Dr. Paul Adrian Tudder, F.A.C.O.G.

Dr. Paul Adrian Tudder, F.A.C.O.G. obituary

Dr. Paul Adrian Tudder, F.A.C.O.G.

Dr. Paul Tudder, F.A.C.O.G. Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 9, 2025.
Dr. Paul Adrian Tudder, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, physician, and friend to so many, passed away peacefully on September 9, 2025 at the age of 75. Known for his sharp wit, a sense of mischievous adventure, and an ability to make people laugh even in the delivery room, Paul's impact on the Northern Virginia community and beyond is immeasurable.

Born on August 19, 1950 in Allentown, Pennsylvania to the late Adrian Paul Tudder and Jean (Boyer) Tudder, Paul graduated from Pennsbury High School in 1968 and went on to receive his bachelor's degree in political science from Temple University in 1972. He earned his Doctorate in Medicine with high honors from the Universidad Autonóma de Guadalajara in 1978 and did his internship at the University of Maryland. Paul finished his residency and fellowship in Obstetrics/Gynecology at George Washington University and served as Chief Resident in Fairfax Hospital. He also became a Fellow of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (F.A.C.O.G.), a prestigious recognition and honor.

In 1983, Paul opened his independent OB/GYN practice in Leesburg, Virginia. Drawn to the small-town feel that reminded him of his own upbringing, he wanted to live and work in a place where neighbors truly knew each other-he was an active member of the Rotary Club and provided free care to young unwed mothers at Martha's House in Hillsboro, Virginia. Fluent in Spanish, Paul was one of the first practices in the area to provide women with bilingual healthcare. He also wanted to ensure no one was denied care and often let his patients pay him in sweets-in fact, his office's kitchen often overflowed with homemade cookies, chocolate cakes and treats. (He also really loved Reese's Peanut Butter Cups and was known to frequently raid his daughters' Halloween bounty).

Over the course of his remarkable 35+ year career, he delivered an estimated 12,000 babies. Helping bring babies into the world was his passion, and he was in awe of the miracle of life, often joking, "These hands have been touched by God!"

His patients and colleagues knew him not just as a skilled physician but as a compassionate one. His bedside manner was renowned, and he was beloved in the community. He was honored with numerous awards, including the Most Compassionate Doctor Award and the Dr. Thomas F. Frist Sr. Humanitarian Award from Reston Hospital Center. Paul was also named multiple times as one of The Washingtonian's Top Doctors in OB/GYN and was a consistent winner for most of his career of the Loudoun Times-Mirror's "Best of Loudoun" contest, where hundreds of thousands of votes were cast annually supporting him as their favorite OB/GYN.

But Paul never measured success in awards or statistics. For him, the greatest joy was being able to care for generations of families-delivering the sons and daughters of those he had delivered decades earlier. He often would say, "I am grateful that God has given me an opportunity to do something that I genuinely love." To this day, strangers stop his daughters to tell them how Paul had delivered all their babies and how kind and funny he was.

Paul leaves behind his wife of 28 years Diane Tudder; their daughter Madeleine Tudder and his stepson Mason Crowder; his daughters Jennifer (Matthew) Walus, Jacqueline (Jeremy) Thornburg, and Jessica (Phillip) Cedoz from his first marriage to Maria Teresa Pizano; and his grandchildren Siena, Christian and Kieran Walus. He is also survived by his sister Kathleen (Ned) Caswell and brother George Tudder, as well as his nephew and nieces Barrett, Sydney and Lauren Herminghaus.

The family would like to thank Celebration Villa of Altoona, their memory care staff and the team at Advantage Hospice for the excellent care they gave Paul – he was very loved, and they tended to his every need.

A celebration of Paul's life will be held in July 2026 in Leesburg, Virginia – details are forthcoming. The family invites you to honor him by sharing a story, eating a Reese's Peanut Butter Cup, or performing a small act of service for someone else-because Paul knew that the world is made better one laugh, one kind gesture and one morsel of chocolate at a time. Dr. Paul Adrian Tudder, F.A.C.O.G.

