David J. Witham

David J. Witham obituary, Bar Harbor, ME

David J. Witham

David Witham Obituary

Published by Driscoll Funeral Home & Cremation Service on Nov. 25, 2017.
HAVERHILL - David J. Witham, 77, of Portsmouth, NH passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 25, with his children by his side after a courageous battle with Parkinson's. Besides Portsmouth, NH, he spent time at his residences in Bar Harbor, ME, Boston and St. John in the USVI. He was born on April 1, 1940 in Haverhill, MA and was raised by his parents Warren and Margaret Witham in the Acre neighborhood where he formed treasured lifelong friendships. A star athlete, young men from other towns would often travel to Haverhill looking for "Witham" to unsuccessfully challenge him to a foot race. He graduated from St. James High School and Merrimack College in No. Andover. He would later earn his Masters Degree at Northeastern University. His early career included Raytheon, IBM, and Sanders Associates before forging his own highly successful career in the hotel industry. In the early 1970's he partnered with his sister Mary and brother-in-law to purchase some motel cabins from his father in Hampton Beach, NH. He was a tireless worker who taught and nurtured hundreds of loyal employees over the years. By the end of his career in 2015, he was considered one of the top independent hoteliers in the state of Maine with the Bar Harbor Inn being his flagship property. Though highly regarded during his business career, he was just as admired for his unwavering commitment to family, friends, and community through his generosity. The Witham Family Hotels Charitable Fund was recently set up to carry on this legacy of giving. He was an avid fan of all local sports, but the New England Patriots were his favorite team and he would rarely miss a game over the past 40 years, even attending all five Super Bowl victories with family and friends. Survivors include his daughter Anne Witham of Exeter, NH, son David Witham of Portsmouth, NH, and daughter Christine Witham of Bar Harbor, ME. He also leaves his dear sisters Mary Donovan and Margaret Witham, brother in-law Thomas Donovan, six grandchildren, three nephews and his devoted nurse Marius Ramirez. He is predeceased by his sister Anne and brother Warren. Visiting hours will be held on Wednesday, November 29, in the Driscoll Funeral Home, 309 So. Main Street, Haverhill from 3:00 to 7:00 PM. Services will begin Thursday in the funeral home at 8:30 AM. Funeral Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. James Church, 185 Winter Street, Haverhill at 9:30 AM. Burial in St. James Cemetery. For guestbook, please visit www.driscollcares.com

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June 19, 2019

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July 12, 2018

Chris and Charlie Roddy posted to the memorial.

June 16, 2018

Jane Butler posted to the memorial.

June 19, 2019

May your family find peace in the comfort of God and His Holy promises. Isaiah 32:18

Chris and Charlie Roddy

July 12, 2018

We will miss you David! Love Chris and Charlie Roddy

Jane Butler

June 16, 2018

Above all else, David was a wonderful husband to my step-daughter Sarah. And he was always wonderful to my husband and me wherever we were - at their (David and Sarah's) apt in Boston, their place on St John's, or here on MDI. And he was always friends with my son and his family, and visited them (out of State) a number of times. We mss him very much. Jane and John (Sarah's parents)

Judy Morse

December 9, 2017

My deepest sympathy to David's family, friends and coworkers. He leaves behind a legacy of teamwork and creating a large family atmosphere to be shared with all who worked at his hotels. Rest in peace Mr. Witham.

bill ryan

November 30, 2017

david was a great person to know...we will all miss him.....rip david

Cheryl Agnese

November 30, 2017

"Sending love and warm thoughts from Camden, Maine"
Cheryl M. Agnese

Dianne Burns

November 30, 2017

All my sympathies to Dave's family and friends. My heart goes out to you.

Peggy Witham

November 29, 2017

Your love continues to nurt us

Marcelle and Winnie Whitney

November 29, 2017

Bangor

Debbie & Carole Taylor & Tuorila

November 28, 2017

We will miss you dear friend - we so appreciated you in our lives - our thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

Peter and Sally Vacca

November 28, 2017

A friend and partner who changed our lives and touched so many others. So many memories.
May you rest in peace.

Sue Johnson

November 28, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your father . May God give you all strength to get through . I never met him , but seeing pix that Chris posted , I know he was a kind and loving man . God bless you . Your dad has no more pain .

Lynne and John Littlechild

November 28, 2017

David was a wonderful friend and neighbor, in Francis Bay.
Sending you our love and prayers for healing.

John Harris

November 28, 2017

Thanks for all the memories and good times Dave. We will miss you. John and Susie Harris

Nancy and Jerry Tibbetts

November 28, 2017

A huge loss to the Bar Harbor community. A wonderful man who taught me many things. Rest in Peace Mr. Witham.

Kelley Gross

November 28, 2017

To Christine n ur entire family we r DEEPLY SORRY FOR UR LOSS! R LOVE N PRAYERS R WITH ALL OF U!!

We reacquainted at our 60th year St. James Highschool celebration (9/15/17) and with permission promised to pray for him every evening with my daughter Sophia (14 yr.). We will continue that prayer forever and meet again in much less than another 60 year

Victor Myette

November 28, 2017

We reacquainted at our 60th year St. James Highschool celebration (9/15/17) and with permission promised to pray for him every evening with my daughter Sophia (14 yr.). We will continue that prayer forever and meet again in much less than another 60 years... God Willing. Rest gently, David, kind soul and well-earned.

Robert DeSimone

November 28, 2017

My family and I wanted to send our most sincere condolences in the loss of David. It was an honor to have known him. Rob DeSimone and Family.

Kasanga McNeish Bolt

November 27, 2017

I am so so sadden by the passing of Mr Witham. Mr Witham has made an impact on so many lives.He will be greatly missed by all. Sleep well Sir.

Jack Bream

November 27, 2017

David was a dear, fun loving friend, and I shall miss him deeply!
Jack Bream

Norvie Bullock

November 27, 2017

every blessing !!!

Jack and Linda Speight

November 27, 2017

We admired Mr. Witham's fierceness. He seemed to live his life with gusto. He will be missed.

Wade Hill

November 27, 2017

Kathy and I send our most sincere condolences to the entire family.

Dianne Frank

November 26, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Mr.Witham was a wonderful person as well as a wonderful boss.I have worked for his company for almost 19 years.I will always think fondly of him.

Anne Krieg

November 26, 2017

Rob and I send sincere condolences to the family- he was a very smart man and was good to us

Alicia Johnson

November 26, 2017

So sorry for your loss.

Jillian and Lonnie Ellis

November 26, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers are with family and friends during this difficult time. He will be sadly missed. It was a privilege to work with DJW in Bar Harbor.

Richard Roy

November 26, 2017

My sympathies to the Witham Family
Dave was a beach commissioner, with me in the early 80s, in Hampton Beach , NH.
Always was a spark for beach improvements.
Dick Roy

Elizabeth Ramirez

November 26, 2017

Sorry for the loss of your dad. Praying for you during this time of loss.

David Faxon

November 26, 2017

You were the best of friends. God be with you on your journey.
David & Linda Faxon

Norman Langlois

November 26, 2017

My thoughts are with all sad to lose such a good man thank you for all you did for us in bar harbor

Peggy Witham

November 25, 2017

I love you Davy Crockett
All my love,
Peggy

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