Gail Ann Dray

Gail Ann Dray obituary, Fort Lee, NJ

Gail Ann Dray

Gail Dray Obituary

Visit the Frank Patti Funeral Directors website to view the full obituary.

Gail Ann Dray, born May 10, 1953, in Riverdale in the Bronx, New York, passed away surrounded by the love of her family. A lifelong Riverdale resident, Gail was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and mother-in-law whose warmth and kindness touched many.

She was the beloved wife of William Dray, loving mother to her son Jamie and daughter-in-law Jessica, and proud grandmother to Olivia. She is survived by her brother Bo Boland. Gail was predeceased by her parents, Richard and Margaret Boland, and her sister Joyce.

Gail dedicated much of her professional life to Manhattan College and Iona College. She earned her master’s degree in counseling from Manhattan College and became a trusted source of guidance and comfort to countless college students struggling with anxiety and depression. Her compassion and steady presence left a lasting impact on many young people at pivotal moments in their lives.

Known for her sense of humor and gentle, caring nature, Gail had a special gift for making others feel at ease. She had a deep love for her family and treasured time spent together, especially swimming and vacationing at the Jersey Shore and in Clearwater, Florida.

A lifelong member of St. Margaret’s Church and school community, Gail was a familiar and friendly presence in Riverdale. Many neighbors remember her smiling hello during her daily walks through Fieldston and the surrounding neighborhood.

Gail will be remembered for her kindness, her faith, and the quiet way she cared for others. She leaves behind a family and community who will miss her dearly.

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Frank Patti Funeral Directors

327 Main Street, Fort Lee, NJ 07024

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