechanical, structural, or practical-and he never took the easy way. He approached every challenge with creativity, ingenuity, and a sense of pride in doing things right. One of his grandchildren once said, "If Pop Pop can't fix it, we're all in trouble!" That simple truth spoke volumes. His hands could repair anything, but it was his heart that held everything together.
He was not a man of many words, but when he spoke, people listened. A strong, broad-shouldered man with a commanding presence, he was, at his core, a gentle soul. He was known for his ability to calm the waters when tensions ran high, and within the family, he was always that steady, reassuring voice of reason. His quiet strength and calming presence were anchors for everyone who knew and loved him.
In addition to his professional life, Butch was a life member of the Fallston Volunteer Fire Company, where he rose through the ranks as a firefighter and ambulance crew member to serve as Ambulance Chief and as a member of the Board. His leadership, humility, and heart for service left a lasting legacy within the department and beyond.
Butch and his late wife, Diane Mary (Grue) Coccagna-his one and only, his partner of 69 years and wife of 52-shared a life rooted in faith, love, and community. Together, they supported local schools and organizations with tireless devotion. While raising their children, they were ever-present volunteers, especially as they supported their beloved son with special needs throughout his school journey. Along the way, they made lifelong friends who became like family, and their kindness and generosity left an indelible mark on everyone they met.
Earlier in life, Butch and Diane helped develop the HOPE Unit in Maryland-a pioneering and nurturing home for over 70 medically fragile children who needed not just medical care, but love, dignity, and family. These children were deeply cherished and gently cared for as they prepared to join loving adoptive or foster families. They gave these children not just care, but family. In recognition of their incredible dedication and the profound impact of their work, they were honored with a Distinction Award from the Governor of Maryland.
After retirement, Butch and Diane moved to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, where they quickly became pillars of the Azalea Lakes community and surrounding areas. Butch served on the Board of the HOA and both continued their passion for service through numerous local causes. One of Butch's greatest joys was his involvement with the Miracle League, where he helped children with disabilities experience the game of baseball and the power of inclusion. With unwavering pride, he stood beside Diane as she received the Hometown Hero Award in Myrtle Beach-an honor that reflected their shared legacy of service.
Once he grudgingly forgave Mayflower Movers for stealing away his beloved Baltimore Colts in the middle of the night, Butch became an even more die-hard Baltimore Ravens fan. Sundays in the fall were sacred, and no one cheered louder or loved the team more. He also remained a lifelong fan of the Baltimore Orioles, never missing a chance to root for his hometown teams.
Family and Legacy
Above all, Butch's greatest legacy is his family. He was the proud and loving father of his four children:
His devoted and loving daughter, Elaina (Coccagna) Denu, and her husband Richard R. Denu, Jr. (Rick)
His faithful and caring son, Paul Alfred Coccagna
His compassionate and resilient son, Vincent Ryan Coccagna
And his beloved son, Michael Gabriel Coccagna, who preceded him in death and whom he now joins in eternal peace.
His legacy of love lives on through his cherished grandchildren:
Gabriella (Denu) Friedman and husband Jake
Alessandra (Denu) Lesniewski and husband Tyler
Richard R. Denu III (Little Ricky)
Asia Rawlings
Michael Paul Denu
Nico Denu
Marco Denu
Mario Denu
Butch's love didn't stop there. His heart swelled with pride for his great-granddaughters, Dianna Rose Vara and Adelina Rose Friedman, who were among his most cherished blessings. He adored them deeply, and they brought him immeasurable joy and happiness.
Each grandchild and great-grandchild were a source of immense pride, and he was their greatest champion, always there with warmth, and love.
Celebration of Life
Butch's life was one of compassion, service, devotion, and grace. He leaves behind a world made better by his presence, and a family who will forever carry his legacy in their hearts.
A celebration of Butch's extraordinary life will be held at St. Mark's Catholic Church in Fallston, with a repast to follow at the Fallston Volunteer Fire Company. Date is forthcoming.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to: The Miracle League of Myrtle Beach or the Fallston Volunteer Fire Company, in his honor.
Cremation Services Direct (843-651-1194) of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina is assisting the family with the arrangements.
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