Carolyn Greenwell and Joseph Albert "Jodie" Haydon
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Carolyn Greenwell Haydon, 78, passed away peacefully at her home on Sunday, November 23, 2025, surrounded by the love of the family she cherished so deeply. Born on November 3,1947, in Bardstown, Kentucky, to James Bernard "Jimmy" Greenwell and Verna Mae Greenwell, Carolyn lived a life rooted in faith, family, and boundless compassion.
A proud graduate of Bethlehem High School and Edgecliff College, Carolyn carried her devotion to education and community into every chapter of her life. As a member of St. Joseph Catholic Church, her faith guided her actions and shaped the quiet strength she offered to others.
Carolyn was the true embodiment of what a mother and grandmother should be-warm, generous, steady, and endlessly present. Her light and laughter filled every room she entered, and her kindness left an indelible mark on all who knew her. She lived and breathed for her grandchildren, pouring her heart into each of their lives. She lovingly extended that same spirit to their friends, becoming a grandmother figure to many who needed one. Her devotion to her family was unmatched; every decision she made was guided by love, compassion, and an unwavering commitment to those she held dear.
Carolyn was preceded in death by her parents, James Bernard "Jimmy" Greenwell and Verna Mae Greenwell; and her brothers, James Bernard "Jim" Greenwell and Joseph Ignatius Greenwell. She is survived by her beloved husband, Joseph "Jodie" Haydon, daughters Allison Haydon Osborne (Chris Osborne) and Amy Haydon Pehlke. Carolyn's legacy continues through her cherished grandchildren: Caroline, Christopher (Amy Luu Osborne), Haydon, Nicholas, and Miller Osborne, and Amelia and Hilary Pehlke. She is also lovingly remembered by numerous nieces and nephews.
A funeral Mass will be Saturday, November 29, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at the Basilica of St. Joseph Proto-Cathedral, with the Very Reverend J. Randall Hubbard officiating. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery. Visitation will be Friday, November 28, 2025 from 3:00–8:00 p.m. at Barlow Funeral Home then at St. Joseph Church on Saturday, November 29, from 9:00–11:00 a.m.
Carolyn's life was one of unwavering love, generosity, and grace. Her family takes comfort knowing that her spirit lives on in the countless lives she touched, and in the laughter and love she inspired in all who were blessed to know her.
Memorial contributions may be made to Bethlehem High School or St. Joseph Church.
Barlow Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.
Joseph Albert "Jodie" Haydon, 80, a lifelong resident of Bardstown, Kentucky, passed away peacefully on Monday, November 24, 2025. Born on March 1, 1945, Jodie lived a life rooted deeply in faith, service, family, and community-a life that touched countless hearts and left an enduring mark on the place he proudly called home.
A graduate of St. Joe Prep and Bellarmine College, Jodie believed firmly in the power of education and hard work. These values carried him through a lifetime of leadership and public service. He served his country honorably in the Army National Guard, completing a tour in Vietnam, and later went on to represent his community as a member of the Kentucky House of Representatives. Over the years, he dedicated himself to numerous organizations, including the Kentucky Lottery Commission, Bardstown City Council, the Knights of Columbus, and the Kentucky Crushed Stone Association, where he served as Chairman. He also served as Chairman of Flaget Memorial Hospital and was inducted into the Bethlehem High School Hall of Fame-a testament to his longstanding devotion to uplifting others.
Professionally, Jodie was a respected businessman and former President of Haydon Holdings, but it was in his community involvement and personal relationships where his character shone brightest. A devoted member of St. Joseph Parish, he gave generously of his time, talent, and heart. Whether mentoring young people, offering wise guidance to friends, or lending a hand wherever it was needed, Jodie lived his belief that service was both a duty and a privilege.
Above all, Jodie's greatest joy was his family. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, and brother-someone whose presence warmed every room he entered. His seven grandchildren were the pride of his life, and he never missed a sports game, school event, or milestone moment. His daughters grew up with the certainty that their father would always be there-steady, encouraging, and full of the kind of wisdom that could brighten any dark day. He taught perseverance not by words alone, but by the optimistic, determined way he lived each day.
Jodie was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Carolyn Greenwell Haydon; his parents, Joseph Albert and Leona Isabelle Blanford Haydon; his brothers, James Gregory Haydon and Charles David Haydon; and his sister, Sherry Haydon Bruce.
He is survived by his daughters, Allison Haydon Osborne (Chris Osborne) and Amy Haydon Pehlke; and by his cherished grandchildren: Caroline, Christopher (Amy Luu Osborne), Haydon, Nicholas, and Miller Osborne, and Amelia and Hilary Pehlke. He is also survived by his siblings Mary Florence Barnes (the late Bill Barnes), Norma Jean Haydon (Ben Barber), Steve Haydon (Carole Haydon), Cathy Greer, Charlotte Bickel (John Bickel), John Haydon (Mary Ellen Haydon), and Paul Haydon (Umaara Haydon), brother-in-law Karlos Bruce, sister-in-law Mary Stuart Haydon, along with numerous nieces and nephews who loved him dearly.
Jodie Haydon lived a life defined by loyalty, faith, generosity, and love. His strength carried his family through difficult times, and his optimism inspired those lucky enough to know him. Bardstown is better because he was part of it.
A funeral service will be held on Saturday, November 29, 2025, at 11:00 AM at the Basilica of St. Joseph Proto-Cathedral, with the Very Reverend J. Randall Hubbard presiding. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery. Visitation will take place at Barlow Funeral Home on Friday, November 28, 2025, from 3–8 PM, and at church on Saturday from 9–11 AM.
Jodie's story will continue to live on in the community he served, and in the hearts of the family he loved so deeply.
