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Charles Leo Wyndham Jr.

1933 - 2020

Charles Leo Wyndham Jr. obituary, 1933-2020, Bartlesville, NC

BORN

1933

DIED

2020

Charles Wyndham Obituary

Announcing with sadness and fond memories the passing of Charles Leo Wyndham Jr. (Charlie) on February 2, 2020 at the age of 86 surrounded by his family and, of course, his loving dog Henry. He is survived by Sylvia, his wife of 31 years, his children, Kurt, Charles III and Cara, his stepchildren Juan, Liza, Sandra and Cristina, his sister Ianthe, 15 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren.
Born in 1933 in Chicago, Illinois to Charles and Ida Wyndham, Charlie was one of 2 children. He graduated from the University of West Virginia in 1955 with a Bachelor of Science in Geology. He was a member of the Sigma Chi fraternity.
After a stint in the Army Reserve, where he attained the rank of Captain, Charlie went to work for Phillips Petroleum as a Field Geologist. Phillips sent him around the world searching for oil in places such as Tripoli, London, Bogota, and Lima to name a few. All the while raising a family with his first wife JoAnn. Promoted time and again Charlie ended his career with Phillips Petroleum as the Vice President, Worldwide Exploration at the Phillips Petroleum home office in Bartlesville, Oklahoma in 1992 after a career spanning 35 years.
Upon "retiring" from Phillips Charlie and Sylvia lived a footloose and fancy-free life, living in such diverse locations as Houston, Pagosa Springs, Albuquerque, Pecos, Flat Rock and finally Charlotte. They traveled extensively including an around the world trip. Charlie also discovered a second career when Sylvia bought him art lessons for his birthday on a whim. He was a natural and became quite an acclaimed artist in his own right.
The following was submitted by his eldest son Kurt and captures the true essence of the man and how he will be missed. A life well lived.:
Charlie was a man of many roles, talents, and accomplishments. Frankly, too many to adequately name and represent thoroughly…son, husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, student, athlete, dancer, military man, coach, mentor, geologist, manager and artist. He was a man of many hats, all of which were worn proudly, with confidence and precision. He was a man of great integrity and attention to detail, from his days as an army captain to his storied and traveled career with Phillips Petroleum, to his beloved second career as a successful artist. He was a fierce competitor belying his overall reserved demeanor. His understated sense of humor, his corny jokes and occasional penchant for playful mischief were traits we will talk about and cherish forever. We cannot forget his lifelong passion for his dogs. His last dog, Henry, was by his side during his final moments. He was, simply put, a wonderful man who quietly molded us into the people we are today. He is gone from this earth, but will NEVER be forgotten. Rest in peace, daddy…you will be missed.
A celebration of life will be held in the near future. Charlie loved dogs all his life and in lieu of flowers the family requests that a donation to your local animal shelter would be a fitting tribute to his memory.

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Published by Examiner-Enterprise from Feb. 9 to Mar. 8, 2020.

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Amanda Farthing

June 14, 2025

Hello to all of Charlie's family,
Five years on ... rather late to give you my condolences now but thought I'd write some memories of Charlie anyway.
I started work as a Secretary on 21.7.1969 (the day the Americans landed on the Moon) at Phillips Petroleum Europe Africa, London, UK and worked until the summer of 1971. Charlie was my main boss. He was a Chief Geologist to work on the exploration of gas/oil in the North Sea, UK.
Charlie was probably one of the nicest bosses I had ever worked for, and other secretaries on the 5th floor, I believe, were jealous of me having such a good looking and very pleasant man to work for! Not only did I work for his team but, also the Chief Geophysicist and his team... a total of 23 in all. A lot of technical copy typing on an electric typewriter, masses of photocopying and briefly receiving and making phone calls to counterparts in Belgium and Norway, was my daily workload but I thoroughly enjoyed it! It was an exciting and historical time in my life... and for the rest of the teams.
On days when I was really busy, Charlie would come out of his office and sit on my adjacent desk; he would just talk to me about things, other than work... really to destress me probably... and maybe himself too! It worked!
So glad to read that Charlie went up in the ranks to finally being a Vice President; he deserved it, and am sure he must have done a very good job and was well respected.
RIP Charlie!

Peter Contre

September 25, 2020

We proudly have one of Charlie's paintings on our wall. I met Charlie at the Charlotte Art League. He welcomed me with a smile and was a great supporter of my artistic efforts. On gallery crawl nights he would draw a crowd as he slung paint in his studio space. I learned so much from him. Thank you, Charlie.

Keith “Andy “Anderson

August 15, 2020

Fond memories of the Wyndham family when we were all in Tripoli. I hope time will bring you all peace.

Rachel Wyndham

February 10, 2020

My grandfather was an extraordinary man that we all loved with all of our hearts. He will be dearly missed but never forgotten. Many of my greatest, most meaningful childhood memories are of my time with him and Sylvia. I will hold onto those memories and look back on them fondly. Anybody who had the privilege of knowing him already knows the exceptional person he was. Love you Always and Forever, Grandad!

Norman Burnett

February 9, 2020

Our condolences to Sylvia and the family. Charlie was a multi-talented friend and fellow employee, whose character, humor, intelligence, compassion and leadership was clearly recognizable. We will miss him.. Norm and Jenny Burnett

Elsa & Doug MacDonald

February 7, 2020

We were fortunate to have had Charlie as our neighbor. Sylvia our hearts ache for you at this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the Family. Love you,

Steve and Lisa Antry

February 7, 2020

He was such a beautiful talented man in so many ways. We were blessed to have known Charlie, and were so sorry to learn of his passing. Many prayers for the immediate family as we know his presence will be greatly missed.

Laura Milgrim

February 7, 2020

Sincere sympathy, Sylvia, to you and all the family. Sending loving thoughts.
Laura.

Ginger Blanton

February 6, 2020

Farewell to a long time precious friend with whom I shared so many happy times in so many places. You will be dearly missed, sweet Charlie! My love and deepest sympathy to Sylvia and all the family.

Nancy & Larry Chamberlain

February 6, 2020

Charlie will be greatly missed. His wonderful sense of humor, and his fabulous art, one of which hangs proudly on our wall. He spread joy wherever he went. We loved you our friend. Our lives were enriched by knowing you.

February 6, 2020

My condolences to the family . May you find comfort in your treasured memories and Gods promise to return our loved ones who passed away in death . 1st Thessalonians 4 : 13 & 14 .

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