Bernadette Alcantar

Bernadette Alcantar obituary, Lancaster, CA

Bernadette Alcantar

Bernadette Alcantar Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Antelope Valley Cremation Service - Lancaster on Oct. 1, 2025.

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Bernadette Eva Alcantar (58) was called to heaven on July 9, 2023, where she joined her fathers and sisters. She was born in Long Beach and lived most of her life in the AV where she created a life she loved. Bernadette leaves behind: her husband of 40 years, her 2 birth children and countless children she loved as her own; 4 grandchildren; 1 great grandchild; 2 sisters & a brother; mother; numerous nieces and nephews; and a team of caregivers. Bernadette fought many battles, and beat cancer more than once. She walked through life with a smile and tons of love to offer. Her tenacity was unmatched.
Services will be in Lancaster, at Halley Olsen Murphy Funerals and Cremation on July 26, 2023 @ 10am-12pm. Gathering afterwards at Harley Davidson Hall at the Antelope Valley Fairgrounds @1pm-5pm.
Memorial Service
Wednesday, July 26th, 2023
10:00 am
Halley Olsen Murphy
44831 Cedar Avenue,
Lancaster CA 93534 To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Bernadette, please visit our Tree Store.

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