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Emily Rainone Pasqua

1928 - 2026

Emily Rainone Pasqua obituary, 1928-2026, New Canaan, CT

BORN

1928

DIED

2026

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Hoyt Funeral Home & Cremation Service - New Canaan

199 Main Street

New Canaan, Connecticut

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Mar. 12, 2026

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

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Emily Pasqua Obituary

Emily Rainone Pasqua
Emily R. Pasqua, 97, a longtime resident of New Canaan, CT, walked peacefully into the loving arms of Jesus on February 27, 2026. Her loving son, Bruce, was by her side at the time of her passing. Emily was born September 10, 1928, at home, on Locust Avenue in New Canaan, CT, the town she loved, to the late Costanzo Rainone and Maria DiChiaro Rainone. Growing up in New Canaan, Emily participated in many town events, including the Knights of Columbus Dance Review, Knights of Columbus Drama Club, and singing in the St. Aloysius choir. Emily's working career included positions with G.C. Murphy Department Store in New Canaan, the New Canaan Board of Education Business Office, and as a local realtor with All-Star Realty in Stamford, CT. Throughout her career, Emily always showed compassion and took great joy in helping others. Emily fell in love with, and married, Edward Sessa on July 9, 1955. On July 4, 1958, they welcomed their son, Bruce. Emily was always ready to cook or bake when needed for any event, whether it be for family or friends. You never left her home without something to eat. Emily loved parties and dancing, and she was never too tired to enjoy the festivities. One of Emily's favorite holidays was Christmas Eve, which included preparing an abundance of seafood in accordance with the Italian tradition, and no one would ever leave her home without having a piece of her famous New York cheesecake. Another of her cherished holidays was Fourth of July, where Emily would prepare her signature barbeque with an Italian flare. Emily's most memorable trip was when she visited Italy with her son in 1990. Emily enjoyed donating her time to many community and charitable organizations, including Cub Scouts, Stamford Teachers Federal Credit Union Board of Directors, Catholic Charities of Stamford, League of Women Voters, Election Poll Volunteer (Stamford, New Canaan), Stamford Babe Ruth League Baseball World Series Tournament (1999, 2002), Stamford Old-Timers Athletic Association Golf Tournament and Celebrity Sports Dinner, Catholic Daughters of America, and Knights of Columbus Columbiettes Stamford. Emily was preceded in death by first husband, Edward Sessa (d. 1/19/1973), second husband, Fred Pasqua (d. 11/16/2021), sister Mary Iarussi, and four brothers (Louis, Chris, Peter, and Anthony Rainone). Emily is survived by her son, Bruce P. Sessa, sisters Connie Razzaia and Carmella Scarpetti. Bruce would like to express his deepest gratitude to the doctors and staff at Stamford Hospital and the Tully Center for all of the loving care they provided to Emily. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or DAV: Disabled American Veterans. The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Hoyt Funeral Home, 199 Main Street, New Canaan CT 06840. For online condolences, please visit www.hoytfuneralhome.com

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Published by Stamford Advocate from Mar. 9 to Mar. 12, 2026.

Memorial Events
for Emily Pasqua

Mar

12

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

HoytFuneral Home

199 Main St, New Canaan, CT 06840

Mar

13

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

St Aloysius Church

21 Cherry Street, New Canaan, CT 06840

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199 Main Street, New Canaan, CT 06840

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3 Entries

Franchina Donna

Earlier today

So sorry to read about Emily´s passing. She was a great lady.
May she rest in peace.

Debbie Taranto McGrath

Yesterday

Bruce and family,
Bruce so very sorry for your loss.
Your Mom was a special lady with a bright smile and always a kind word. A life well lived.
You both held a special
Place in my late Uncle Dan´s life. He thought the world of you both. What a reunion must be taking place in Heaven!
Cherish the memories as I am
Sure you provided her with an abundance of happiness.
My Deepest Sympathy
Debbie Taranto McGrath

Mark C. Rearick

Yesterday

I´m so sad to see this notice. I got to know Emily when she worked in the Financial Office (actually she WAS the office) at the New Canaan Board of Education. All our interactions were productive as well as a lot of fun, with her acerbic wit keeping me in my place. My deepest condolences to Bruce and her family.

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