Barbara DeVito

Barbara DeVito obituary, Holmdel, NJ

Barbara DeVito

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Barbara DeVito Obituary

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Barbara C. DeVito, 88, of Rumson, formerly of Colts Neck, passed away peacefully on Saturday, February 14, 2026.

Born and raised in Jersey City to Francis and Margaret Casey, she was one of five children.

She worked for many years as a Registered Nurse and the Colts Neck Court Clerk. She was a long-time parishioner of Holy Cross RC Church in Rumson.

Barbara is predeceased by her parents, her beloved husband of 45 years, Vincent J. DeVito (2002), her siblings, Dennis Casey and Bernice Duthaler, her sister-in-law, Fran Casey and daughter-in law, Denise DeVito.

Barbara is survived by her loving children, Michael J. DeVito, Mark A. DeVito and his wife Kathy; her cherished grandchildren, Alison (Karl) Pearson (and their children, Korbyn and Kasey), Conner DeVito, Scott Chinery, Jake DeVito, Catherine and Chelsea Chinery, Janie and Jesse DeVito and her caring siblings, Robert Casey and Peggy Casey.

Family and friends may visit Saturday, February 21st, from 8:30am to 9:30am at the John E. Day Funeral Home in Red Bank. A Funeral Mass will follow at 10:00am at Holy Cross RC Church in Rumson, followed by entombment at Holmdel Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Barbara's memory to: The American Lung Association at www.lung.org
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Feb

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Visitation

8:30 a.m. - 9:30 a.m.

John E. Day Funeral Home

85 Riverside Avenue, Red Bank, NJ 07701

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Feb

21

Service

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Holy Cross RC Church

30 Ward Ave, Rumson, NJ 07760

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Only 3 days left for delivery to next service.

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