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David Haaf Obituary

Haaf, David
COLTS NECK, N.J. - David Haaf, age 60, of Colts Neck, N.J., passed away on May 16, 2025, in Madeira, Portugal.
Born on January 31,1965 to William and Linda Haaf, he was raised in Voorheesville, N.Y. He later relocated to Manhattan with his wife, Luanne. The family ultimately settled in Colts Neck, where they have resided for the past 25 years.
David graduated from SUNY Oswego in 1987 with a degree in mathematics. He worked as an actuary in Manhattan for several years before moving overseas with his wife to Slovakia, where he was a marketing director for a manufacturing firm. Upon returning to the States, he ran an automotive repair business until he decided to take a step back to spend time with his family. After about a year, David returned to work and eventually finished his career at Open Road BMW.
David was a warmhearted and down-to-earth individual who prioritized his family above all. Trusted by friends and family alike, he was known for being a good listener and offering meaningful advice. He was community minded and spent countless hours coaching and cheering on his children and their friends. He enjoyed travelling with loved ones, attending Phish concerts with his family, and playing basketball on Sundays. In his leisure time, he loved diving with his eldest son, making stuffed peppers with his daughter, and playing golf with the twins. His favorite activity on a Friday night was to drink martinis with his wife and talk about their week. His generosity and kindness left a lasting impression on all who knew him.
He is preceded in death by his mother, Linda Haaf.
Surviving him are his beloved wife, Luanne; his loving children, Nick, Charlotte, Adam, and Derek; his father, Bill; his brother, Mike and wife Sandy; his sister, Kirsten and husband Tim; loving nieces and nephews; and his dogs Django and Ruby.
Family and friends are invited to attend a Memorial Gathering for David, to be held on Friday, June 6, 4 to 8 p.m., at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 S. Holmdel Road, Holmdel, N.J. 07722.
In lieu of flowers, donations in David's memory are suggested to Semper Fi Santa, 610 Essex Ave, Spring Lake, N.J. 07762. Please note in the memo "David Haaf Memorial Scholarship Fund."

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Published by Albany Times Union on Jun. 4, 2025.

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Heidi Owen West

July 2, 2025

I will always have fond memories of Dave.... He was fun-loving, caring and just a person you always wanted to be around. I haven´t seen him in decades but carry wonderful memories in my heart. RIP Dave .

Ralph

June 10, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss. Dave was an amazingly kind, genuine and warm friend to all. I am grateful to have known him. Prayers and thoughts for you all.
Ralph Divino

Kiki Volkwein

June 6, 2025

Dear Kirsten and Haaf family,
We were sad to hear of your loss of David. You will surely have
many wonderful memories of him. Fred, Ed, Jim and I remember
you, your family and our years in Voorheesville with great fondness.
Kiki Volkwein

Jeannine Smith/Brearton

June 4, 2025

Luanne, Mr. Haaf, Mike, Kirsten and children. I am so so sorry about David..... I can't imagine what you are going through. We haven't been in touch as of late but it is still leaving a hole in my heart. Our years through high school and college together were quite a ride. Speaking of ride, David was always driving the train of fun and my VW Bug as well. I would happen to look out the window in a HS class and see my bug leaving the grounds with David behind the wheel and various others along for the ride. I am sure he was also part of the picking up and turning my bug sideways in front of our college dorm so I could not get out of my parking space. Just a few notes of our fun times together with all of our common friends to hopefully make you smile for a moment. Again I am so sorry for your loss and I will always remember him and be thinking of all of you through this tough time.

Suzy Carson Balmaceda

June 4, 2025

My deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. The Haafs were my second family growing up. I love you all.

Richard C. Bopp

June 4, 2025

Bill, I am so very sorry to hear of the death of your son, David. Please accept my deepest sympathy for this most terrible loss. God Bless!

Geray Family

June 3, 2025

Our hearts are broken for the loss of your beloved Dave. A great father and friend to our boys- sending you our deepest condolences.

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