Brenda Marie Vanderaa, aged 61, passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 23, 2025. Born on July 24, 1964, to the late Donald and Theresa (Laplante) Vanderaa, Brenda grew up in a lively household with her nine siblings: Rose, Thomas, Mike, Ronald, Mary, Darleen, Tammy, Steve, and Leon.
Brenda dedicated her life to caring for others, a commitment that was evident in her long-standing career as a Certified Nursing Assistant at a local Nursing Home. Her gentle touch and warm smile were a comfort to many during her years of service, and she retired with the respect and affection of both her colleagues and those she cared for.
Brenda was a beacon of love and kindness to her family. She was a devoted mother to her daughter, Crystal (Gerano Hernandez-Cruz) Hernandez. Brenda's joy was multiplied with the arrival of her grandchildren, Autumn Cardenas, Cohen Cardanas, Olivia Hernandez, and Jocelyn Hernandez. She cherished every moment spent with them, from camping trips to sitting around a fire, telling stories and sharing laughter. Brenda was a fixture at their various events, always there to support and celebrate their accomplishments.
The legacy Brenda leaves behind is one of unwavering love and selfless care. Her siblings, daughter, and grandchildren will hold dear the memories of her unwavering support, her infectious laugh, and the warmth of her presence. Brenda's spirit will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to know her, and her example of compassion and dedication will live on in the hearts of her loved ones.
As we say farewell to Brenda Marie Vanderaa, we celebrate a life lived with purpose and grace. She was a guiding light in the lives of her family and friends, and her memory will be treasured forever. Brenda’s departure leaves behind a void that can never be filled, but her spirit will continue to embrace us, just as the warmth of a fire that she so loved to sit around. Brenda's story does not end with her passing, a celebration of life will be held at a later date.
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