Effie Ruth Irby

Effie Ruth Irby obituary, Elizabeth City, NC

Effie Ruth Irby

Effie Irby Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Twiford Funeral Homes - Elizabeth City on Jul. 15, 2025.

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Effie Ruth Pettiet Irby, age 96, died at her home on Sunday, July 13, 2025, surrounded by family. Born in Meridian, TX, on March 14, 1929, to the late Eddie Lee Pettiet and Myrtie Mae Byrum Pettiet, she was the widow of Ross Dean Irby. She worked as an executive secretary for the government until her retirement. She loved her family above all things in life.
She is survived by two daughters, Peg of Elizabeth City, NC and Patty (Robert) of VA; four grandchildren, Logan, Heather, Lauren, and Whitley; and one great-grandchild, Riley. In addition to her parents and husband, she was predeceased by a son, Larry; a sister, Charlsey; and a brother, Jimmy.
No services are planned at this time.
Twiford Funeral Homes, 405 E. Church Street, Elizabeth City, NC, is assisting the Irby Family. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.
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