Ellsworth Simmonds

Ellsworth Simmonds obituary, New Haven, CT

Ellsworth Simmonds

Ellsworth Simmonds Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by McClam Funeral Home - New Haven on Oct. 11, 2024.

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Ellsworth (Elzy) Simmonds, 95, of Hamden, CT, entered into eternal rest on October 4, 2024
after a long and full life. He was born on January 28, 1929 in Manhattan, NY to the late Dorcas
(Forbes) Simmonds and John Joseph Simmonds who relocated their family from the Caribbean
island of Nevis, settling in the Manhattan. Elzy was the sixth of Dorcas and John's nine children. As
a young boy, he was known for his mischievous grin and insatiable curiosity, always getting into
playful trouble with his siblings and cousins. From sneaking off to explore new places to
inventing elaborate games, his spirited nature and love for adventure were the foundation of a
lifetime filled with lively stories and cherished memories.
During World War II, Elzy joined the Army. While deployed in the Philippines, Elzy and his
comrades were notified of the end of the War. He was honorably discharged in 1948 and upon
returning home, the 19-year-old Ellsworth asked for his longtime girlfriend, Edna Joshua's, hand
in marriage. Elzy and the late Edna brought into the world three children, Thomas (Joanne)
Simmonds, Carl Simmonds, and the late Cynthia (Charles) Forman of whom Elzy was always
very proud. Elzy spent a few years in New York before moving to Connecticut to begin his
post-service career.
Ellsworth was a dedicated public servant and community leader whose career spanned over six
decades. He became a beloved figure in New Haven, serving as Alderman for the 40th Ward
where he advocated tirelessly for his constituents. Elzy's dedication to his community extended
beyond politics; he was a proud construction worker and served as President of the Local Union
for the Laborer's International Union of North America, where he fought for fair wages and
conditions for his colleagues. He also served as Building Superintendent for what was formerly
known as the King George Apartments, ensuring residents were well cared for. Elzy's generosity
and kindness extended beyond his professional life. One of his proudest accomplishments
involved organizing a memorable trip for a group of neighborhood kids to the Bronx Zoo. Later
in life, Elzy continued to contribute to the city he loved, working as a building attendant and
concierge at 59 Elm Street into his mid-80s, leaving a lasting impression on everyone he met
with his warmth and compassion.
Elzy was a man of diverse interests and simple joys that brought a smile to everyone who knew
him. He developed a love for the violin as a child and continued to play throughout his
adulthood, maintaining his appreciation for music over the years. A true lover of good food, Elzy
had a particular fondness for crab legs, which he enjoyed with friends and family whenever the
occasion allowed, and he never turned down a hearty stack of pancakes for breakfast. He also
had a penchant for testing his luck with lotto tickets, always believing his next scratch-off would
be the big winner. Elzy's hobbies were a testament to his zest for life and ability to find joy in the
small moments. His calm and social nature, quick wit, and generosity were evident in the way he
formed deep connections with everyone he met, whether through his professional roles or
personal interactions. And, of course, no one could forget his signature phrase, "Can you dig
it?"-a testament to his upbeat spirit and unique charm. He will be sorely missed.
He was predeceased by his beloved second wife, Eleanor V. Simmonds, with whom he shared
nearly four decades of cherished memories. Their bond was a cornerstone of his life, and he
treasured the time they spent together. Later in life, Elzy found companionship and love again
with his dear wife, Ruth Toms Blount, who stood by his side until his final days. Elzy and Ruth
shared 14 years of marriage, finding laughter and joy in one another's presence.
To cherish his memory and honor his legacy, Ellsworth leaves behind his wife, Ruth Toms
Blount of Hamden, CT, as well as a large, loving family that includes his sons, Carl Simmonds
and Thomas (Joanne) Simmonds of NY, son-in-law Charles Forman, and bonus children Scott
(Rachel) Lewis and Marlo Lewis of CT. He is also survived by sisters-in-law Lonnie T. Snyder
of East Haven, CT and Joann W. Blake (Richard) of Potomac, MD; a special cousin, Carolyn
Leath-Stokes of Greensboro, NC; and a godchild, Ashley Griffin of Bethany, CT. Elzy was
blessed with 8 grandchildren, 12 great-grandchildren, one great-great-grandchild, and a host of
relatives and friends. In addition to his parents, Elzy was preceded in death by each of his
siblings: Milton Simmonds, Pearline Simmonds Hanley, Ezekiel Simmonds, Josephine
Simmonds Miller, Anita (George) Simmonds Henry, Joshua Simmonds, Dorothy Simmonds
Geter, and Delphina Simmonds; his daughter, Cynthia Forman; his first wife and mother of his
sons, Edna Joshua Simmonds; his second wife, Eleanor Valeriano Simmonds; a sister-in-law,
Connie Alexander; and a daughter-in-law, Deloris Simmonds.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to VA
Connecticut Healthcare System in memory of Ellsworth Simmonds, 950 Campbell Avenue, West
Haven, CT 06516.

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