Gary passed away in Scottsdale, Arizona on April 19, 2025. He grew up in St. Louis, Missouri and was preceded in death by his parents, Harry and Libbia Lite. Gary is survived by his brother, Myron (Monett) Lite, his sister Leslie (Lamar) Ochs, his niece Mallory Lite, and his nephews, Hayden Lite and Tyler Ochs.
Gary graduated from the University of Texas, and enjoyed many hobbies. His two greatest passions were ballroom dancing and scuba diving. He taught scuba diving for many years in Hawaii.
We will be honoring Gary's final wishes, by spreading his ashes in the Pacific Ocean.
Donations in Gary's memory may be made to the exceptional group home where he lived.
Diamond Quality-ALCH
6177 E. Blanche Dr.
Scottsdale, AZ 85254
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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