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Gloria J. Selvy

1947 - 2025

Gloria J. Selvy obituary, 1947-2025, Joliet, IL

BORN

1947

DIED

2025

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3200 Black at Essington Roads

Joliet, Illinois

Gloria Selvy Obituary

Gloria J. Selvy
Age 77, passed peacefully, Thursday, March 6, 2025, at Lightways Hospice Home in Joliet, IL.
Gloria was born on October 12, 1947, to the late Margaret (Senko) and Charles Michael Lambert in Joliet, where she was raised and educated. She was a graduate of Providence Catholic High School with the class of 1966.
Gloria retired from Borg Warner after many years of dedicated service. She was formerly employed at Caterpillar Inc. and when she was younger worked at McCormick Place in Chicago and for the US Post Office in Joliet.
She had a lifelong passion for music, singing in both school and church choirs. She also performed in three annual presentations of Handel's Messiah at Moraine Valley Community College, with her high school friend Marjorie Bull, and was joined by her son in the orchestra for the final performance.
Arts and crafts and anything purple were passions as well, including ceramics, cross stitch, needle point, making scarves, sewing, and many others. She spent countless hours crocheting blankets, doll dresses, and several hundred refrigerator magnet decorations for each and every holiday.
Gloria's greatest joy was her son, Ken. She always made time to take him to bowling leagues, weekly roller skating, music lessons, and religiously attended every performance from beginner band through University of Illinois halftime shows. She was delighted to continue this tradition with her grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and other extended family whenever possible. She also enjoyed time with Earl's grandchildren, Kyle, Tyler, and Katelyn. She regularly went fishing on her late husband's boat, with many trips down the Illinois River, Hayward, Wisconsin, and Lake of The Woods, Ontario.
She was blessed to have a lifelong best friend, Margie Ryan (Soji) Okabe, who always had her support in good times and bad. She often visited her family in Los Angeles and adored her boys, Ryan and Kevin Okabe.
Later in life, Gloria was cared for by her aunt, Joan Senko, and longtime friends, Anita Boe and Paula Babich.
Gloria is the beloved mother of Kenneth Burman; loving grandmother of Nathan, Caleb and Aren; sister of David (Dawn) Lambert; aunt of Hope Lipke, Cortney, Matthew (Amanda), Michael (Katy), and Megan Lambert .
She is preceded in death by her beloved husband, Earl Selvy; her parents; and brother, Charles M. Lambert, Jr.
As it was Gloria's request, cremation rites have been accorded.
All friends and relatives are invited to gather at the Fred C. Dames Funeral Home, 3200 Black Rd. (at Essington Rd), Joliet, on Saturday, March 22, 2025, from 1:00 p.m. until her memorial service, beginning at 5:00 p.m. She will be entombed at Resurrection Cemetery, Romeoville, where she will be laid to rest with her parents.
For more information please call (815) 741-5500 or visit her Memorial Tribute at www.fredcdames.com where you can share a favorite memory or leave a condolence.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Herald-News on Mar. 15, 2025.

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Anita Boe

March 21, 2025

It has been my very good fortune and a huge blessing to count Gloria among my very dearest friends.We met many years ago when she and her young son Ken moved to the St.Pat's neighborhood, and we just "clicked". We became lifelong friends, sharing just about everything two close friends can share in life.We laughed and cried together, worried about our kids, and celebrated their successes.We had keys to one another's houses; we carpooled our kids to school. We walked together for health and exercise, speed walking 3 miles nearly every day for years, come rain or shine. To say I have felt extremely blessed by Gloria's unwavering friendship is an understatement. She is the kind of friend that just doesn't come along every day,the kind of friend that you hold on tightly to, and don't let go. My heart is broken, for God has taken Gloria from our physical world. This world is the poorer for her passing, but Heaven is all the richer for her presence. I know her very bright light is shining brightly in Heaven. Gloria,I will hold on to the precious friendship that you and I had,and I won't let it go, even though you aren't here now. You will be in my heart forever. My heart,and very deepest sympathy goes out to Kenneth, Jessica, Nathan, Caleb, and Aren,and to the rest of Gloria's family. I am praying that God and your precious memories can bring you some measure of comfort ,and I am so deeply sorry for your loss.Your Mom and Grandmother was one in a million,and always will be.

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