Douglas Arthur Yorke Jr.

Douglas Arthur Yorke Jr. obituary, Red Bank, NJ

Douglas Arthur Yorke Jr.

Douglas Yorke Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Thompson Memorial Home - Red Bank on Apr. 15, 2024.

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The world lost one of its most dedicated laughers with the passing of Douglas Arthur Yorke, Jr on April 11th. He died peacefully surrounded by his beloved family while in the outstanding care of the trauma team at Jersey Shore Medical Center.
Doug was born to Joanne and Doug Yorke on August 20, 1951 and grew up in Rumson, where he would later raise his three children. His childhood days were spent boating, skiing, and scheming with his many friends, establishing a passion for athletics and hijinks that would endure his whole life.
He attended the Westminster School where he built many lifelong friendships and developed a love of learning and leadership. He graduated from Syracuse University and Wharton School of Business. Doug lived a life full of variety; among his many professional accomplishments, he was integral in the preservation of the now-Instagram-famous Hermitage Hotel bathroom in Nashville, assisted the Navajo in establishing the Navajo Nation Permanent Trust Fund, was a founding board member of Parsons Dance Company, and spearheaded an ongoing project to make New Jersey a leader in the field of photonics.
Doug was an avid writer, with many professional publications, several op-eds in the New York Times, a blog on mergers and acquisitions, and enough personal narratives to stuff a memoir. After amassing one of the largest private collections of American road maps, he published a book on their artwork and the story they reveal about American history, Hitting the Road. He will be remembered by many as a passionate epistolater, sending postcards from his travels and typing carefully crafted letters to his family and friends, including monthly missives to his granddaughter, despite her being too young to read them herself. Care packages he sent to his children throughout their lives would arrive with their own personalized, themed mailing labels and adorned with antique stamps which served no value beyond amusement. His signature font was Trebuchet.
Doug loved to print the internet and hated eating vegetables. He was a meticulous and absurd list-maker ("Biking Gear Needs, Arranged by 10-Degree Temperature Increments," "Foods I Can't Believe My Children Tell Me I Should Eat") and had perfected the art of stacking his many papers into piles, artfully placed around every surface of his apartment. He was a dedicated uncle who loved being Crazy Uncle "Duog" to his nieces and nephews. He carried on the work of his mother, Jan, a founder of the Monmouth Museum, by serving as a trustee of the museum for 12 years. He was a lifelong member of St George's by-the-River and was beloved for his resonant readings of lessons (though he was occasionally known to edit scripture on the fly if he thought of a bon mots better than the disciples did); his faith was buoyant, ardent, and contagious.
After running hurdles in high school and marathons in young adulthood, he found his great passion for physical activity in cycling. He biked all over the East Coast and Texas, on multi-day rides and centuries, in pursuit of a goal to log enough miles to circumnavigate the globe. Despite several significant injuries over 20+ years, he couldn't resist "hitting the road" on a beautiful day. This Easter Sunday, his sunny ride was to be his last.
Doug was predeceased by his parents Joanne and Doug, his stepfather, LeRoy "Bud" Bunnell, his sister-in-law Jean Bunnell. He is survived by his children, Douglas Yorke (Kiley Dancy) of Dover, DE, Alice Yorke (Steven Rishard) of Philadelphia, PA, Liza Yorke of Brooklyn, NY; his siblings Christine (Michael) Flaherty of Big Canoe, GA; Tom (Jeannette) Yorke of Atlantic Highlands; Peeka (Art) Tildesley of Fair Haven; Steve Bunnell of Norway, ME; Barry (Divya) Bunnell of Sewickley, PA; his former wife and the mother of his children Eve Chamberlain of Little Silver; twelve nieces and nephews and his granddaughter Emilia.
A funeral service will be held at St. George's by-the-River on Saturday, May 11th at 10:30 am with a reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, please find donation suggestions on Doug's CaringBridge page where you can also share memories of him; and most importantly, please share the road with cyclists. Thompson Memorial Home of Red Bank, NJ has been entrusted with the arrangements.

