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Deborah Spencer was born in Huron, South Dakota on November 9th, 1954 to Lloyd "Duke" and Marilyn Bonebrake. Deborah passed away on September 25, 2024 at Bergan Mercy Hospital having attained the age of 69 years.
Deborah was preceded in death by her grandparents; parents; aunt, Patricia Johnson; uncle, Merlyn Mier; and grandson, Sheldon Spencer.
Survivors include her soulmate and best friend, Gary Smith; special cousin, Julie Sakalosky; her children: Brent Spencer, Jason (Robi) Spencer, Thomas (Jayme) Spencer; her siblings: Lyle (Angie) Bonebrake, Diane (Dave) Fuhrman; her grandchildren, also known as her whole heart, Lindsie, Tanner and Owen Spencer, Kaleb, Haylee, Koy and Colt Spencer, Peyton and Millie Spencer; four great-grandchildren and ex-husband, Gordon Dearborn; nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends.
Memorial Service will be held at 1:00 PM at Hoy Kilnoski Funeral Home on Wednesday, October 2, 2024.
1221 North 16th Street, Council Bluffs, IA 51501-0143
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