Donald J. Dumais

Donald J. Dumais obituary, Saint Cloud, MN

Donald J. Dumais

Donald Dumais Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Benson Funeral Home - Saint Cloud on Apr. 26, 2024.

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Donald J. Dumais, 74
Sartell, MN
January 19, 1950 – April 24, 2024
Donald John Dumais age 74 of Sartell, died peacefully Wednesday, April 24, 2024, at his home, after a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer.
Memorial services will be held at 11:30 A.M. on Saturday, May 4, 2024, at the First United Methodist Church in Sartell, MN. Visitation will start at 10:30 A.M. on Saturday, May 4, 2024, at First United Methodist Church. The services will be live streamed on the First United Methodist Website. Funeral arrangements were made by Benson Funeral Home, St. Cloud, MN.
Donald was born on January 19, 1950, in Warroad, Minnesota, the son of Donald "Chick" and Peggy (Ammerman) Dumais. In 1953 his family moved to Silver Bay, MN where he was raised and graduated from high school in 1968.
Don was an excellent high school hockey and tennis player who received a hockey scholarship to the University of Minnesota. He earned his B.S. Degree in Sociology in 1972 and MA in Sociology from North Dakota State University in 1981. A proud life-long educator, he taught one year at Fergus Falls High School and sixteen years at Fargo North High School, eleven years at Fargo South High School, and fourteen years at Desert Vista High School in Phoenix, Arizona. His classes were very popular as he sprinkled a lot of humor into each day and truly loved working with his students. Don also taught Sociology as an adjunct at North Dakota State University for 15 years and at Rio Salado College for 22 years.
Don enjoyed watching football, even the Vikings and Gophers. He and Melinda loved going to movies on the big screen, but he was more of an action movie fan than Melinda. He often told her that he would like the Hallmark movie channel banned. To keep mentally sharp, Don did crossword puzzles, read novels, and followed politics.
He said his own grandfather Fred was his first best friend and taught him how to love. He demonstrated his special kind of love to everyone, his family, friends, students and even strangers.
Don often said that he had a great life and God had bestowed upon him his blessing. In his own words, "Don't cry or mourn for me, for I had a great run at this thing called life. Instead, think of something I may have said to you or something we did together that had made us laugh. Laugh about it and when you're done laughing, laugh some more, because laughter and humor is one of God's greatest gifts to us!"
Don is survived by his loving wife of 32 years, Melinda, as well as his step-son Brian (Heidi); grandsons Anders and Soren; step-daughter, Allison, grandsons Joseph, Christian and Max and great grandchildren Liam and Lily. He loved being the doting "Papa" and had a very special relationship with Christian, who he helped raise from birth through high school. He is also survived by his brothers John (Teresa) Dumais and Bob Dumais; sisters Denise (Bryan) Hansen and Mary Mattila; and a host of nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, Chick and Peggy; and brother Frank Dumais.
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June 7, 2025

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Samantha Hurlburt

June 7, 2025

I found this because I was looking at old things and remembered my favorite teacher in high school so looked him up - Mr. dumais- the reason I got a sociology degree. I cried a tear knowing nobody will be lucky enough to be taught by him again. I have no doubt he was an incredible man personally too and I´m so sorry for your loss. I´ll never forget him, he really was amazing and he changed my path and taught me so much!

-Sam Hurlburt

Nancy Jordheim

May 4, 2024

My deepest sense of loss and shared sorrow to you, Melinda. Don was a wonderfully warm colleague and a friend and guide to so many during his time at South High. We were all encouraged and engaged by his warm smile and genuine laughter.
The two of you were such a good match. The love of adventure and the willingness to try something unexpected or new to both of you was like a beacon to others. Fear or uncertainty did not stop you.
You may well remember the visit we had with the two of you after you had moved to Arizona. We had not been to your home and this was before 'navigation technology' We were carefully following the directions we had been given when we looked up and here in the middle of the neighborhood road was Don. Dressed in a whited ironed shirt and khaki slacks, his normal dapper self, he was standing like a stick man gently waving both hands and guiding us through the last two turns. Here too he was laughing and enjoying the time to greet and welcome us into your AZ space. He was a treasure.

Thank you for sharing him with us and know you are in my heart and prayers.
Nancy

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