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ARNI CHEATHAM Obituary

CHEATHAM, Arni Beloved Boston musician and photographer who played with multiple jazz ensembles over more than 50 years, died, October 22, at age 79. The cause of death was extensive atherosclerosis. His longtime life partner, Dotty Guild, was by his side at Brigham and Women's Hospital as he began his journey to Heaven. Arnold B. Cheatham was born in 1944 in Chicago and served in the U.S. Army, before arriving in Boston in 1969. He worked with the Boston Consulting Group for more than 20 years. Outside of this work, his lifelong passions were music and nature photography. In the 1970s, Arni studied at Berklee School of Music with jazz great, Charlie Mariano. Arni performed extensively with the Aardvark Jazz Orchestra, the Makanda Project and other ensembles including, Search, Smoke and Thing. He was key to the founding of the Boston Jazz Coalition. He was also an educator, conveying his musical passion and skill to young people from preschool to high school, through his and Bill Lowe's program, JazzEd and JazzBoston's Riffs & Raps program. He was honored in 2013 as a "Jazz Hero" by the Jazz Journalists Association and JazzBoston. In addition to Dotty; Arni is survived by his brother, Raymond of Dubuque, Iowa; sister-in-law, Peggy Cheatham of Chicago and countless friends in the Boston music and art communities and in the Piano Craft Guild, formerly known as the Piano Factory, his home for the past 40 years. Arni's spirit will live on in his many jazz recordings and photographs. Visitation Hours will be held Thursday, October 26, 6 to 9 pm, and a Funeral Service on Friday, October 27, at 10:30 am, both at the Holy Transfiguration Monastery in Brookline, MA. Following the Funeral, interment will be at The Gardens at Gethsemane Cemetery in West Roxbury. Donations in memory of Arni may be made to Rosie's Place, 889 Harrison Ave., Boston, MA, 02118 and/or the Holy Transfiguration Monastery, 278 Warren St., Brookline, MA, 02445.

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Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 24 to Oct. 25, 2023.

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Gayle Rich

October 18, 2024

I miss seeing and hearing you at concerts. I miss your direct gaze, your joy in seeing a friend, and your loving warmth. These are all special Arnie qualities I will always remember.

Erik Grau

December 31, 2023

Arni shared his wisdom and expertise with me when I took over for him as the president of Piano Craft Gallery. His dream was that the gallery would become a 501(c)3 nonprofit, which we did in 2022. We recently honored Arni and Dotty with a permanent dedication in the gallery and had a wonderful memorial show of his bird photographs titled, "Fly Away Home," where many of his jazz friends performed.

Sandy Hawrylo

December 26, 2023

Hi Dotty
I just learned of Arnie`s passing. My deepest sympathies go out to you. It sounds like his was a very full life well lived, and although difficult towards his end, your help, care and love must have been a great comfort to him. Be kind to yourself.

I know this isn´t the proper place, but I´ve been trying to contact you by text and email and gotten no response. Please reach out to me-I´d just like to know if you´re OK.
Love, Sandy

Alfred Cox

December 9, 2023

Such sad news Dotty. Your Lifes Partner Arni has left us to mourn his absence. I hope the mourning period not too long before the fond memories and Arni's Spirit will comfort you.
I've always enjoyed being in his presence.

Alison Barnet

November 13, 2023

Dotty, This is a very late condolence. I wanted to come to the funeral but couldn't make it. I feel so sorry about Arni and feel so sorry for you.
Alison

Diana Sabella

October 26, 2023

Dear Dotty
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Arni. I can only imagine how difficult this is for you after being with him for so long. Your dedication to him was so clear. He and all his talents will surely be missed. Blessings to you during this difficult time. If you need an ear or shoulder, feel free to contact me.
Diana Sabella ( Dhyana)

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