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Joe I Butler
October 20, 2025
I was blessed for the past few years to have reconnected with David. In the late 1990's I was the director of Development at St. Mikes HS. I also had the privilege of teaching Joel and watching both Joel and Jeff in their athletic endeavors. And Portia was always a presence at St. Mikes, supporting whenever and wherever. Out of the blue David contacted me with questions about my time at San Miguel. That first meeting over coffee at Starbucks led to regular get-togethers to talk San Miguel, kids and out mutual battles with cancer. I always looked forward to and cherished getting together. Getting to reconnect with the boys at Davids celebration of life was wonderful. I still think of him and the family often.
Joel Blackman
December 5, 2024
The older I get and the more people I meet, the more fortunate I feel to have had Dave as a father. The one thing I regret is never referring to him as "dad"; I always just called him Dave. I don´t know why this bothers me so much, but he didn´t seem to mind. I wasn´t always the best kid, but I never had to wonder whether he knew the difference between loving his son and loving his decisions. Sometimes I think he wondered if I actually listened to the advice he gave me. As I told him from time to time, "Some things people just have to learn for themselves." Thankfully, Dave was patient. He was just there to help me land on my feet when I decided to teach myself. I don´t know where I would have wound up without his support, and I don´t want to know the answer. I know that no matter what I would have chosen to do with my life and how it may have worked out, he would have had the exact same amount of love for me. I get the feeling not everyone can say that. If every son could have a father like Dave, I think the world would be a much better place.
John Hooge
December 3, 2024
Since Portia told me of Dave's passing, I have been numb and melancholy much of the time. Dave was one of my oldest, best friends. We fell together in 1969 while both of us attended Ottawa University. We went to see Led Zeppelin in KC that fall. That concert and my friendship with Dave changed my life. I frequently blamed Dave for my downfall and always then thanked him. We visited with our families frequently when our kids were young. And in the last # of years more often than not, once a year, went to the Boundary Waters in northern Minnesota to canoe and fish. Sometimes with his brother who is also my friend, John, sometimes with another friend from OU. We canoed (John and I called Dave the "Beast"--he was determined to portage a canoe on the portage from hell and did it!), fished, listened to great music from our college years, laughed, told stories, enjoyed our friendship. Dave was a listener, an encourager. He will always be in my heart.
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Sarah Taylor
November 29, 2024
Dave was my beloved brother-in-law. I met him when I was 16, and he was always like an older brother to me. I have countless happy memories of spending time with Portia and Dave and their sons, Joel and Jeff, first in the midwest and then in Santa Fe. Dave was so easy to be with: always friendly and supportive, and ready for a good conversation. I am proud of how he handled himself throughout his journey with cancer. I miss him dearly!
Carmen M. Rodriguez
November 28, 2024
Good Afternoon, Portia and Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your husband/father/friend/and everything else. Although I did not meet David, I remember you, Portia, and your beautiful smile. I am thinking of you and will light a candle on David's behalf. Stay strong and keep your memories close to your heart. Hugs, Carmen M. Rodriguez
Steve Ethell
November 27, 2024
Dave was a great friend growing up in our Knoxville Iowa days. I attended Ottawa University with him during his senior year. He was always a very likable person and would take care of anyone´s needs if he could help. He will be missed by many. My condolences to his family. May God grant your peace and comfort during his difficult time.
Peggy Ann Bierbaum
November 27, 2024
I met Dave through Dave Holland and shared several memorable lunches with him in Port Townsend, Washington. Dave was a remarkable man. Always funny, always upbeat, always knowledgeable. His passing is a loss to all of us who knew him but I am thankful nevertheless for the opportunity to have known him.
Mark and Diana Filliman
November 26, 2024
Thinking of you Portia and the boys.
David D. Gurule
November 25, 2024
David was a true gentleman and genuine to all those he met. Santa Fe and all his friends will miss him dearly. A really good guy.
Joe Butler
November 24, 2024
Portia, Joel and Jeff.
It was so incredible to reconnect with David a couple of years ago. We met often for coffee to talk about San Miguel Mission and our kids and grandkids. He was such an amazing person with the biggest heart. The Blackman family was one of my true favorites during all your time at St Mikes. Prayers. Joe and Chela Butler
Jarratt Applewhite
November 24, 2024
Never knew David well, but admired him.
Steve and Lynn Gibbs& family
November 24, 2024
Portia and Sons,
We were so sorry to learn that David has passed away. Our family has great memories of him and the whole family when we were all at St. Mike's.
It is such a loss for your family and the Santa Fe community. We send our sincere condolences and prayers.
Steve, Lynn, Leah, Lara and Jake Gibbs
Deb McClure
November 24, 2024
I am so sorry for your loss, he was a trooper fighting this cancer, I know how grateful you all must be for his want to be with you all as long as possible
David was a dear friend to my sister, Peig McClure. Our Phoenix family would enjoy visiting with he and Portia when they came to town for multiple reasons. As a couple, such fun and so entertaining to be with!
Rest in peace David
Gloria F Baca
November 23, 2024
My condolences for the family Mrs. Portia Blackman and sons; God rewarded your beloved Husband Senor David Blackman Heaven and Eternal Grace; May the Perpetual Light shine upon David now and forever.
Years ago I did volunteer at the San Miguel Church that was a the remodeling and Covid changed but I learned that Senor David made the commitment to keep the church available and see the expansion to serve all visitors. Everyone from Santa Fe were given David's smile, kindness and knowledge of our glorious San Miguel Church. We appreciate everything Senor David shared to our community.
Cheri Jensen
November 22, 2024
I am saddened to learn of Dave´s passing. I attended school with him in Knoxville. We grew up at opposite ends of Conrey street. He was kind to everyone, a friend to all. I hadn´t seen Dave since we graduated high school. Approximately 10 years ago when my husband and I were traveling through Santa Fe, I called him to meet us for dinner. We caught up on where life had taken us the past 5 decades. After dinner he gave us a tour of the San Miquel Chapel. Portia was out of town that night, so we were unable to meet the love of his life. We send our condolences to Portia and his family and friends.
Nori Hale
November 22, 2024
How sad to hear of Dave's passing. He was a friend at Ottawa University, and we had a great time reconnecting when he returned to campus a few years ago. It would've been wonderful to have had a guided tour by Dave of his beloved chapel. May he rest in a heavenly chapel now where we can meet again.
Nori Hale
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