David Francis O'Brien

David Francis O'Brien obituary

David Francis O'Brien

David O'Brien Obituary

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David Francis O'Brien (1943 – 2025)

David Francis O'Brien, a decorated Vietnam veteran and retired commercial airline captain, passed away peacefully at his home on August 18, 2025, at the age of 81.

Born and raised in San Jose, California, David was a proud graduate of Bellarmine College Preparatory and Santa Clara University, where he earned a degree in English. He answered the call to serve his country in the United States Air Force during the Vietnam War, skillfully piloting KC-135 and Caribou aircraft, earning the Distinguished Flying Cross and achieving the rank of Captain.

After his honorable military service, David embarked on a long and distinguished career as a pilot with Delta Airlines, safely flying countless passengers on domestic and international routes until his retirement.

A man of diverse passions, David was a lifelong baseball enthusiast, a voracious reader, and a devoted animal lover.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Frank J. and Janice C. O'Brien. He selflessly acted as a caregiver for Janice in her final years of life. He is survived and lovingly remembered by his brother, three children, and two grandchildren, as well as numerous other family members and friends whose lives he touched.

A Funeral Mass will be held at 12:00 PM on Friday, August 29, 2025, at St. Victor Catholic Church in San Jose. Interment will follow at Oak Hill Memorial Park.
Darling & Fischer Garden Chapel

471 East Santa Clara Street, San Jose, CA 95112

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