Memorial contributions may be made to Bethlehem High School and St. Joseph Church.
Barlow Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.
To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Carolyn Greenwell and Joseph Albert "Jodie" Haydon, please visit our floral store.
A proud graduate of Bethlehem High School and Edgecliff College, Carolyn carried her devotion to education and community into every chapter of her life. As a member of St. Joseph Catholic Church, her faith guided her actions and shaped the quiet strength she offered to others.
Carolyn was the true embodiment of what a mother and grandmother should be-warm, generous, steady, and endlessly present. Her light and laughter filled every room she entered, and her kindness left an indelible mark on all who knew her. She lived and breathed for her grandchildren, pouring her heart into each of their lives. She lovingly extended that same spirit to their friends, becoming a grandmother figure to many who needed one. Her devotion to her family was unmatched; every decision she made was guided by love, compassion, and an unwavering commitment to those she held dear.
Carolyn was preceded in death by her parents, James Bernard "Jimmy" Greenwell and Verna Mae Greenwell; and her brothers, James Bernard "Jim" Greenwell and Joseph Ignatius Greenwell. She is survived by her beloved husband, Joseph "Jodie" Haydon, daughters Allison Haydon Osborne (Chris Osborne) and Amy Haydon Pehlke. Carolyn's legacy continues through her cherished grandchildren: Caroline, Christopher (Amy Luu Osborne), Haydon, Nicholas, and Miller Osborne, and Amelia and Hilary Pehlke. She is also lovingly remembered by numerous nieces and nephews.
A funeral Mass will be Saturday, November 29, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at the Basilica of St. Joseph Proto-Cathedral, with the Very Reverend J. Randall Hubbard officiating. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery. Visitation will be Friday, November 28, 2025 from 3:00–8:00 p.m. at Barlow Funeral Home then at St. Joseph Church on Saturday, November 29, from 9:00–11:00 a.m.
Carolyn's life was one of unwavering love, generosity, and grace. Her family takes comfort knowing that her spirit lives on in the countless lives she touched, and in the laughter and love she inspired in all who were blessed to know her.
Memorial contributions may be made to Bethlehem High School or St. Joseph Church.
Barlow Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.
Joseph Albert "Jodie" Haydon, 80, a lifelong resident of Bardstown, Kentucky, passed away peacefully on Monday, November 24, 2025. Born on March 1, 1945, Jodie lived a life rooted deeply in faith, service, family, and community-a life that touched countless hearts and left an enduring mark on the place he proudly called home.
A graduate of St. Joe Prep and Bellarmine College, Jodie believed firmly in the power of education and hard work. These values carried him through a lifetime of leadership and public service. He served his country honorably in the Army National Guard, completing a tour in Vietnam, and later went on to represent his community as a member of the Kentucky House of Representatives. Over the years, he dedicated himself to numerous organizations, including the Kentucky Lottery Commission, Bardstown City Council, the Knights of Columbus, and the Kentucky Crushed Stone Association, where he served as Chairman. He also served as Chairman of Flaget Memorial Hospital and was inducted into the Bethlehem High School Hall of Fame-a testament to his longstanding devotion to uplifting others.
Professionally, Jodie was a respected businessman and former President of Haydon Holdings, but it was in his community involvement and personal relationships where his character shone brightest. A devoted member of St. Joseph Parish, he gave generously of his time, talent, and heart. Whether mentoring young people, offering wise guidance to friends, or lending a hand wherever it was needed, Jodie lived his belief that service was both a duty and a privilege.
Above all, Jodie's greatest joy was his family. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, and brother-someone whose presence warmed every room he entered. His seven grandchildren were the pride of his life, and he never missed a sports game, school event, or milestone moment. His daughters grew up with the certainty that their father would always be there-steady, encouraging, and full of the kind of wisdom that could brighten any dark day. He taught perseverance not by words alone, but by the optimistic, determined way he lived each day.
Jodie was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Carolyn Greenwell Haydon; his parents, Joseph Albert and Leona Isabelle Blanford Haydon; his brothers, James Gregory Haydon and Charles David Haydon; and his sister, Sherry Haydon Bruce.
He is survived by his daughters, Allison Haydon Osborne (Chris Osborne) and Amy Haydon Pehlke; and by his cherished grandchildren: Caroline, Christopher (Amy Luu Osborne), Haydon, Nicholas, and Miller Osborne, and Amelia and Hilary Pehlke. He is also survived by his siblings Mary Florence Barnes (the late Bill Barnes), Norma Jean Haydon (Ben Barber), Steve Haydon (Carole Haydon), Cathy Greer, Charlotte Bickel (John Bickel), John Haydon (Mary Ellen Haydon), and Paul Haydon (Umaara Haydon), brother-in-law Karlos Bruce, sister-in-law Mary Stuart Haydon, along with numerous nieces and nephews who loved him dearly.
Jodie Haydon lived a life defined by loyalty, faith, generosity, and love. His strength carried his family through difficult times, and his optimism inspired those lucky enough to know him. Bardstown is better because he was part of it.
A funeral service will be held on Saturday, November 29, 2025, at 11:00 AM at the Basilica of St. Joseph Proto-Cathedral, with the Very Reverend J. Randall Hubbard presiding. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery. Visitation will take place at Barlow Funeral Home on Friday, November 28, 2025, from 3–8 PM, and at church on Saturday from 9–11 AM.
Jodie's story will continue to live on in the community he served, and in the hearts of the family he loved so deeply.
Memorial contributions may be made to Bethlehem High School and St. Joseph Church.
Barlow Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.
To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Carolyn Greenwell and Joseph Albert "Jodie" Haydon, please visit our floral store.
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