Ethan Stadler

Ethan Stadler obituary, Aurora, CO

Ethan Stadler

Ethan Stadler Obituary

If you didn't have the honor of knowing Ethan personally, we hope this glimpse into his life will convey just how remarkable he was.  Finding words to capture the unique place Ethan occupied in all our hearts is a challenge.  His kind and gentle soul had a profound impact on everyone he crossed paths with.  His infectious smile and warm spirit had the remarkable ability to bring light even to the darkest of days.  Ethan possessed an extraordinary talent for making anyone feel at ease in his presence; he radiated calmness, composure, and a gentle demeanor that made it incredibly easy for people to be around him, leaving behind a lasting feeling of comfort and happiness.

Ethan Isaac Stadler, aged 20, tragically passed away on September 16, 2023, at Medical Center of Aurora as a result of injuries sustained in a motorcycle accident.  Born on November 14, 2002 in Houston, Missouri to loving parents Tom Stadler and Tammy Miller, he brought immeasurable joy and love into the lives of those fortunate enough to know him.  Ethan's educational journey led him through Cherry Drive Elementary School and Shadow Ridge Middle School in Thornton, CO before he attended Mountain Range High School in Westminster, CO. In 2021, he proudly graduated from Vista Peak Preparatory in Aurora, CO.

Anyone who had the pleasure of knowing Ethan undoubtedly recognized his profound affection for automobiles and motorcycles. This passion led him on a remarkable journey into entrepreneurship, marked by the establishment of 'EZ Auto Restyling.'  Ethan specialized in the art of window tinting and clear bra application and more recently he ventured into the realm of vinyl wrapping.  Ethan was known for demonstrating exceptional precision, unwavering consistency, and a personal touch that left a lasting impression on his clients.  His exceptional skill set and commitment to delivering top-notch craftsmanship served as the cornerstone of his thriving business.  Ethan harbored ambitious dreams of expansion, with a plan to embark on his journey of owning his very own shop. 

Ethan held a deep appreciation for life's moments, particularly when spent in the company of his cherished family and friends.  Yet, his truest passion emerged within the confines of his garage, where he devoted countless hours to the meticulous work of car and motorcycle maintenance and enhancement.  It was in this creative space that he not only honed his automotive skills, but also formed enduring bonds with fellow car and motorcycle enthusiasts through local gatherings and cruises.  Beyond his mechanical pursuits, you might find Ethan binge-watching 'The Office,' out shooting firearms, gathering around a crackling bonfire sharing stories with friends or playing with his beloved canine companion, Daisy.

Ethan was preceded in death by his grandfather, Dave Miller and grandmother Diane Gates.  He leaves behind a loving family who cherished him, including his mother Tammy Gates, residing at home, his stepfather Kevin Gates of Fort Collins, CO, and his father Tom Stadler alongside his partner Stephanie Van Jacobs, from Lakewood, CO.  Ethan is also survived by his brother Bradley Stadler and sister Kynlee Gates, both residing at home. His grandparents include Shelia Miller of Houston, MO, Clint and Erin Stadler of  Milliken, CO, Janice Simon of Springfield, MO, Donald Ditmars of Houston, MO and Kevin and Linda Gates of Fort Collins, CO.  Ethan was a beloved nephew to Dana Harshman of Sullivan, IL, Brian and Jennifer Jordan of Solo, MO, Greg Miller of Bremerton, WA, Julie Ditmars of Klamath Falls, OR, Stacie Stadler of Firestone, CO, Trevin Stadler of Greeley, CO and Sami Jo Ditmars of Rogersville, MO.  

We have been deeply moved by the overwhelming response of friends, family and acquaintances, ranging from those who had a brief encounter with Ethan to those who knew him for years, as they have come forward to share their heartfelt stories of how Ethan made a profound impact on their lives.  Ethan's untimely departure will leave an enduring mark, forever altering the course of our lives.  He will be deeply missed by friends, family, and all who were fortunate enough to know him.  While we mourn his loss profoundly, we find solace in knowing that Ethan has found peace, and his memory will forever reside within our hearts.


We invite you to celebrate the wonderful life of Ethan and pay tribute to his lasting legacy at Horan & McConaty Funeral Home in Aurora, CO on September 25, 2023.  Visitation will begin at 9:30 am, followed by the service at 11:00 am. 

"If tears could build a bridge and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to Heaven and bring you home again."  Author Unknown

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