Anita Lary

Anita Lary obituary, Mahopac, NY

Anita Lary

Anita Lary Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Cargain Funeral Homes Inc. - Mahopac on Oct. 21, 2025.

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Anita Lary, a heartwarming presence cherished by all who knew her, passed away peacefully on October 17, 2025.
The daughter of her late parents, Solomon and Dorothy (Cohen) Silver, Anita was born on May 4, 1955 in the bustling city of Manhattan, NY; Anita was a beacon of love and kindness throughout her seventy years of life.
She will be profoundly missed by her beloved husband, Robert Lary, with whom she shared countless cherished memories and unwavering support.
Anita's legacy is further carried on through the lives of her loving children, Erik Stone and Gina Miccio-Cabrera. Her guidance and love shaped their worlds, and their accomplishments are tributes to the nurturing environment she fostered. Her dear siblings, Susan Silver, Bruce Silver, and Carole Pasternack, will remember her as the thread that often drew the family together, her spirit a gentle and unifying force amongst them.
Anita's life was one marked by service to others, embodied by her dedicated work as the Administrator for Country House in Westchester, NY. Her professional demeanor and grace were matched only by her readiness to help and her unwavering commitment to the community around her. Colleagues and associates will recall her bright smile as a constant during their exchanges, reminding all the joy that can be found in everyday interactions.
Additionally, individuals who will feel her absence greatly are her two cherished grandchildren, Dominic Rosado and Mia Rosado. Anita reveled in her role as a grandmother, embracing every moment spent with them and imparting lessons of love that will resonate throughout their lives.
Anita's presence will forever be felt in the loving memories we carry with us.
Funeral arrangements entrusted to Cargain Funeral Homes, Inc., 418 Route 6, Mahopac, NY10541, 845-628-5655, www.cargainfuneralhomes.com.
We at Cargain Funeral Homes, Inc. are deeply committed to responsibly responding to the health, well-being, and needs of the families, guests, and communities we are privileged to serve.
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