Danette Dawn Oglebay

Danette Dawn Oglebay obituary, Independence, MO

Danette Dawn Oglebay

Danette Oglebay Obituary

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Danette Dawn Oglebay, affectionately known as DD, graced this world with her vibrant spirit on January 19, 1961, in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. She embarked on her eternal journey on January 4, 2026, in Blue Springs, Missouri, surrounded by the love of her family, who will forever cherish her memory.

Danette dedicated her career to the retail industry, where her warm smile resonated with customers and colleagues alike. Her love for life was evident in every endeavor she undertook, but it was her deep appreciation for the simple joys that truly defined her. Danette was an avid reader, with a particular fondness for the works of Stephen King, often losing herself in the pages of a gripping novel. When not immersed in literature, she found solace and companionship in her beloved cats and dogs, who were as devoted to her as she was to them.

Music was another beautiful thread woven into the fabric of Danette's life. She had a soulful connection to classic rock, with its anthems echoing through her home, creating an atmosphere filled with warmth and nostalgia. True to her spirited nature, purple adorned her life as her favorite color, mirroring the creativity and passion she brought into every moment.

Above all, Danette held her family close to her heart. She leaves behind her cherished husband, Thomas Oglebay, and her son, Richard Duffield, who are left to navigate the world without her radiant presence. Her sister, Dana (Mike) Danecki-Angoli and, alongside her niece and nephews, Jessica, Matthew, Tony, and Jesse, will also carry forward the legacy of love and laughter she instilled in their lives.

Danette now joins her beloved parents, Erv and Sally Daneki, and sister, Tammy; who preceded her in death. Their love lives on in the hearts of those she leaves behind, a testament to the strength of family bonds that transcends even the greatest divides.

As we remember Danette Dawn Oglebay, we celebrate her life—a life filled with passion, love, and an unyielding spirit that taught us all the importance of cherishing each moment and embracing the beauty of our world. She may have departed from our view, but her essence will remain a beacon of light in the memories she created with all who were fortunate enough to know her.

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