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Amy Smith

October 27, 2025

I´m so saddened to learn about Dr. Tudder´s passing. He was the most amazing doctor (and person). He delivered my 14YO and my 11YO. I had suffered from infertility and he was so compassionate and kind. His humor was my favorite thing about him. I always knew when he was about to enter my room at his Leesburg office because I could hear his contagious laugh outside the door. My deepest condolences go to his family, friends, colleagues and all those who loved him dearly.

Catherine Bodkin

October 13, 2025

Dr. Rudder was an amazing colleague to work with. My thoughts and prayers with his family.

Cindy Dowd

September 28, 2025

Dr. Paul Tudder was one of the kindest, empathetic and funniest doctors/humans I´ve ever had the pleasure of working with. He respected us as nurses and always listened to our thoughts and ideas when it came to our patients. He also wouldn´t think twice about sitting at the main desk and answering call bells from patients. Oh the stories we have. Whenever he walked onto the unit, he brought smiles from us all. One specific story I will always remember was that I had taken care of a family whose newborn had passed away after about 36hours. I had a special bond with this family. When the Mom was pregnant with her second baby and decided that she needed a new OB/Gyn, I sat down with Dr. Tudder and told him how things had happened with her first precious baby girl. He cried. I cried. I asked him if he would consider being her new OB so that she had a sweet, emphatic soul to worry with and to be a big strong teddy bear for her, and give her excellent care. We hugged and he said "Cindy, I promise I will care for her like she was my own" and he did just that. Dr.Tudder and I were blessed enough to care of this family 3 more times (and continue to watch them grow on FB) He was such a special man whom genuinely cared for his patients and his nurses. He will never be forgotten. Dr. T, I know you are somewhere making people smile. We truly loved you. RIP my friend.

Roger Bivans

September 16, 2025

You will be missed, Cousin. You have a warm heart with gracious hospitality. Rest in peace.

Paul and our son - just one of his successful deliveries

Fiona Ahrweiler

September 16, 2025

Raystown Lake wearing our life-vest as diapers to keep afloat

Fiona Ahrweiler

September 16, 2025

Fiona Ahrweiler

September 16, 2025

Our family is overwhelmingly heartbroken to lose such a fine, funny, loving, caring, loyal and devoted physician and friend. The world was a better place with him in it. I will always remember being 9 months pregnant, going in to see him for an OB appointment and being greeted by Paul with a belly-bump.(High-five except with our bellies - Paul's idea!) And it was because of Paul that we met Diane, and our daughters who were born 2 months apart, grew up together. Paul/Dr Tudder will remain in our hearts, minds and souls forever. He was/is a true gift and blessing from God to us all...

Susan T

September 15, 2025

He always had a warm smile, lived and loved life. My favorite OB of all time.

Carol Snead

September 14, 2025

A very special man

Marcy Garchow

September 12, 2025

Deepest sympathies to the family of Dr Tudder . May God be with you...not only in your grief...also the joy and ripple effect of love and legacy he has left with everyone whom he shared paths with. I had the privilege of knowing and working closely with Dr. Tudder from '2007-2014. I moved from Michigan, and within a week I landed in his office and never left until I moved back home. Dr Tudder had a great impact within that portion of my life and I will always carry those memories close to my heart within his remembrance...as well as his entire staff ...patients... Many beautiful memories he has left for many of us. He loved greatly...performed God's work. He was genuine and cared deeply. Dr. Tudder, thank-you for the love you have shared and lives you have touched. May you forever be held in the glory of our heavenly father!

-Marcy Garchow

Natalie Conca

September 11, 2025

Dr. Tudder was the kindest, most genuine doctor I´ve ever known (& I´ve been to many & worked in hospitals). Skilled, confident & reassuring. My family is so very grateful to have met him.

Shawnita Marshall

September 11, 2025

Dr Tudder was not only an amazing doctor, he was a family friend. He was a generational doctor. He was my Mother´s OBGYN while she was pregnant with my sister, and helped Mom with her miscarriages. Of course he became the OBGYNs for all us siblings. His kindness and smile was constant. He made some of the most uncomfortable visits seem like just a chat with your favorite person. Because Dr. T was a HUGE Washington Redskins fan, we would talk about Redskins football more than anything medically at each visit. We scheduled my induction around a huge Divisional Game, to ensure I wouldn't be in labor during Gametime!!
Dr. Tudder became the STANDARD for which I compare all other doctors to; he set the bar really high. I started bringing brownies to his office years ago and now I continue to bring sweet treats to my favorite doctors, remembering my days with Dr. T!!
When we heard that Dr. T was retiring, the ladies at our Church, who were also patients, took a family generational photo to thank him for everything he has done for us. Delivering the photo to him and seeing him cry will be a core memory that will stay with me forever.

