Amber Lavon Shaw

Amber Lavon Shaw obituary, Perham, MN

Amber Lavon Shaw

Amber Shaw Obituary

Visit the Schoeneberger Funeral & Cremation Service website to view the full obituary.

Amber LaVon Shaw (Seleen) 1-15-1986 - 5-14-2025

Blessed be her memory as she was taken to her heavenly home after a courageous fight with cancer. Amber, age 39 was born in Minneapolis, MN on January 15, 1986 to Mike and Laura (Peet) Seleen. She attended Perham High School and graduated in June of 2004. During high school Amber worked at Perham Living in the home health office (through school), dietary, and then she obtained her Nursing Assistant certification caring for residents of Perham Living. During Amber’s young life she was highly active in church and volunteering. Her experiences through Perham living, roles at Camp Joy, and volunteering at the Minnesota Veterans Home played a role in her life and career. Little did she know, she first laid eyes on her husband at the Richville United Methodist Church where Amber was confirmed and baptized. Amber led her life knowing the Lord God was in control.

Amber’s love for others blossomed as she became a Licensed Practical Nurse in April 2012. Her nursing career included transitional care in Perham, clinic in Frazee, and clinic in Perham Health where she felt she could work the rest of her life. Amber also took on part time jobs to make ends meet as waitressing and bar tending where she safely transported many people home after a night of fun.

Amber would mostly like to be remembered for her endless love for her family: her husband, Chad; her children, Isiah 18 (Ella), and Allison 7; also, her brothers, Brandon (Heather), James (Vanessa); mom and dad, Laura and Mike Seleen; mother-in-law, Val Shaw; her aunt Patt (Jeff) Seleen; uncle Don (Jayne) Peet, many nieces, nephews, and friends, too many to mention, but Mandy Putnam, her friend since birth who she loved as a sister; and her Godmother who held her close to her heart Linda Mikkelson. Preceded in death by her father-in-Law, Glen Shaw; grandparents, Lloyd and LaVon Seleen and Jim and Joyce Peet; aunt, Karen Mastros; and cousin, Kent Trehus.

A special thank-you to the staff at Perham Health who treated her as family.

Oh, how she will be missed!

Visitation will be 5:00-7:00 p.m. with a Prayer Service at 7:00 on Wednesday, May 21 at Schoeneberger Funeral & Cremation Service in Perham. Visitation will resume on Thursday, May 22 from 10:00-11:00 a.m. followed by a Celebration of Life at 11:00 a.m. at Richville United Methodist Church in Richville, MN. Interment will be at the Richville Village Cemetery.

Schoeneberger Funeral & Cremation Service, Perham, MN (218) 346-5175 www.schoenebergerfh.com

View All Photos

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Schoeneberger Funeral & Cremation Service

100 Jake Street PO Box 251, Perham, MN 56573

How to support Amber's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Amber Shaw's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more