Gary Emanuel Marks

Gary Emanuel Marks obituary, Spokane, WA

Gary Emanuel Marks

Gary Marks Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 14, 2025.
Gary Marks was surrounded by his wife (Lisa), his children (Cambrie and Trevor), and his daughter-in-law (Lise) when he left us too soon on April 19, 2025. He knew his family was with him and how deeply loved he was by each.

Born on September 23, 1951 to Emanuel George "Sonny" Marks and Elizabeth (Fruin) Marks, Gary was a lifelong resident of Spokane. He was a graduate of Lewis and Clark High School and Washington State University, achieving his B.A. in Business Administration. He was passionate about all things Wazzu and remained a loyal supporter of Cougar academics and athletics, making countless trips to Pullman to cheer them on. He served as the President and Treasurer of the WSU chapter of the Beta Theta Pi Fraternity for over 20 years and organized many events and celebrations for his beloved Beta brothers. He was a true, crimson-blooded Coug.

Professionally, many in the community know Gary from his work in the home mortgage business, largely with Washington Mutual. Throughout his 30-year career, he helped countless families realize their dreams of home ownership. Thanks to his strong moral compass and unmatched work ethic, he built a reputation as a reliable and ethical loan officer. He applied these traits to every aspect of his life - you won't find a more pristine yard or a cleaner garage in town than Gary's.

Gary's love for his country was profound, stemming from his father's service in World War II as a combat veteran of the European theater. Sonny Marks received the Bronze Star for his bravery on Utah Beach in Normandy and the Purple Heart for multiple injuries sustained in battle. Gary didn't travel abroad until later in his life, initially preferring to explore the beauty of America's National Parks and ski resorts. He eventually became a global traveler and planned unforgettable family trips to Europe, Australia, and New Zealand. He and Lisa made a pilgrimage to Normandy to honor his father and all other veterans.

Recreationally, Gary was born to be outdoors and he enjoyed a wide variety of sports and activities. He particularly loved to ski and golf, excelling at both. On the ski hill, he was poetry in motion no matter the conditions thanks to his rigorous training as a racer. He was a member of the Whiners golf group, sharing many great times and endless laughter with his buddies for over 40 years. He organized many golf events, including annual 4th of July tournaments at the Coeur d'Alene resort where he once hit a hole-in-one on the floating green. He supported community athletic events, participating in 39 Bloomsday runs and coaching Cambrie's Hoopfest teams.

Lake Coeur d'Alene was an area that Gary cherished and was his favorite place to spend time with family and friends. He spent his formative years fishing and waterskiing at his parents' cabin in Windy Bay and eventually purchased the small but beloved cabin in Black Bay 40 years ago with Lisa. When he wasn't busying himself with projects, he could be found reading in his porch chair, captaining (or cleaning) the boat, manning the barbecue with a G&T, or enjoying a favorite pastime: a nap on the dock. He took simple pleasure in observing wildlife and was especially thrilled when he got to see a moose. Well, except for that one time...

Gary was a devoted Christian, attending Plymouth Congregational Church and, later, Summit South Hill. His longtime minister once described him as completely authentic, full of integrity, and selfless in his service to others. One of his greatest acts of love was his stem cell donation for his younger brother, Grant, whom he adored and whose admiration was mutual.

Of all his accomplishments, passions, and pursuits, nothing was more dear to him than family. Gary married the love of his life, Lisa, and they shared a remarkable 43 years together. They raised a loving family, imparting their strong values to their kids by example. He adored Lisa with his whole heart and constantly spoke of how fortunate he was to walk through life with her. His children, Cambrie and Trevor, will honor him through all of the lessons and passions he passed down to them. They will ensure that future generations of family know the legend that is Gary Marks.

Gary will be remembered for the laughter, joy, and positivity he brought to his wide network of friends and family. The radiant smile that was always on his face and in his soul will forever live on in our hearts.

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A memorial service for Gary will be held on June 13th at 3pm hosted by Summit Church, located at 1801 E. 29th Ave. in Spokane.

