Ann Elaine Crosby

1945 - 2025

Ann Elaine Crosby

1945 - 2025

Ann Crosby Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 13, 2025.
Ann Elaine Sonerholm Crosby, Stanhope, passed away on Thursday, August 7th, 2025, at Israel House in Ames, after a short illness. Ann was born August 18, 1945, in Webster City to Melvin and Ione (Enderson) Sonerholm. She grew up attending Stanhope school prior to consolidation and then South Hamilton, graduating in 1963 She attended Wartburg College for her 1st year, then transferred to Iowa State University, majoring in English and graduating in 1967.

After meeting in 4H and dating for 5 years, Ann and Lon Owen Crosby were married on August 5, 1967, and moved to Purdue University so Lon could pursue a Ph.D, while she worked as a librarian. From there they moved to Cornell University, Ithaca, NY, Syntex in Palo Alto, Ca, National Cancer Institute, Bethesda, Maryland, and University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia, before their final move back to Iowa during the floods of 1993. They both enjoyed living on their history-laden farm in Tunnel Mill, only four miles from where Ann started out.

Ann is survived by her husband of 58 years, Lon; children, Brian (Katie)Crosby, and Teresa (Michael) Shey; grandchildren, Alexis, Colin, Benjamin Crosby and Ethan and Fiona Shey. She is also survived by three sisters, Lynne (Jim) Lorence, Kay (Joe) Moorman, and Penny (Scott) Wedemeier, and several nieces and nephews, and, of course, her furry sidekick, Wags, their lab.

Ann loved to read, making and watching things grow, whether it was kids, plants, or quilts. Many family and friends are enjoying her beautiful creations. She loved her many friends and the solitude and natural beauty of Tunnel Mill, stained glass and collecting Alladin lamps. She is dearly missed.

A private memorial service will be held at a later date. Memorials should be sent to your favorite charity.

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Ulrike Welsch

November 3, 2025

so sad to hear that "Bing" is no longer with us. We were at Sanborn Western Camp, CO, together in 1967 May she now enjoy the wind and pines around her! Uli

Pam (Carlson) Holtan

August 28, 2025

So sorry to hear of Ann's passing. I rode the bus with the Sonerholm Girl's to the Stanhope School. I enjoyed reconnection with Ann when she came for the coffee ladies group in Stanhope on Quilting days. She will be missed by many. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.

Kimberly Arunsiripate

August 21, 2025

Ann was so fun to have as an Aunt. We loved seeing her and Lon at the estate sales hunting treasures.

James Stark

August 15, 2025

So sorry to hear of Ann's passing - friend & classmate. God Bless!

Linda Johnson

August 14, 2025

I´m so sorry to hear of Ann´s passing. Such an amazing person.

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