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Michelle Bodden

May 13, 2024

I am so deeply saddened by the passing of such a wonderfully kind, witty, and vibrant man. Those of us who had the privilege to work with Doug at the NJEDA will never forget his hearty, infectious laugh. I often reached out to Doug just to hear his thoughts on the latest news, always appreciating how he skillfully mixed concern, humor, and insightful commentary into his responses. His charm, brilliant intellect, and sharp wit were evident to everyone he met. More than anything, being around Doug was a joy, especially when he spoke about his beloved children ("the loves of his life"), his passion for cycling, and knowledge on virtually every subject imaginable! Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. My thoughts are with you all.

Denise DiBona

May 11, 2024

Dear Yorke Family,
Although I was only your family dentist in your younger years, I enjoyed getting to know each of you. More recently, I was kept apprised of your whereabouts/ accomplishments through your parents, who BEAMED with pride when speaking of each of you. I´m happy to know that you all have grown into beautiful, smart, successful adults!
Your Dad was a very special person - one of my favorite patients. He was quite intelligent, interesting to talk to, easy going, funny, friendly, and very humble. He ALWAYS came in to his appointments with a stack of papers and a pen, working on something (well beyond my understanding!) while waiting for his dental appointment. It seemed like his mind was always working!
It is with a heavy heart that I offer my condolences to you and your mom for your loss. Please be comforted in knowing that he is now cycling, reading, writing and laughing in the heavens with his Savior! Stay strong, draw close as a family, lean on your faith in God, and continue to make your Dad proud as you continue his legacy which has been ingrained in each of you.
With love and deepest sympathy,
Denise DiBona

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Connie, Kay, Wendy, Ken Yorke

May 6, 2024

Memories of our cousin Day were mostly from our childhood years when our families would often get together. We always had great times with lots of laughs and fond memories. We only wish we could have spent more time together as we grew older. He will always be remembered with love. Our condolences. Connie, Kay, Wendy and Ken Yorke

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Larry Hilton

May 5, 2024

This poem has always given me comfort at times like this.
Gone From My Sight by Henry Van Dyke I am standing upon the seashore A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength. I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other. Then, someone at my side says; "There, she is gone!" "Gone where?" Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port. Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when someone at my side says, "There, she is gone!" There are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout; "Here she comes!" And that is dying. Larry Hilton, A Very Old Friend And Classmate

Gianmaria Delzanno

April 20, 2024

I am an old friend of Doug's. We met many years ago, in the late 80's when we were both working at Wertheim, an investment bank in New York. We both loved running and we ran the NYC marathon the same year. After we both left the firm we developed an interest in cycling and we both liked modern dance. Doug was very smart, engaging and had great intellectual curiosity. I will miss him tremendously.

Paul A Sully

April 17, 2024

My condolences to the York Family! I was one of the schemers! Spent many a day on Shrewsbury Drive Rumson in and around the water. He will be MISSED!

Julianne Rock

April 15, 2024

To a family i was blessed with caring for, me deepest sympathies, my heart breaks for you all.
Doug picked me up in September 94 from my Au Pair in America culture orientation class in New York and drove me to their home where I was fortunate to care for his 3 children for a little over a year. We chatted and he was easy to make me laugh and tried to make me feel at ease as I was in a foreign country. Many fond memories of Doug, Eve and the whole family. Ride free Doug you will be missed.
D, Woo and Beany much love to you all xx

Margaret Shippey

April 15, 2024

Alice- keeping you, Liza, and your amazing family in my prayers. Reading your dad´s obituary I see so much of him in you. He will live on in you girls. Sending you all my love and walking with you on this journey.

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Bette Renaud

April 15, 2024

Doug was a wonderful addition to the Office of Economic Transformation at the NJEDA. He was fun and always smiling . I will remember him fondly. Bette Renaud

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