We truly love him and so deeply miss him. There will never be another Dr. Tudder.

"Is anybody home in here?"

Artie Zook

September 11, 2025

I will always think of you fondly as you were a great man, great doctor and great friend! Artie Zook

Monica

September 10, 2025

My heart is sad today, Dr. Tudder always put me at ease and helped me with my anxiety over being a first time mom. When my daughter was born with reflux/sleep apnea, he let me cry on his shoulder during at my post birth follow up. Another time I was having outpatient surgery and he was in the center and came over to hug me and tell me it was going to all be ok. His presence gave me calm and peace, I was lucky to have known him. I chuckled reading his obituary, the last time I saw Paul was at the 7-11 in Leesburg. I was getting my Coke Zero fix and he had a triple Reece´s Cup. God Rest His Soul. xoxo

Ann Sullivan

September 10, 2025

Dr Tudder was one of a kind wonderful! He delivered my youngest two daughters and was the kindest, most caring and compassionate man!

Kimberly Harshaw

September 10, 2025

Dr.Tudder was a true gem! Like no other. A passionate person and doctor with such a contagious spirit.

Regina (baby g) Lewis

September 10, 2025

It was an honor to be able to work alongside Dr. Tudder. He was just a wonderful person inside and out and he will truly be missed.

Eloise Williams

September 10, 2025

A kind, compassionate man.

Flinton Callahan II

September 10, 2025

My sincere condolences to all of the family. I enjoyed being a friend.
Flinton Callahan II

Ashley Schroeder

September 10, 2025

One of the most wonderful physicians I´ve ever worked with. Such a kind heart and a man who truly loved his job in taking care of everyone around him. He touched the lives of everyone who knew him and it´s such an amazing legacy to leave behind. Thankful our paths crossed on this side Dr. Tudder.

Julie Slack

September 10, 2025

Dr. Tudder was an incredible OB and human being. He supported us in our grief from losing babies and celebrated our precious babies he got to deliver safely to us. Our oldest is 11 and to this day my husband and I still say some of his one liners from some of our appointments. If you were his patient he was your biggest cheerleader. He spoke lovingly of his wife and children and was so proud of his family. He will be dearly missed but never forgotten.

Mohammed Elkousy

September 10, 2025

One of the best. May he rest in peace. He will be missed.

Rose Macielinski

September 10, 2025

So sorry to hear of Dr. Tudder´s passing. I knew him fondly as a patient and coworker. My prayers for him and his family.

Moustafa Hassan, MD

September 10, 2025

Paul was not only an exceptional doctor but also a wonderful friend. I have never seen him upset or in a bad mood, despite the pressures of life. Our OB/GYN community will always remember Paul, especially his patients. May God bless his soul and grant him rest in peace.

Moustafa Hassan, MD.

Marilyn Bowers

September 10, 2025

What a loving man. My 2 daughters also experienced that love. What a blessing to our community.

Marcy E

September 10, 2025

Undoubtedly the kindest person and doctor of all time- without him I would have never had the confidence to even dream to have my sweet children I have today. He is the reason I felt comfortable enough to be in good hands and that it was possible to have kids. Words can´t express our gratitude and we only hope to impart a fraction of the good will and kindness he always provided the world!!