The family would like to thank the care teams of the Beacon Clinic in Post Falls and the Kootenai Medical Center Infusion Clinic in Coeur d' Alene for their tireless hard work and kindness to Gary and the family. Gary called them angels on earth who give so much to so many.

In lieu of flowers, the family encourages making a donation in Gary's honor to the Vitalant blood bank or one of the charities that he sponsored, including: Tunnels to Towers, Wounded Warrior Project, Second Harvest Food Bank, The City Gate, Spokanimal, First Tee, KSPS, Christ Kitchen, Union Gospel Mission, Spokane Symphony, Team Gleason and The Special Olympics. Also, please consider becoming a blood donor. It is because of so many generous blood donations that Gary was able to continue the fight.

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June 18, 2025

Shell Grossman posted to the memorial.

June 13, 2025

Frank Cholaj posted to the memorial.

June 12, 2025

Chelle Ellard posted to the memorial.

Shell Grossman

June 18, 2025

I remember Gary and the caring and kindness he gave to my husband, Sheldon
Grossman and I and I also remember how attentive and loving he was to his father.
A very beautiful legacy. Shell Grossman

Frank Cholaj

June 13, 2025

This very warm, gentle and kind sole will be dearly missed and never forgotten

Chelle Ellard

June 12, 2025

One of the kindest, genuine, respectful man I've had the honor of meeting. Your huge heart and love for family and life were unmatched and left a lasting impression. In honor of your memory and with deepest condolences, Chelle Ellard.

Linda Andrade

June 6, 2025

What a wonderful neighbor and terrific guy! He will forever be remembered in our hearts and prayers , God Bless the Marks family! Michael and Linda Andrade

Charity Schneider

June 6, 2025

I was fortunate to meet Gary through his wonderful wife, Lisa, we were tennis partners and friends. Gary´s love for Lisa and family was so evident, and I know he left this world surrounded by their love. Gary´s kindness and steady presence touched so many lives, and his memory will continue to shine through the family he adored. My deepest sympathy and condolences to Lisa and family.

Pam & Gus Zefkeles

June 5, 2025

Gary was such a shining star and will be remembered by all who had the pleasure of knowing him as a beautiful soul always ready with a broad smile and kind words. I met him through mutual friends and can only say he was truly one of a kind. Thank you Gary for always sharing your positivity and joy to everyone around you Gus and I send our love and comfort to your beautiful wife and children. May you Rest In Peace.

Jim Cramer

May 19, 2025

This epitomizes Gary for me. After being diagnosed with cancer, Gary bought 8 different vitamins and supplements to help me deal with the situation. And then he went a step further and invited me to lunch to meet a great friend of his, Tim, who had experience with the same type of cancer. It was wonderful to talk shop and especially to feel the deep caring from both Gary and Tim. It occurred at the perfect time in my journey.

Karen Stewart

May 18, 2025

The kindest soul........I will miss his cheerful ways......my love and hugs to Lisa.

Bill Ystes

May 15, 2025

Gary. I met u through Grant. We met a couple of times and I was always impressed by you. Grant truly loved you as he spoke very kindly and highly of you frequently to me. Thank you for being so kind and giving to him. You are a great human and will be missed.
Respectfully and sincerely Bill Yates.

Michael Conrad

May 15, 2025

Mr. Marks was very dedicated to his family, friends and community. I fondly remember the year he came out to the Airway Heights Fire Department to assist that community´s very important event of the "Santa Run". The children of Airway Heights looked forward to that event every year, and it was a big operation for the department. His son Trevor was my Lieutenant and this was the first time I was meeting his Father who had the very important role of being our Santa. Without any hesitation and displaying that incredible Gary Marks smile, he climbed a top the fire engine, sat in a beach chair, and let us drive him around for multiple hours in 10 degree weather as he waved to the community. Right before this picture was taken I remember asking him if he was alright since he had just been out in the cold for so long. He leaned in, put his hand on my back and said: "Now that was some fun". That was many years ago and since that night, his son Trevor has become one of my very best friends and I´ve gotten to spend some great times with Gary and Lisa Marks...and that smile of his we all love. Thank you for allowing me to be apart of your family. I love you all.

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