Betty McHugh Goodwin

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On March 25, surrounded by her loving family, Betty Goodwin peacefully passed into the arms of her Savior.

In her final days, Betty reflected on her life with gratitude, describing it as "pretty nice"-even saying it had been 99% wonderful. That perspective defined her life. She chose joy over hardship, and time and again used her energy, compassion, and talents to uplift those around her rather than dwell on life's challenges. Her life was a reflection of her deeply held faith, beautifully captured in her favorite scripture: "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." - Joshua 24:15.

Betty was born and raised in Greenville, South Carolina, to James Frank and Mary McHugh. She shared a close bond with her beloved older sister, Mary Patricia Stanfield. She graduated from Greenville High School and continued her education at Furman University.

In 1951, Betty married her high school sweetheart, Thomas Perry Goodwin, Jr., beginning a lifelong partnership rooted in love and devotion. As an Air Force wife, Betty embraced a life of service and adaptability, moving her family to more than a dozen states. Wherever they went, she created a warm, welcoming home filled with love and stability. Together, they raised three daughters: Patricia Bennett (Thomas), Sharon Horn (Richard), and Jo Winstel (Mark).

In 1975, Betty and Tom settled in Fort Walton Beach, Florida, where their family grew to include five cherished grandchildren-Benton Rogers (Amber), Joshua Bennett, Kimberly Bennett, Kristen Bennett, and Katie Jo Rogers-as well as two great-grandchildren, Violet Dunn and Deacon Rogers.

Betty was preceded in death by her sister, Pat, in 1972. In the years that followed, she became a steady source of love and guidance to her nieces-Cyndee Cashman, Diane Van Der Linde, and Tricia Slaten-and their families. She treasured these relationships deeply, and it brought her great joy to recently gather with them to celebrate their enduring bond.

A woman of deep faith and generous spirit, Betty dedicated countless hours to serving others. She was an active member of Shalimar United Methodist Church, Chairing the Missions Committee for many years. Her leadership and compassion helped shape several vital community organizations, including Shelter House, Sharing and Caring, the Homeless Coalition, the Judge Ben Gordon Family Visitation Center, and Children in Crisis. Whether volunteering, organizing, fundraising, or simply offering encouragement, Betty's impact was far-reaching and lasting. She and Tom were also devoted members of the Emmaus community and deeply loved their church family.

In 2021, Betty and Tom returned to South Carolina, settling at Wellmore Assisted Living in Tega Cay near their daughter and son-in-law, Jo and Mark Winstel. There, Betty continued to create a joyful and welcoming home and cared devotedly for Tom until his passing in 2022. She cherished her friendships at Wellmore and held deep appreciation for the kindness and care of its staff.

At Betty's request, her life will be celebrated with family and friends at Wellmore on April 10. She will be interred alongside her beloved husband at Barrancas National Cemetery later in the month.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Betty's honor may be made to Sharing and Caring, 126 Beal Parkway NW, Fort Walton Beach, FL 32548.