Carolyn Reid

September 10, 2025

On behalf of the Thelma Smith and Reid family, I send our most sincere condolences to the Tudder family and all who were lucky enough to know him. How we all love this man! We have so many wonderful stories with him going back to late 1983. First of all, he loved my Mom, Thelma Smith (she passed in October 2022) so much that she was first his patient and then he employed her in his home and Leesburg office for many years, and then he allowed my Mom to bring on a few of my sisters, Helen, Charlotte, Dorothy into his employment as well. He delivered two precious members of our family, my daughter Christine Reid and my niece Tameka Fitts and these beautiful girls were on his wall of baby photos in his office. He was in their lives until they were young adults and they loved him too and chose him as their GYN. It was a joy to see how much pleasure he took in bringing new life to the world. He was the family OB/GYN to me, my sisters , my nieces because we trusted him without question-he was our family doctor. What an exceptional person he was and he made us feel so special, like extended family. There is so much I want to say but my heart is too full of love for him right now. This is so hard because knowing this beautiful soul we lovingly called Dr. Tudder was here on Earth and blessed us with comfort, compassion, his wit, and love beyond measure. We take comfort knowing another Angel named Paul Tudder has his wings. Rest in peace Dr. Tudder, thank you for the great memories...you are loved and will be missed so much. Carolyn Reid

Sandra Rother RNC-NICU

September 10, 2025

Not only a wonderful physician, but also a caring and compassionate man. I worked in the NICU at Reston Hospital for 31 yrs, and attended his deliveries for a premature birth or an emergency delivery. He brought professionalism and calm into emergency situations. If one of the babies he delivered was admitted, he would immediately check on the baby before seeing the Mother, so that he could give her an update on her precious Angel! A very genuine gentleman. He was given this gift from God and touched so many, many lives. Fun and always a jokester, he made those around him feel special. What a great calming voice too! God Bless Dr. Tudder. May his family feel peace knowing he is in God´s loving arms!

Darryl DeBow

September 10, 2025

I first met Dr Tudder when I brought my pregnant wife to his office for our first child. I loved him from the start by the way he made my wife feel. He made the exam go quickly as he talked and joked with her and then it was over before she even had time to be nervous. He had a bedside manner like no other and just calmed you down and made you feel like everything was going to be fine.
I was a Deputy Sheriff in Loudoun County and used to stop the doc out driving around in his Mercedes with his tag Baby at 2 or 3 in the morning. He would tell me he was waiting for another birth and said he just wanted to get out of the hospital for a couple minutes. We would just set on the side on the road and joke and laugh.
Doc Tudder delivered all three of my children and he never forgot my name when I saw him out years later.
Dr Tudder was not only an amazing doctor but more over an amazing human being that will be missed by many. RIP my friend.

The Gannons

September 10, 2025

Such an amazing individual. Thanksgiving 1993. Paul, "How would you like to hold a baby by 1p kickoff?" Me. First time Dad. Her. First time Mom. Just set the tone. Such a strong, loving, caring presence. Thank you Doc for my family. Simple as that. 2 kids later.

Molly Roudabush

September 10, 2025

I have been an OB nurse at Reston since 2004 and Dr. Tudder is one of the most kind hearted and compassionate doctors I´ve ever worked with. He was always up for a chat at the nurses station, was never rushed, always asked how you were doing and took amazing care of his patients. A lot of us have the same memory of him when he would walk into a patients room and knock on their door and say (cheerfully) "anybody home in here???" I´ll never forget Dr.Tudder and his kind heart.

Cathy hammers

September 10, 2025

So sorry for your loss. It was a pleasure caring for dr. Paul.

Deanna

September 10, 2025

I was one of his first patients as he started his business in Leesburg and he delivered both of my Sons. He always made me feel like a celebrity when I went for my visits. He would tell staff that I was one of his first patients. He will truly be missed by many families. RIP.

Laurie Robison

September 10, 2025

Deepest sympathy to Dr Tudder´s family. He was an extraordinary man as well as an excellent physician. I´ve known Dr Tudder for 40 yrs. He delivered 2 of my sons. My fondest memory is when I had my son he came into my room, grabbed my son out of my arms, cuddled him and asked me if I wanted to order a pizza. He was definitely one of a kind. Rest in peace Dr Tudder, you will surely be missed!!!!!

Megan White

September 10, 2025

I was lucky enough to not only work with Dr Tudder, but to also have him deliver both of my girls. I loved working alongside him on L&D, he treated everyone with such kindness and compassion! One of my most favorite memories is how he would always enter a patient´s room saying, "anybody home in here???" Thank you. Dr. T for caring for all of us so wonderfully. You will be missed

Tracey Byrne

September 10, 2025

Dr Tudder was one of a kind. In Oct it will have been 38 yrs that he showed up at 11pm to Fairfax hospital to visit me. He had transferred me early that day because my daughter was a premiee. He had already been in to visit her and waited silently until I woke up. He did not have to make that drive after a full days work and before another in a few short hours. As a young mom who was scared to death, it meant everything to me. My daughter wasnt given much of a chance at survival and he prayed with me. She has since given me 3 beautiful grandchildren. Prayers for the family, I hope knowing how much he has positivley impacted those he encountered gives you peace. RIP Dr. Tudder.

