EVA PASSWEG BARD

EVA PASSWEG BARD obituary, RICHMOND, VA

EVA PASSWEG BARD

EVA BARD Obituary

Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Mar. 24, 2013.
BARD, Eva Passweg. Feisty, smart, funny and loyal, Eva Bard died Sunday, March 17, 2013 at Retreat Hospital in Richmond. She leaves to mourn her passing, her husband, Tom; her daughter, Julia and her boyfriend, Ed Flanagan; her son, Philip; and the light of her life, her granddaughter, Sasha. She is survived by her two sisters, Ruth and her husband, Roger Dunkle, of Edison, N.J., and Judith Podell of Hebron, Conn.; as well as cousins, nephews, nieces, friends and students who will miss her greatly. Born in Strasbourg, Alsace-Lorraine in 1934, Eva immigrated to the U.S. with her parents and sister, Ruth, in 1940. Raised in Manhattan (she was a West Side girl), Eva attended Grinnell College in Iowa, where she majored in journalism and wrote a column for the college newspaper. While home on a summer vacation in 1953, she contracted polio. Her case was severe, with paralysis of her right side; the doctors held out little hope for her recovery. Rather than send her to a hospital, her mother chose to nurse her at home and she eventually made a full recovery, returning to college and the sport she loved, tennis. She retained her fluency in French her whole life, along with a love of good food and excellent wine. In 1960 Eva and Tom started their married life in Pennsylvania, later moving to Blackstone, Va. and finally to Richmond, where Eva worked as a tennis coach and pro, first for Jefferson Lakeside Country Club, then Raintree Swim & Racquet Club and finally at Virginia Commonwealth University. Eva trained and mentored players from around the world for VCU's women's tennis team for many years, until she retired. She herself was an outstanding athlete, before and after the bout with polio, excelling at tennis, ping pong and golf. Experiencing the war as a child, leaving her home at age 6, starting a new life as a refugee, those experiences shaped her and made her tough, someone who suffered fools poorly-if at all. But to those she loved, and for causes she believed in, she was a generous, fierce and loyal advocate. Sharp-tongued and intellectually nimble, in a fight, you'd want Eva on your side. She embraced the world, and it will be duller without her. Memorial service information to follow.

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Lesley Jones Williams

June 5, 2013

Eva was an incredible mentor. She believed in me when I was young at Raintree. She pushed me and sometimes made me angry but she always made me better. She gave me a spot on the team at VCU and her encouragement never stopped. She was fierce but enormously kind. She will be missed by all that knew her. Peace be with her family.

May 15, 2013

We were friends at Grinnell College where I greatly admired Eva's independence, intelligence, and sense of fun. Only occasional cards or email in recent years but I feel the loss--can't quite believe it. Love from Ozzie

Anne Duffy

April 29, 2013

I knew Eva just for a short time and in a casual manner. She lived across the street from my son in Midlothian. She always had a smile and kind word to say, and reached out as good neighbors do. I always felt good, knowing she was there. It was a privilege to known her even for a short time.

Debbie Culley

April 28, 2013

As the neighbor across the street for 10 years, I knew Eva as the woman who came to my rescue on many occasions. I felt solidly secure knowing she and Tom were so close by. I miss her kindness and am inspired by her ability to know and care for someone without in any way intruding. My heart is with her family now.

David M. Carter

April 17, 2013

Eva, you and I had many tennis conversations at Raintree and VCU, as you relentlessly encouraged me to be a better person and tennis player.I will always miss your laughter and determination.

Jon Ramthun

April 9, 2013

I'll never forget her easy demeanor when you talked to her, or her radiant smile she would flash...am glad to have had the privelege of knowing her, she will be sorely missed.

Laura Thoma

April 3, 2013

My love and deepest sympathies for Eva's family. She and Mom (Catherine Thoma) were great friends. I will always remember Eva as a powerful force with an amazing spirit and a terrific laugh. She will greatly missed.

Jan Wood

April 1, 2013

I was so sorry to hear of Eva's death. She was so unique - smart and funny. Eva will be missed at the Midlothian YMCA.

Ron Atkinson

March 28, 2013

I first met Eva in 1975 and she gave me my first teaching job at a club.She was feisty and a great friend for over 35 years. The tennis community lost a great friend.

Margie Elsberg

March 26, 2013

I'm one of the many campers and counselors who knew and admired Eva at Camp Wenonah in Naples, Maine. What an athlete; what a great backhand! And what a gal. We'll all miss Eva.

Fred Bruner

March 26, 2013

The Richmond tennis community was blessed to have Eva pass along her passion for the game to several generations of players. She will be remembered and missed.

Patricia Angevine

March 26, 2013

Eva was a true friend and a formidable spirit. I shall miss her greatly

Susan Heintschel

March 25, 2013

She was a treasure...truly a spirited lady that energized everyone she came in contact with...Eva, your smile and wit will be missed...your legacy will live on. With fondest memories, Susan

Rebecca Murray

March 25, 2013

Eva was a loyal swimmer, a champion ping pong player, a tough cookie, a vocal member of our community, and an all around good lady. She will be missed.

Lillian Stevens

March 24, 2013

I'm always a little surprised to see in black and white that Eva was 78 years old...because she is and will forever be (in my mind's eye) forty and formidable - and wielding a tennis racket. Forever fit, forever feisty and forever like family... to me. My heart and prayers go out to the Bards, especially to Julia and Sasha.

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