Elfriede Colodny

Elfriede Colodny obituary, Rye, NY

Elfriede Colodny

Elfriede Colodny Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Graham Funeral Home - Rye on Dec. 12, 2025.
Rye lost one of it's oldest citizens, Elfriede Colodny, on Dec 12, 2025, at the
age of 95.
Elfriede was born in 1930 in Weinheim, Germany. It was there that she met
her future husband, Alan P Colodny. They were married in 1960 and settled in
Rye, New York. She has lived at the same residence for over 60 years, during
which time she transformed the large lot surrounding her home into a parklike
sanctuary. Every tree, bush, and flower was planted and lovingly tended by her
through the decades. The many hours she spent working in her rock garden,
caring for the trees, and walking barefoot through the grass in the early
morning hours brought her great peace and pleasure.
In addition to her talent as a gardener, she was skilled at knitting and
crocheting. Her scarves, hats, and sweaters will keep her friends and family
warm for years to come.
She had precious memories of her life in Germany and returned for regular
visits, well into her late 70's. For 18 years she taught German at the Berlitz
language center to traveling business people, a labor of love.
She was committed to fitness and wellness throughout her life. She was a
longtime member of Coveleigh Club in Rye, where she swam and played
paddle tennis with a close knit group of friends. She took daily walks at
Playland Park well into her 90s. And she took up yoga in her 60s and
maintained a regular practice and spiritual discipline. She was a lover of
classical music and opera, and had a beautiful singing voice.
She was an accomplished cook and baker. Her black forest cake was
legendary. Everything she ate was always prepared with the freshest
ingredients. She was a well-known regular at the Down to Earth Rye Farmer's
market.
Elfriede was feisty to the end and always spoke her mind.
The family thanks the staff at Westchester Hospice and Osborn Home Care for
the excellent care and attention she received at the end of her life. She is
survived by her nieces, Joanne Langford and Janet Siegel.
Final arrangements are being handled through the Graham Funeral Home in
Rye, NY. A celebration of her life will be held in the new year.
Donations in her name to the Edith G. Read Natural Park and Wildlife
Sanctuary would be appreciated in lieu of flowers.

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