Susan E Anderson

September 10, 2025

I worked with Dr. Tudder in the Post Anesthesia Care Unit at Reston Hospital for over 10 years. He was the kindest, caring Physician I have ever worked with in my career. Always smiling and very appreciative of the nursing staff. He loved all his patients, and brought two of my grandchildren into this world. My prayers go out to his family. He will be missed. Sue Anderson

CARLOS PIZANO RAMIREZ

September 10, 2025

Dear Paul, you were not only my brother in law, and Godfather, once you were also my very best friend, and the inspiration to be an MD as yourself, and also a Chief Resident. I hope someday in heaven play again with you with our favorite dog toy figures "Manchitas" and General Winfield Scott.
Love

Carlos

Paula Reid

September 9, 2025

Dr Tudder was a wonderful person and will be missed terribly love and hugs to his family during this difficult time

Carolyn Niess

September 9, 2025

I am so very sorry to hear of Dr Tudders passing . He was the kindest most caring doctor I have ever had . RIP Dr TudderYou were an Earth Angel and I know you are now a Heavenly one as well.

Sharon Payne

September 9, 2025

"Knock Knock is anybody Home" Now God has called you Home...How many times did I hear those comforting words...? Paul you were not just my Dr. you were my friend..All I can say is Job Well Done..Rest In Peace.. I´m grateful for my memories of you and I will definitely cherish them..So many years I was lucky to have you in my life.

John DeGrace

September 9, 2025

Paul was a kind, gentle, caring soul. He will be missed by many.

Elysa Leonard

September 9, 2025

I have tremendous memories of Dr. Tudder. I am so sad, but I know that after having a mother with dementia, he is in a better place now. He was a kind and excellent doctor and friend. He managed a difficult pregnancy, my last, and I just retold this story tonight. He told me when my baby would be delivered, after he got back from a vacation, and now I realize it was his birthday week... very close to my own. I said no... I will have all of my kids in my 30s, and I did. I had my son on August 17, and my 40th birthday was on the 21st. I remember our 6-week visit where he met Robert and I told him... see I told you so. When I got pregnant with Robert after three girls, he told me... this little boy really wanted to be part of your family, and we are so, so blessed to have him. I loved him and send peace to your entire family. So very sorry to hear this news! When I went to my visits, I looked forward to seeing him. Not many people will tell you they look forward to visiting their OBGYN. I did every time. What a wonderful man. I set up for him to come and watch me dive with his daughter and wife, Diane, at the National Aquarium in Baltimore. It was such a good day. I will never forget that. Much love to your entire family!

Cynthia Venesky

September 9, 2025

He was a gentle giant & so protective of us in memory care. Always telling me it will be ok everything will be ok! You will be missed so much Senior Doc!!

Jennifer

September 9, 2025

Dr. Tudder took me on as a patient when I was already 5 months along. I had to switch doctors because my initial doctor changed delivery hospitals all the way to Arlington Hospital and I was worried I wouldn´t be able to get there in time to have my baby. A neighbor recommended Dr. Tudder, and while I was initially nervous about everything, after meeting him one time; I knew I was exactly where I was supposed to be. Dr. Tudder was kind, funny and caring and I´m thankful that he was my doctor when I needed someone of his caliber, both personally and professionally the most. I will always remember him just how he looks in this picture and I will be thinking of his family in the days, weeks and months to come.

Larry Belote

September 9, 2025

Paul and I were training at Fairfax Hospital at the same time. He helped me with my deliveries and even my first circumcision. He asked me where I thought he might enjoy practicing and I said Leesburg and quickly notified my mother and her friends. He delivered my grandchildren and we were confidants over many life issues. He was well above his cohorts during training. His bedside manner and skills were legendary. God bless you with peace, love and restoration

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