David Joseph Fitzig, affectionately known as "Deaf Dave," to those who knew him, embarked on his final journey on September 19, 2025. Born on December 19, 1968, in the bustling city of Brooklyn, NY, he was raised in the quiet suburbs of Morris County, NJ. However, for the past almost 18 months, he lived outside our nation's capitol in Alexandria, VA to begin the next chapter in his life following the passing of his beloved mother who he kept a watchful eye over in NJ.
Unfortunately, not long after moving to Virginia to live with his brother, David's lung cancer came out of remission and his plans had to take a detour. Never a quitter when facing adversity, David dealt with this latest challenge head on with the full support of his family and medical team at Inova Fairfax Hospital.
David was a strong-willed individual, brimming with ideas and enthusiasm that ignited conversations wherever he traversed. Despite his deafness, he had a remarkable gift for engaging those around him, hearing and deaf alike, drawing people into his orbit with his infectious energy. His passion for social connection enriched the lives of countless friends and strangers alike, as he formed bonds that transcended the ordinary. He was an active fixture within the deaf community, regularly attending Deaf Chat socials and events.
In addition to his zest for life, David possessed an unparalleled charm that complemented his passions. His love for working on cars and trucks became a hallmark of his character. He was a self-proclaimed mechanic, a master at taking things apart, often in pursuit of fixing things, though he often left the reassembly process on "the To Do List." However, each of his mechanical endeavors mirrored his approach to life—fearless, curious, and resolute in his quest for understanding.
David is survived by his older brother, Louis, older cousins, Janice and Joseph, younger cousins, Jessica, Jennifer, and Joe Jr., his uncles Clarence and Michael, along with his in-laws, Rita, Jack, and Shoushan. Each of these family members will carry forward his legacy, remembering a man who filled their lives with humor, love, and the reassuring presence of kinship.
Though his parents, Irving and Charmaine, have since departed this world, David’s essence remains intertwined with the memory of their love and guidance.
As we bid farewell to David, we celebrate the spirit of a man who faced life and death with unwavering courage and an open heart, reminding us all that even in the simplicity of shared moments, one can leave an indelible mark on the souls they touch. The world is a little quieter with his passing, yet his humor and ideas will echo forever in the hearts of those who loved him.
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