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Barbara Gordon Obituary
Her sunny outlook and capacity to spread love was grounded in her deep Christian faith. One of our last conversations revolved around her desire to explore new ways to make a difference in her beloved community.
If there was a cause, Barbara would embrace it and bring unquenchable passion to the mission.
For nearly 70 years she volunteered at Spectrum's Junior Golden Rule Guild. She was devoted to Mayflower Congregational Church as a member of 62 years. Barbara relished her relationship with Babies Welfare Guild, introducing underprivileged children to the joys of camping. She loved her Doll Club and Easter People Bible Study. The Helen Devos Children's Hospital Chapel, G.R. Rapids Symphony and SW Storybook Program are all living legacies of Barbara's love.
Her friend group spanned multiple generations in Grand Rapids, Naples and at her cottage in Canadian Lakes. Some of the sweet words they've shared with us . . . "my second Mom, my mentor, a dynamo, amazing, irrepressible, dear friend, and so damn much fun."
But of course, her greatest legacy was her marriage of 64 years to her beloved late husband, George and her family. Son Guy and daughter-in-law Gale were visiting when she was stricken and were able to be with her until she passed.
She is adored and survived by grandchildren Whitson (Kathleen), Greer (Christopher), and Graham (Kayla). She happily spent this summer and the holidays with her littlest legacies… her 7 great-grandchildren.
Barbara was born on August 15, 1934 in Mattoon, Illinois. She came to Grand Rapids in 1957. She is preceded in death by her husband George, mother Dorothy, father Hubert and her brother William. Guy recalls that whenever his Mom adopted a new antique doll, she would lovingly display it and say, "Isn't she precious?" As she joins her heavenly family and presents herself to God, we imagine the almighty saying the same thing about her.
Barbara Gordon was remembered in a Celebration of Life at Mayflower Congregational Church, on Saturday, February 7, 2026. In lieu of flowers her family requests donations to Mayflower Congregational Church, Camp Blodgett or Junior Golden Rule Guild - Corewell Health.
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Marg Ballew
February 12, 2026
Dear Guy and family of Barbara, I am so sorry to hear about your mothers passing. She was the most passionate, friendly and caring friend in my life. I will miss her smile always. Thinking of you during this difficult time. Sending my love, Marg
Phil Widuch & Ellen Sherman
February 10, 2026
I would be remiss if I didn't mention the most wonderful service Saturday February 8 at Mayflower Congregational Church. My wife and I both felt Barbara's presence by the stories and memories shared by her family. The red cowboy boots, martini glass and two dolls certainly told a story as well. Our condolences to her family. As someone here mentioned, Barbara would have loved it.
Ellen Sherman and Phil Widuch
February 10, 2026
Our back yard neighbor and a great supporter of the Grand Rapids Symphony. Many a time spent listening to her driveway concerts featuring Symphony members and special guest musicians. The music filled the air throughout the nearby streets and homes. And not to be outdone by the sweetest sounds were the sweet treats she offered in her home when the music stopped. Have to admit, my favorite part! She will be missed by many here in Grand Rapids and everyone that knew her and were touched by her generosity.
Greg Rhodes
February 8, 2026
What a wonderful service honoring Barbara on Saturday at Mayflower Congregational Church . . . great music, engaging memories delivered by family, glorious sunshine . . . Barbara would have loved it. And I believe that she did.
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JF
February 8, 2026
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
JF
February 8, 2026
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Barbara Wood
February 7, 2026
I had the pleasure of working with Barbara at the Fireside Grille at Spectrum Health. It was always fun with her!! My condolences to her family!
Greg Rhodes
February 6, 2026
There are so many special memories of Barbara during times spent together at Mayflower Congregational Church, at her home, driving her to special events, and respecting her insight and experiences. Blessings to her family. Greg
Brian McKenzie
February 5, 2026
George and Barbara were clients of mine for many years as I happily helped care for their trees. I had several conversations over coffee at their kitchen table enjoying conversation about their younger years! Fantastic couple for sure and Barbara will be missed.
Robin White
February 5, 2026
My memories of Barbara are through golf and art. She and I both had size 10 golf shoes and when some were missing we would check with another to see if they were tucked in her locker or mine. We also shared a love for Mathias Alten our regional painter. We shared many conversations talking about his art and the art of others. She truly was a special lady. Thank you for sharing her.
Jennifer Hohman
February 4, 2026
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will miss you. Thank you for being a great friend.
Jennifer Hohman
February 4, 2026
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Nancy June Yost
February 3, 2026
My sincere thoughts and sympathy in the passing of Barbara. I knew her in Easter People in Florida. She was a wonderful Christian women so full of life and vitality. It was a priviledge to know her. My prayers for her family. Nancy Yost, Enfield, Conn.
Nancy Oren Lepard
February 3, 2026
My deepest sympathy in the passing of your dear mother. I babysat for you( and your collie, Johnny)way back in GR and loved your sweet mom. It was the best babysitting job ever. I always enjoyed you, your parents and Johnny. Wishing all good memories of a life well lived.
Lon and Mary Barr
February 3, 2026
What a wonderful woman. It was a privilege to know her and call her a friend. So quick witted, and fun to be around. She will be missed.
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