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Frank “Buddy” Weber, Jr. passed away peacefully at his home in Stanfordville, NY surrounded by his family late on May 3, 2025, the anniversary of his beloved mother’s 100th birthday.
Buddy was born in Yonkers, NY, grew up in The Bronx and Stanfordville, NY, and graduated from Cardinal Farley Military Academy before attending college at Siena and joining the Army National Guard. Although he worked in several professions and continued his education throughout his life, he most cherished his time in the New York State Police, as well as the time following in his father’s footsteps as a town justice.
Buddy is best remembered by the things he loved the most. He was a great storyteller, often regaling listeners with stories about his childhood on the farm with his brother and sisters, riding his horse, Dynamite, marrying the love of his life, Eileen, and raising his daughters. He was an avid golfer and cyclist, he loved to travel, and he was especially delighted at the births of his grandchildren. He was dedicated to his Catholic faith, attended daily Mass, taught Sunday school, and volunteered to help the sick in Lourdes. We will miss his enthusiastic, humorous, and indefatigable spirit.
Buddy is survived by his wife, Eileen, his daughters, Katherine and Monica, his son-in-law, Matthew, and his grandchildren, Caleb and Annie. He is also survived by his brother, Tom, sister-in-law, Patty, nieces Meghan, Lauren, and Kaelyn, and their families, his sister, Susan, her husband, Jim, their children Michael, Kasey, and Molly, and their families. He is survived by many good friends, neighbors, and colleagues. He is predeceased by his father, Frank Sr., his mother Marilyn, and his sister, Janet.
A time for sharing memories and offering condolences will be held on Friday, May 9th, from 4:00 to 8:00pm at Peck & Peck Funeral Homes, 7749 S. Main Street, Pine Plains, New York. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, May 10th, at 11:00am from the Church of St. Joseph's, 15 North Avenue, Millbrook, New York. Rev. Bancroft & Rev. MacDonald will officiate. Interment will follow at St. Mary's Cemetery in Bangall. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations maybe made to Town of Stanford Recreation Department, PO Box 436, Stanfordville, NY 12581 or to Signal 30 NYS Troopers Benefit Fund, Inc., 20 Century Hill Dr. S., Suite 3 Latham, NY 12110.
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7749 S Main Street P.O. Box 15, Pine Plains, NY 12567
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