Fannie Gaiter

Fannie Gaiter

Fannie Gaiter Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Abbey Cremation Service - Rocky Hill on Sep. 29, 2025.
Fannie Gaiter, born on March 22, 1951, passed away peacefully on September 25, 2025, at the age of 74.Fannie was a beloved mother, sister, aunt, and friend. She was predeceased by her former husband, Napoleon Jarvis; her mother, Eliza Gaiter; and her two brothers, Mack and Leslie Gaiter. She leaves to cherish her memory three devoted children: Shannon, Christopher, and Michael Jarvis. She is also survived by her loving siblings-Meredith Brown and her husband William Brown of Windsor, Connecticut; Dorothy Gaiter of Birmingham, Alabama; and Quintin Gaiter of Birmingham, Alabama. In addition, Fannie leaves behind a host of nieces, nephews, extended family members, and friends who will deeply miss her warmth, strength, and kindness.

Fannie's life was marked by quiet resilience and a deep love for her family. She will be remembered for her gentle spirit, generous heart, and unwavering dedication to those she loved.A memorial service will be announced at a later time. Burial will be held at the convenience of the family.

The family would also like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to the compassionate and dedicated staff at Saint Mary's Home in West Hartford, Connecticut. Their care, kindness, and unwavering support provided comfort and peace during Fannie's time with them. We are deeply thankful for the love and attention they gave, making a difficult time a little easier for our family.

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November 1, 2025

Shannon Jarvis posted to the memorial.

October 17, 2025

La Vonda Jones Primus (Gant-Jones-Primus Family) posted to the memorial.

October 11, 2025

Shannon Jarvis posted to the memorial.

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Shannon Jarvis

November 1, 2025

Hello mom,i love and miss you so much,the pain of you not being here is so hurtful. but Me,Michael and Christopher are trying are best to keep our heads up and keep moving and always have you in our minds and hearts,you are best mom ever hands down. We all love you dearly.

La Vonda Jones Primus (Gant-Jones-Primus Family)

October 17, 2025

Gaiter family, you have our deepest sympathy in the loss of your beloved, Fannie. You all are in our prayers. We love you. Your Birmingham, Alabama - Southside Community - family and friends.

Shannon Jarvis

October 11, 2025

Hello Mommy,it's me Shannon,i am missng you like crazy,love you so much and wish you were alive,well,and here. i have pictures of you for me,Michael and Chris to cherish forever. It hits different,you're best Mom ever,we love you,

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